i need help....

[finzap]

I asked out my ex-girlfriend back in the beginning of december, and said yes. Everything was going awsome, until about 3 weeks into it where we had some minor disagreements, nothing really big. Ironically, 3 days after christmas, I suffered from a really nasty broken leg. I didn't attend school for almost 2 straight months and since in the horrible condition I was in, I talked to almost nobody. She came over a couple times to hang out during my absence, only for a couple hours at a time. Apparently, while I was gone, she got real close to a freshman who is almost 5 years younger than us. When I finally came back to school, I got really suspicious of them. Whenever I hung out with them, she paid less attention to me, no matter how hard I tried to get in the conversations, or tried to fit back in. After 2 months of this, she said she wanted a “break”, and says were too different at this time, and to “wait for better times”. And it turns out that she and her friend she got close to seem like their dating. I know relationships like that, with age gaps that big, usually don't last, but I want her back like crazy. We still talk to each other and still after all that's happened, she says she still loves me. I don't want to do anything stupid or anything, but I need to know: what the hell should I do before it's too late?!

[Tony01]

tbh m8 i think you should go get her you seem to really like her and this is the thing you never know if you dont try you will regret it if you dont so i think you should go for it

[finzap]

i tried, and all she says is lets be friends first...

[Tony01]

then i would ask her if there would be any chance of you and her getting back together

[HeartGoesOn]

It sounds like "wait for better times" means, "wait while I try out this new guy, and if it doesn't work out, I'll be back." She's putting you on the shelf, instead of just telling you the truth. I would re-think this, and decide whether you could trust her again. Also, she can't miss you if you're right there in front of her.