What to do?

[Struggling23]

So I moved to a new area like 6 months ago, taking the bus in the morning there was this extremely hot girl there every morning.

 

I'm extremely extremely shy so I said nothing, after 3 months out of nowhere she asked me if I want to sit beside her I said no I'm ok (yes I'm a idiot), and then she started to talk about the weather her working out etc., I just froze like wow a hot girl is talking to me like a loser.

 

She talked to me a few more times just here and there and then started taking another bus. Then last week I was just on facebook adding fan pages and poof there she was, I would be looked at like the biggest stalker in the world if I added her right?

[Catdancer]

I would add her and send her a message saying "hi, it's me (insert name) from the morning bus ride. I cant believe I ran into you on here. How has life been treating you?"

[sidehop]

Ya, don't add her that way.

 

Don't put her on a pedestal either, she may be 'hot' but she's a person. Pretend she's your long time friend, nothing else, whatever it makes you feel comfortable talking to people.

 

Are you this way with strangers in general or just girls?

[Kraegorn]

you sure would, it's downright creepy. i'd rather use facebook as a conversation getter (as a strange coincidence) when you bump into her again.

 

you'll scare less birds away if you walk toward them steadily.

[Theblueman123]

Haha just flirt with her or something don't just sit there man.