I need to get this off my chest.

[Memory]

I'm sorry for basically posting a spam topic, but I can't quite type properly at the moment and I need some support. Long story short, I found out my fiancée cheated on me. I'm just at a loss for words, broken, and everything. I feel broken and her apologies juste cho through my head. I haven't cried so bad since I can remember, how pathetic.

[Vince99]

That isn't pathetic.

[CC141]

There's a reason for everything, find out whats up and work through it.

[Staple]

Hang in there man, it is one of the most painful experiences and you will cry and feel it for months if not years, but you need to hang on. Cut her off. Don't make the mistake I made (I stayed with her and regretted it, once a cheater, always a cheater).

[HouseKitten]

I'm sorry this has happened to you.

 

It's going to hurt for a while. Don't feel like you need to excuse yourself, or that's pathetic. You're in pain, that's the end of it.

 

Better that you found out now, than after you'd married her.

[sidehop]

I'm very sorry to hear about this and I agree with HouseKitten, on a brighter side you know the person she is, not the person to settle down for the rest of your life. Stay strong.

[snoop]

Dude hang in there, I had the same thing happen to me with my ex fiancee 3 months ago. things happen, what you should tell yourself is at least you know now before marrying her, if she cheated she doesnt deserve you, try to move on, it is not easy at all, i was devastated and i am still affected by it. there is no easy way to deal with it, just stay away from her, she hurt you with her selfishness and lame behavior. I know it is the worst feeling ever, you feel violated, hurt, extermely disappointed and all your dreams and plans you made are destroyed in a matter of days....this is reality, but you will need to deal with it, be a man about it. get her out of your life and keep NC. thats what I did because I knew i would never and can never forgive that behavior. you had good intentions with her and you proposed, she didnt respect that, forget about her.

[Jd1983]

I'm so sorry that you're going through this right now.

 

You are not pathetic at all.

 

I know it's hard, but she is definitely not worth your time.

 

Hang in there.

[faithful14]

I'm sorry your fiancee cheated on you.

 

She doesn't deserve you at all.

 

It's not pathetic how you feel at all and don't ever feel that way.

 

Just know that you can come here and vent to us about everything you are thinking and feeling.

[Staple]

Hope you're doing okay=(

[07071970]

Yes, update please.

[arcadefire]

I've been in your shoes before. A swarm of negative emotions you never thought possible will wash through you. This is completely normal because you have been betrayed. I know it's hard to think straight, but what you need to do is break up with her asap and try as much as you can to move on with your life. I know it's easier said than done, but we here have lived through betrayal like this before.

[Staple]

Yes do not stay with her, I promise you that its a painful thing to do. Leave her now.