hers Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 Apply pressure as you slide down, as the hole is at the bottom of the slit. what she said! and by the time you get to the hole, it should go in easily and naturally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catdancer Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 Well, you know we're just a bunch of pervs. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrvaughn Posted April 8, 2010 Author Share Posted April 8, 2010 next question then...eating a girl out - do i simply move apart the vaginal lips? or is there no need? I've heard two techniques. 1: the alphabet...variations of using tongue to spell out the alphabet eg 1st a 2nd r 3rd p 4th c and so on? another is sucking...rather than licking - sucking is better. Is this true? Also exposing the clit...whats the best way to do this and how best to stimulate? (lots of questions today, lol) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 No need to spread them apart. It comes apart on its own. Also no need to do the alphabet...you don't need to concentratae that much. Every girl likes something different so ask her how she likes it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Mile Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 Hey at least you're 26 and slept with 4 women, try being 25 and the number being 0! But I've enjoyed reading these tips, I hope I remember it all for my first time (should it ever happen...) As for bum hair, I have a light covering of soft downy very light hair on my ass cheeks - is this a problem for girls? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maggie_rae Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 I personally dont care either way. I think the way you are now is fine. If your in a lot of doubt. I would just wax it all off. You cant go wrong that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 Green mile, of course it's not a problem for girls. Like I said before, I've never stopped in the middle of getting down with a guy to count the numbers of hairs on his ass. Have some confidence!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KG Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 No need to spread them apart. It comes apart on its own. Also no need to do the alphabet...you don't need to concentratae that much. Every girl likes something different so ask her how she likes it. I disagree. The aphabet has always worked for me. "More B, more B." LOL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anggrace Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 I disagree. The aphabet has always worked for me. "More B, more B." LOL! Ahh haahaa! I like the "Z"... OP: As far as how to do oral, every girl will like different things. Not knowing this girl doesn't make you inexperienced in general, it just makes you inexperienced with HER. When I was single, there was nothing less attractive than being with a new guy who thought he knew it all when it came to my body or one who assumed he knew what I liked without really paying attention to ME as an individual. My body, the way I responded, etc. It's OKAY to not know this girl or what she likes like the back of your hand. And chances are VERY likely that she will feel the same way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catdancer Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 Regarding oral. I agree with the others to try different things. But I will say that what makes me cum everytime is sucking the clit. And once I start making loud "oh yeah" noises, slide a finger or two inside my vagina and do the "come here" motion to stroke the gspot and I go through the roof. I realize not every woman likes this, but it's something to think about and try. Just dont concentrate so hard on the alphabet that you block out her. Listen to her, the noises and sounds she makes. Before you do oral on her, tell her to tell you when it feels good and not to stop. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarmiteCrumpet Posted April 10, 2010 Share Posted April 10, 2010 Ahh haahaa! I like the "Z"... OP: As far as how to do oral, every girl will like different things. Not knowing this girl doesn't make you inexperienced in general, it just makes you inexperienced with HER. When I was single, there was nothing less attractive than being with a new guy who thought he knew it all when it came to my body or one who assumed he knew what I liked without really paying attention to ME as an individual. My body, the way I responded, etc. I agree. The emptiest vessels etc... I often roll my eyes when I read girls proclaiming that they "give the best head". Oh yeah? As if there is only one way of doing things and that what pleased your last guy will automatically please the next. Those sort of people - male and female - are too self-absorbed to even think about *gasp* asking what their partner wants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 next question then...eating a girl out - do i simply move apart the vaginal lips? or is there no need? I've heard two techniques. 1: the alphabet...variations of using tongue to spell out the alphabet eg 1st a 2nd r 3rd p 4th c and so on? another is sucking...rather than licking - sucking is better. Is this true? Also exposing the clit...whats the best way to do this and how best to stimulate? (lots of questions today, lol) sucking and exposing the clit depends on the girl. I like the first, hate the second. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Puddincup Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 sucking and exposing the clit depends on the girl. I like the first, hate the second. I'll second that. ouch! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iBroken Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 I wouldnt worry too much on the oral front. Its rather simple to do. I personally wouldnt do the alphabet but thats probably because I have never heard, done or experienced it myself..... What i suggest is going through the cycle of various techniques to see what she reacts too. Start with soft slow licks, then rapid on the clit maybe, then mix some slow licks with sucking the clit, or rapid licks with sucking and so on and so on. Maybe try sticking a finger inside and resting it on her g spot while licking blah blah blah. Dont be tooooooo random about it. Like dont do each technique for 5 seconds and then move on. Try it and if you dont get a response by moan, girating of the hips etc, then move on to another technique after a minute or so. Take mental notes of what she reacts the most to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarmiteCrumpet Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Good tips there. Oh, but please, don't call it "eating her out". Ugh. Just joking, but it would turn me right off if someone said "can I eat you out?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Good tips there. Oh, but please, don't call it "eating her out". Ugh. Just joking, but it would turn me right off if someone said "can I eat you out?" Ugh same here!!! I can't stand when guys call it that. Same when they call their penis the D word. It takes some of the classiness out of sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarmiteCrumpet Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Ugh same here!!! I can't stand when guys call it that. Same when they call their penis the D word. It takes some of the classiness out of sex. Lol. It's funny what words mean to different people isn't it? There are other words that a lot of women hate to hear during sex, that I absolutely love ... e.g. the "c" word and being called a wh0re etc. I never use those words apart from during sex, which is probably why I find them hot. But words like " * * * * " sound comical to me. And, as I said, the "eating out" thing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hers Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Lol. It's funny what words mean to different people isn't it? There are other words that a lot of women hate to hear during sex, that I absolutely love ... e.g. the "c" word and being called a wh0re etc. I never use those words apart from during sex, which is probably why I find them hot. But words like " * * * * " sound comical to me. And, as I said, the "eating out" thing i say the C word for penis all the time. it's the word i prefer to use when talking about the penis during sex, or i'll just say penis. i hate the D word for penis though (language filter won't allow us to write it). it just sounds immature to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KG Posted April 11, 2010 Share Posted April 11, 2010 Good tips there. Oh, but please, don't call it "eating her out". Ugh. Just joking, but it would turn me right off if someone said "can I eat you out?" How is this different than "I want to suck your------------?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrvaughn Posted April 11, 2010 Author Share Posted April 11, 2010 By the by...The date went well Didn't sleep together though. We are going to the movies next Sat. She's a decent girl, but i'm only moderately attracted to her. She is a good looking girl though, that's for sure. I guess feelings and attraction grow together don't they? e.g. there was a girl in work i had zero attraction to initially, and then I fell in love with her, lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarmiteCrumpet Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 How is this different than "I want to suck your------------?" It just is To me, anyway. Similarly the expression "plating" has the same effect on me. As I said, different words/expressions have different effects on people. No rhyme or reason is there? hersmuderrs: When I said the "C" word, I meant the word for the vagina! How funny that the word "D1ck" is censored. What about the people whose name is "D1ck"??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HouseKitten Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Similarly the expression "plating" has the same effect on me. Now what the hell is plating? mrvaughn - sometimes attraction kind of.... cultivates? Like you spend one day with a person and you're like 'shmeh', then you see them a couple of times and eventually you realise you actually find them pretty attractive. On the other hand, it might be a sign you're not clicking with her, but it's far too early to tell! Keep us updated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blindfold Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 veiny arms are cool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarmiteCrumpet Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Now what the hell is plating? Plating = eating out = Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greywolf Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 I've never heard of plating. How un-sexy sounding... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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