greywolf Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 What if your husband has very sadistic tendencies. Would you be willing to compromise on that? Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 My mom agrees with me and she's not a virgin. Your mom and dad also never have sex. Nor do they have any other friends. You said this in another thread. Link to comment
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 What if your husband has very sadistic tendencies. Would you be willing to compromise on that? Now you're making me sick... Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 My mom agrees with me and she's not a virgin. She also doesn't have a healthy sexual life. Link to comment
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Your mom and dad also never have sex. Nor do they have any other friends. You said this in another thread. You won't someday either... Link to comment
Taikero Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 That's why you work on stuff like that once you're married. He can learn and vice versa. I only want to learn with him, though. You're not going to break me. I will fight you to the death on this. Want an example of some incompatibility you might run into? This isn't even all that out there. It's not about learning. Sometimes you just prefer and want and need different things and you're not compatible and it breaks the relationship in half. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 You won't someday either... Nope. Sure as heck won't. Neither do any married couples I know. Any happily married, that is. Link to comment
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 She also doesn't have a healthy sexual life. Excuse me? Who are you to judge that? They've been together 25 years and I don't see them ever splitting up. Link to comment
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 that's not sexual incompatibility, that's a messed up individual. Not the same thing I'm talking about. Link to comment
Taikero Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Excuse me? Who are you to judge that? They've been together 25 years and I don't see them ever splitting up. Whether or not they split up has no bearing on their sexual life. You said their sexual life was nonexistent. That is the epitome of an unhealthy sex life because it's totally dead! Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Ok, I get it know. So you think that only normal people have vanilla sex and that everyone else is disgusting and twisted, huh? Unfortunately, there are plenty of people out there who are absolutely normal but have a little kink in bed. Link to comment
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Whether or not they split up has no bearing on their sexual life. You said their sexual life was nonexistent. That is the epitome of an unhealthy sex life because it's totally dead! Yeah, they are also 55, it's called getting old. Link to comment
Taikero Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 that's not sexual incompatibility, that's a messed up individual. Not the same thing I'm talking about. "I figured all the other great qualities about him could out way my feelings toward this fetish, so I tried to suck it up. He also thought he could just not do it as much and not do it while I was around. A couple months after revealing his secret he proposed marriage. He had been persistent in his interest in me and was an otherwise great guy, so I said yes. We then ended up getting married pretty quickly. By the time we got married we knew each other one year. Throughout the marriage I have found myself feeling quite resentful about his fetish. Since he knows how I feel about it, he doesn’t do it in front of me, but will wait until I leave the house or when he’s on a trip. So it ends up seeming like he can’t wait to be alone, because as soon as he is he breaks out the diapers." His sexual need to use diapers to get off caused their marriage of 5 years to come to this. She thought love would conquer all, and yet it was defeated by Huggies and Pampers. That is EXACTLY what we're talking about. That is sexual incompatibility and what it can do to a relationship! Link to comment
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Ok, I get it know. So you think that only normal people have vanilla sex and that everyone else is disgusting and twisted, huh? Unfortunately, there are plenty of people out there who are absolutely normal but have a little kink in bed. I wouldn't call that "kinky"... Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Yeah, they are also 55, it's called getting old. My mom is turning 55 this year. She still has sex. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Yeah, they are also 55, it's called getting old. 55 isn't that old. People in nursing homes still have sex. When you get old, you don't just lose your sexuality. Link to comment
DreamerGirl27 Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 I'm talking to a bunch of freaks... Link to comment
Taikero Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Yeah, they are also 55, it's called getting old. They made Viagra specifically for the 65 and up crowd. That pill alone is a billion dollar industry. That's a lot of old people having sex. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 I'm talking to a bunch of freaks... Yep. It's everyone else's problem. You have had a thread full of people telling you that sex matters. You're the odd one out. If anyone is a freak here... Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 I find that people who resort to name-calling usually don't have much of an argument to stand on. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Way to get the poor guy's thread closed guys. Dreamergirl I suggest you make your own thread! Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Way to get the poor guy's thread closed guys. Dreamergirl I suggest you make your own thread! Yeah, sorry Lightbulb. Hopefully you are feeling better and got some good answers. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Way to get the poor guy's thread closed guys. Dreamergirl I suggest you make your own thread! Yeah...had to bail pretty early seeing what was going on in LBS's thread. Poeple rub Buddah's round belly and head for good luck, what sort of luck would you get if you could rub his butt? Link to comment
IphigeniaSaysHi Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 I find that people who resort to name-calling usually don't have much of an argument to stand on. And Bingo was his name-o. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted April 1, 2010 Share Posted April 1, 2010 Oh boy Why haven't I put my .02 here yet? I'm not going to play the role of the referee but I will answer the question best to my knowledge and that is no your not making to big of a deal about sex. I think that all virgins wonder if they do at somepoint and the older they get the more worried they become. Its very natural to feel this way in my opinion. No man wants to remain a virgin until he's like 30 years old, any woman will have to give him the once over look and be like whats wrong with him? Why hasn't he had sex yet?. As long as your not allowing it to define you and your overall personalitly. if it does then I could see why you would. Link to comment
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