epson391 Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 I dont understand what my ex is doing, here is her recent activity and you tell me what you think April 3rd - Wishes me Happy Birthday April 4th - Spends the Whole day on easter with the new boyfriend and her whole family approves of him. April 5th - Facebook Statement that she is joining the military April 6th - She Breaks NC with me that lasted 1 month since the breakup and texts me this ... "ok people have been telling me to wait to talk to you but sorry i cant. i dont expect a response and ill be surprised if you even read this. im not trying to get you back im not right now i know thats out of the question i hurt you so many times and im really sorry i really am. i should have talked to you i know that you were my boyfriend and that you were there but i dunno rough few months i guess. my ass is in therapy now yay hopefully rhat will help im hoping. but i just wanted to say im really sorry.. i have seen your happy and im glad but honestly im going crazy i lost my best friend annd it sucks i dont talk to you but im hopinng we will be in a spot where we can talk again. im sorry (myname) i really am and honestly im hoping the next lady in your life treats you good the way you deserve - I have not contacted her before or after this text. April 7th - Tells a mutual friend she was "raging" and delete me and like 6 of mutual friends that she meet through me off facebook. April 8th - Found out from her sister that she is depressed cause she lost all her friends and feels alone. Link to comment
iBroken Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 What is your question - does she want you back? No, doesnt sound like it....sounds like she was getting her closure. Link to comment
epson391 Posted April 8, 2010 Author Share Posted April 8, 2010 Why would she be deleting all of her friends as well Link to comment
epson391 Posted April 8, 2010 Author Share Posted April 8, 2010 I forgot to mention she did delete her best friend as well Link to comment
Sanesoul Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 It sounds to me like she got pissed that you didn't respond to her "heartfelt" text and is acting like a child. Link to comment
epson391 Posted April 8, 2010 Author Share Posted April 8, 2010 Thats sort of what i was thinking .... and just to let everyone know, she has a large history of playing games. Link to comment
iBroken Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 What does her deleting her friends have to do with you and her? or you? I think you are reading too much into nothing. I agree with insane heart - she didnt get a reaction and is acting out....but that doesnt mean she wants to get back together. She as the dumper probably was trying to show that she felt bad about things...and when you didnt respond, it sent her into a frenzy. Link to comment
epson391 Posted April 8, 2010 Author Share Posted April 8, 2010 Your probably right, but I just dont get it I feel so low right now. Link to comment
iBroken Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 Dont feel low about it Her passive aggressive behaviour implies that she has been thinking of contacting you for sometime about apologizing. It goes to show you are on her mind and in her thoughts. Her acting out is because you didnt reply. But if you somehow start to feel sorry for her and think about contacting her because she has been thinking about you, dont. Re-read her message. She doesnt want to get back together with you.....contact at this point is unnecessary. Good luck Link to comment
mikeyx22 Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 She has her own set of problems, but it does seem like she wants to get back together...I'd guess there was a very good reason you broke up, probably something to do with the aforementioned "games" and passive-aggressive behavior. Leave it at that, I'd hate to see you or anyone caught up in that type of stuff =/ Link to comment
epson391 Posted April 8, 2010 Author Share Posted April 8, 2010 Actually there was no real reason, if you have read the grass is greener syndrome thread, it discribes her perfectly. She just up and left one day. Link to comment
mikeyx22 Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 well, I haven't read it (don't know what or where it is, I'm kind of new here) but I mean typically people want some type of stability in a relationship so I'd just leave her be ^^ her life and her feelings are her issues, not yours Link to comment
FrenchFries Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 She's going through therapy so she's probably gonna be up and down with her moods for awhile. Leave her alone to work that stuff out. Maybe she will contact you after she's made some progress. She does not sound like she should be with anyone right now. Link to comment
epson391 Posted April 8, 2010 Author Share Posted April 8, 2010 She's going through therapy so she's probably gonna be up and down with her moods for awhile. Leave her alone to work that stuff out. Maybe she will contact you after she's made some progress. She does not sound like she should be with anyone right now. Thats exactly how I feel, she needs sometime to discover herself but she of course ran to another guy with days of the breakup! Link to comment
Jezz143 Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 Sounds like she is having a hard time dealing with her emotions. Some people close themselves completely off, and shut out everyone. And the fact that you didn't answer her message is probably what set her off. She will be ok and she will get over it. Link to comment
mikeyx22 Posted April 8, 2010 Share Posted April 8, 2010 Thats exactly how I feel, she needs sometime to discover herself but she of course ran to another guy with days of the breakup! I think you already know you need/want nothing to do with somebody who's like that Link to comment
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