i need help.

[luckyu]

Hi ok i need help i tried looking and cant find anything about it but could someone please help me. i need to know of what mental hospitols(asylums/ w/e exactly there called) are in michigan. and if they costanything and if they do if medicade will coverthem.

[eggplant47]

Hi ok i need help i tried looking and cant find anything about it but could someone please help me. i need to know of what mental hospitols(asylums/ w/e exactly there called) are in michigan. and if they costanything and if they do if medicade will coverthem.

 

Here are some State funded Hospitals in MI

 

Caro Center

2000 Chambers Rd, Caro, MI

989-673-6749

 

Kalamazoo Psychiatric Hospital

1312 Oakland Dr, Kalamazoo,MI

269-337-3000

 

Walter Reuther Psychiatric Hospital

30901 Palmer Rd, Westland,MI

734-367-8400

 

I believe if it is a State run Hospital they are obligated to take & treat you whether you have insurance or not. This info is from http://www.michigan.gov. Good luck!

[luckyu]

thank you.

[eggplant47]

You're welcome! I hope they can help.

[luckyu]

i hope so to....its scareing me

[luckyu]

i wanan say y i need hee help but i dont want to be judjed...as it is im most likely gonna be judjed when i tell my family

[eggplant47]

i wanan say y i need hee help but i dont want to be judjed...as it is im most likely gonna be judjed when i tell my family

 

There is nothing wrong with needing help & it takes a strong person to say they do. But if you're not comfortable telling your family at this time, why not just make the call on your own to a facility?

[luckyu]

xuz my family worries alot about me....and ill need a ride there

[luckyu]

im about 200 miles from the on in Kalamazoo...thats the one i wanan go to

[luckyu]

ok i talked to a friend about going and she said i ws ver reacting and that ill be fine.....but i need more opions.....for the past 4 yrs ive had thoughts on rapeing/abuseing women...and ive acted on on them twice....both girls forgave me for it but i still have the thoughts alot and it scares me i dont want to hurt women but its like when the thoughts and all happen i have no control over myself like someones took over me....do i accuatly need to go or am i over reacting? imso confused

[eggplant47]

im about 200 miles from the on in Kalamazoo...thats the one i wanan go to

 

I would talk via phone to the administrator at the Hospital and get all the information you need. Then approach the family member you're closet too with your plan.

[luckyu]

What do i do?

i told my friend i was gonna go there and now shes saying that if i leave her shed hurt herself......do i jus stay and not go and hope things just naturally get better when i know they most likely wont or go and risk things to go wrong with her?

[eggplant47]

What do i do?

i told my friend i was gonna go there and now shes saying that if i leave her shed hurt herself......do i jus stay and not go and hope things just naturally get better when i know they most likely wont or go and risk things to go wrong with her?

 

No, you are in crisis yourself. You can't take care of her until you take care of you. It's emotional blackmail for her to have said this to you... but she also is experiencing some emotional trouble so she can be forgiven. Why not try to persuade her to get help with you?

 

If she won't you still need to seek treatment for yourself asap.

[luckyu]

are these thoughts and acting out in two occasions on them bad or could it be like a phase that could pass...i had them for 4yrs now and i got counseling it didnt help....did bunc of dif drugs n cut myself a for a while(and still do) but they dont seem to help

[eggplant47]

are these thoughts and acting out in two occasions on them bad or could it be like a phase that could pass...i had them for 4yrs now and i got counseling it didnt help....did bunc of dif drugs n cut myself a for a while(and still do) but they dont seem to help

 

Whatever problems you're having are clearly upsetting/stressing you enough that you need to be seen by a professional asap. I think you should call the hospital tomorrow and see what kind of treatment they suggest.

[luckyu]

My friend don't want me to go, she said I will be fine. And i don't want to lose her, I love her to much and i know she just wants me around so that's why she don't want me to go(were dating). just wish she would understand that I'm doing this to help make sure i never hurt he. I told her that and she said "I love you and i know you love me to so i trust you not to hurt me" but for some reason i can't trust myself. But I guess I'm not going and if something goes wrong oh well I guess. I just want her to be happy and if me staying keeps her happy then that's good. I'll most likely regret this decision down the road, I know. I guess ill just have to keep doing drugs and cutting, and hope they help. I don't want to hurt her though, emotionally or physically so this is really tough for me.

[eggplant47]

You must get help. What you have done is not ok, nor is it acceptable to wait and hope it will pass.

 

As for your current girlfriend, someone who truly loved you would value your health enough to let you go to receive treatment. And I can't help but thinkt that if you truly loved her, you would not be will to say "oh well" in regards to her safety. There is a possibility that you will only be there for a couple of weeks & that the rest of your treatment will be out patient.

[eggplant47]

If you won't go to/call the Hospital or a Dr. at least call one of these:

 

Teen Crisis Hotline: 1-800-729-8336

 

Mental Health Crisis line: 1-800-273-8255

 

Both lines are 24hrs a day, free of charge & you can remain anonymous if you like.