Am I making too big of a deal about sex?

[DreamerGirl27]

Actually, that's a really dumb thing to do as inflation is faster than interest rates.

 

 

Uhhh....okay, that's how all the rock stars in hollywood do it, that's how all millionaires do it.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Uhhh....okay, that's how all the rock stars in hollywood do it, that's how all millionaires do it.

 

No, they typically pump their money right back into the system to make themselves some more money. They buy businesses or they use it to advertise themselves.

[DreamerGirl27]

Do you see them broke and living in crapville?

[DreamerGirl27]

No, they typically pump their money right back into the system to make themselves some more money. They buy businesses or they use it to advertise themselves.

 

 

 

 

If you say so...

[Taikero]

Clearly I'm also smarter with money than you. I wouldn't donate crap to charity. I wouldn't give my friends or family (maybe my parents) money, and if I didn't, they'd still be in my life. I would blow it on a new wardrobe that would cost me about 500 bucks in one trip to the mall...oh wait, I already have all the clothes I want, so scratch that, I probably wouldn't even do that.

 

I'd invest it/save it and live off the interest of it like a smart person would do and I'd be set for life.

 

and yes, I can say I would not enjoy escargot. Nor would I ever try it.

 

My point with these examples is they're different from YOUR experience. That is not how I would personally handle a million either. It's an example of how someone foolish with money might handle a million dollars, and it would be different and more impulsive than what you would do. Just imagine if you had to share your million with someone that impulsive with money. THAT'S what sex can be like with someone incompatible with you.

 

And just like sex, you don't KNOW about escargot either. You THINK you wouldn't like it, but you don't know that you wouldn't. It's a completely foreign experience to you, just like sex.

 

You know how you said you preferred guy 3's kiss to guy 2's kiss, though you felt more for guy 2 and "a kiss is just a kiss"? Even in your limited experience you found a preference, though a mild one, between two different people's lips and kissing techniques.

[greywolf]

What if your boyfriend/husband really wanted to try escargot?

[DreamerGirl27]

Yeah, and my preference is I prefer the one I was in love with mentally and emotionally over the hot, buff dude who kissed better.

 

What is your point?

[Taikero]

Yeah, and my preference is I prefer the one I was in love with mentally and emotionally over the hot, buff dude who kissed better.

 

What is your point?

 

My point is you preferred the hot buff dude's kiss and that kiss was a better or more preferred experience for you than the kiss(es) you had with the person you were in love with.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Yeah, and my preference is I prefer the one I was in love with mentally and emotionally over the hot, buff dude who kissed better.

 

What is your point?

 

But, even with this tiny thing, you still preferred kissing with one person than another. So, there is a difference. Kissing isn't kissing just like sex isn't all just sex. Not every two people will have the same experience.

 

Now throw in guy number 2 being not just a slightly less better kisser but being a horrible kisser. Oh, and make it sex, not kissing. Now you're committed to a man who can't satisfy you for the rest of your life. Love won't be of much condolences.

[Sparkly Eyes]

I don't understand why we keep trying to convince dreamergirl since clearly she doesn't want to listen to us. Sooner or later she will have some experience and she will find out for herself how incompatibility in sex feels like.

[DreamerGirl27]

But, even with this tiny thing, you still preferred kissing with one person than another. So, there is a difference. Kissing isn't kissing just like sex isn't all just sex. Not every two people will have the same experience.

 

Now throw in guy number 2 being not just a slightly less better kisser but being a horrible kisser. Oh, and make it sex, not kissing. Now you're committed to a man who can't satisfy you for the rest of your life. Love won't be of much condolences.

 

 

This is where you're wrong.

 

I would prefer to kiss guy number 2 over guy number 3 any day, because I actually felt something for guy number 2. I felt NOTHING for guy number 3, but a fleeting bit of physical fun for 2 seconds. SEX is what won't be much of a condolence in the long run. Love will always be enough.

[DreamerGirl27]

This is where you're wrong.

 

I would prefer to kiss guy number 2 over guy number 3 any day, because I actually felt something for guy number 2. I felt NOTHING for guy number 3, but a fleeting bit of physical fun for 2 seconds. SEX is what won't be much of a condolence in the long run. Love will always be enough.

 

I don't spend countless amounts of hours thinking about guy number 3 like I do guy number 2. I'm not OBSESSED with guy number 3, because he happened to kiss me "better" than guy number 2.

 

I will always LOVE guy number 2 because that is where my heart is. If you don't have love, you don't have anything.

 

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news to all you horny people on here.

[Cognitive_Canine]

I don't spend countless amounts of hours thinking about guy number 3 like I do guy number 2. I'm not OBSESSED with guy number 3, because he happened to kiss me "better" than guy number 2.

 

I will always LOVE guy number 2 because that is where my heart is. If you don't have love, you don't have anything.

 

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news to all you horny people on here.

 

I'm laughing now.

 

I just hope for you and your husband's sake that you don't come accross being sexually incompatible.

[Taikero]

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news to all you horny people on here.

 

What if the person you decide to have sex with is even hornier than we are and wants sex 5 times a day?

 

What if he likes whips?

 

What if he can't come to a satisfying orgasm unless you whip him until each butt cheek burns fiery red?

 

Will your love be enough for him?

 

 

This is a two way street here. Maybe love will conquer all for you. I just hope you find a partner who has the same viewpoint if you actually do end up sexually incompatible, otherwise you're going to find out the hard way love doesn't fix everything.

[DreamerGirl27]

There's no such thing as sexual incompatibility, unless you are a guy trying to get a girl in bed who doesn't want to go to bed with you.

 

Guy number 3 doesn't make me laugh uncontrollably. Guy number 3 doesn't make me cry uncontrollably. Guy number 3 doesn't make me feel ANYTHING. He can kiss me 18 million times, I would not care. My heart and soul will always long for guy number 2.

[Cognitive_Canine]

There's no such thing as sexual incompatibility, unless you are a guy trying to get a girl in bed who doesn't want to go to bed with you.

 

Guy number 3 doesn't make me laugh uncontrollably. Guy number 3 doesn't make me cry uncontrollably. Guy number 3 doesn't make me feel ANYTHING. He can kiss me 18 million times, I would not care. My heart and soul will always long for guy number 2.

 

Again, what are you basing this off of?

[greywolf]

There's no such thing as sexual incompatibility, unless you are a guy trying to get a girl in bed who doesn't want to go to bed with you.

 

Oh yes there is. Not every guy is ok with me tying him up and hitting him with a paddle, or being my pet.

[Taikero]

There's no such thing as sexual incompatibility, unless you are a guy trying to get a girl in bed who doesn't want to go to bed with you.

 

Guy number 3 doesn't make me laugh uncontrollably. Guy number 3 doesn't make me cry uncontrollably. Guy number 3 doesn't make me feel ANYTHING. He can kiss me 18 million times, I would not care. My heart and soul will always long for guy number 2.

 

What if guy number 3 with his sexual technique and preferences could make your toes curl uncontrollably, your hands grip the sheets, your muscles spasm from ecstasy?

 

What if for all the feelings you have for guy number 2, there's no foreplay and he writhes on top of you for 2 minutes and he's done. You felt nothing after the first 30 seconds because you happen to be (this is theoretical, remember) among the many women who can't orgasm through just intercourse, but can through clitoral stimulation. Unfortunately, guy number 2 doesn't care about that and won't do it, so you're stuck either doing nothing or masturbating to achieve orgasm.

 

 

You think we're all crazy here but this could actually happen.

[DreamerGirl27]

Again, what are you basing this off of?

 

 

My own experience. I am in love with my friend right now who could care less because he thinks like you people and only wants sex.

 

He's also young and immature and that's what most guys want at his age...

 

He's made me laugh, just with little things like the way he flips his hair... and well, I'm not going to get into it, because I don't want to describe him, but I've spent time getting to know him. He makes me feel something. That's my crush I'm talking about...

 

Guy number 2 I was talking about, is the sweetest, kindest, gentlest most awesome guy I have ever known, respects me, respected the fact and asked me if I wanted him to stop when he was kissing me. Drove an hour and a half to take me out...knew me since I was 16, talked to me like a friend (while letting me know he liked me).

 

Guy number 3 I met in a bar, while he was at least apart of our group of friends, he still kissed me in a surprise attack after meeting me one hour before. He openly called himself an * * * * * * * , in front of me, the next day. Now, physically, I guess you could say I enjoyed his kissing more, but I was thinking of my current crush the entire time and wishing like hell I could be with him, whether I liked his kissing or not either.

 

I care far more how someone treats me than whether or not I like their kissing. Guy number 2 is a skinny little twig, (so is my crush as a matter of fact) no muscle, cute face however, but not even the cutest and didn't kiss as well as guy number 3, but you think I'm going to let that decide who I'm going to be with?

 

Now I'M laughing.

[DreamerGirl27]

What if guy number 3 with his sexual technique and preferences could make your toes curl uncontrollably, your hands grip the sheets, your muscles spasm from ecstasy?

 

What if for all the feelings you have for guy number 2, there's no foreplay and he writhes on top of you for 2 minutes and he's done. You felt nothing after the first 30 seconds because you happen to be (this is theoretical, remember) among the many women who can't orgasm through just intercourse, but can through clitoral stimulation. Unfortunately, guy number 2 doesn't care about that and won't do it, so you're stuck either doing nothing or masturbating to achieve orgasm.

 

 

You think we're all crazy here but this could actually happen.

 

 

That's why you work on stuff like that once you're married. He can learn and vice versa. I only want to learn with him, though. You're not going to break me. I will fight you to the death on this.

[HouseKitten]

For someone who declared herself out, you sure are making a lot of noise.

 

You don't have any experience. A crush on a boy who doesn't like you as more than a friend is not the same as having experienced both good sex and sexual incompatibility.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Oh, you mean your inexperience as you've never engaged in any sexual activity.

[Cognitive_Canine]

That's why you work on stuff like that once you're married. He can learn and vice versa. I only want to learn with him, though. You're not going to break me. I will fight you to the death on this.

 

He can learn but you don't have to?

[DreamerGirl27]

Do you know what vice versa means?

[DreamerGirl27]

My mom agrees with me and she's not a virgin.