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Is there anyone on this forum who has worked as an escort or done their research to work as an escort? Is it only for women of certain type of personalities? I'm a sweet, shy, nice gal. Don't have much experience with men, but I'm interested in finding out more about escort and see if I can become one. Not interested in providing sexual favors. People tell me that I'm attractive, but I don't look like a model. I look more like a cute gurl.

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I thought escort was always a euphemism for escort + sexual favors, but perhaps I'm wrong.

 

To be honest, the personality I imagine suited for such a job (with no sex) would be:

- outgoing

- flirtatious

- happy to stroke the date's ego and spend the evening entertaining/flattering him

As far as looks, as conventionally hot/sexy as possible - big hair, curves.

 

My instinct is that men don't go to these types of services to find a "girl next door", but then again I'm just guessing here.

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I think there is always an implied sexual undertone to an escort. I'd probably steer clear if you aren't opened to it....

 

If you check out the escorts website, they are all in lingerie with their face blurred. The booking time slots are always 7pm-5am.. I think that can kind of give you the idea that it's not for dinner.

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well then wats the difference between an escort and a call girl/prostitute?

 

mostly the name. But escorts often are seen publicly with there "dates". They go out to dinner, take long weekends with them but also have sex. I really haven't heard of any escorts that go out with men and just keep them company.

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Is there anyone on this forum who has worked as an escort or done their research to work as an escort? Is it only for women of certain type of personalities? I'm a sweet, shy, nice gal. Don't have much experience with men, but I'm interested in finding out more about escort and see if I can become one. Not interested in providing sexual favors. People tell me that I'm attractive, but I don't look like a model. I look more like a cute gurl.

 

Too bad it didn't work like that. Wouldn't be a bad deal to make a living going on dates and just talking, lol.

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Is there anyone on this forum who has worked as an escort or done their research to work as an escort? Is it only for women of certain type of personalities? I'm a sweet, shy, nice gal. Don't have much experience with men, but I'm interested in finding out more about escort and see if I can become one. Not interested in providing sexual favors. People tell me that I'm attractive, but I don't look like a model. I look more like a cute gurl.

 

Sorry, that won't work. You can't have a career in escorting without any sex.

 

To be an escort is to be hired for your looks/sexuality/personality. You'd have to be able to change your personality to fit the needs of your client. It is after all, a business.

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If you're interested in not sleeping with someone for money, why not try to find a job as a "wing woman"? This is a good-looking female that accompanies men out in public with the intentions of helping them attract and find potential mates. Your city should have a service - if not, you're in luck because you have the opportunity to be your area's first!

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If you're interested in not sleeping with someone for money, why not try to find a job as a "wing woman"? This is a good-looking female that accompanies men out in public with the intentions of helping them attract and find potential mates. Your city should have a service - if not, you're in luck because you have the opportunity to be your area's first!

 

What the heck? Never heard of this, and don't see why a man would pay for it lol...

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My roommate is a part time escort and her best friend is a professional dominatrix. They both make huge money doing what they do. My roommate friend doesn't leave the house for a "date" unless it's for a least $1,000.

 

My roomie claims that she doesn't have sex with her dates but I know she is lying. The way she works is she only has 3 or 4 client's total. She date's them and them only. None of these guy's live anywhere near us. One or two of these guy's fly's in for a weekend at least once a month to see her. She makes around $1,500 a night. We needed a new TV a few months ago and she called one of her clients and asked him for some money. He wired her $2000 for a new LCD TV.

 

Her friend who is the dominatrix makes huge money. She is only like 27 and has been doing it for about 5 years. She has a big house that is paid for. She also claims that she doesn't sleep with her clients but I don't believe her either. She does admidt that she used to do porn.

 

Most of the guy's that these girls "date" are wealthy and in their 40's. From the way it sound's to me most of them are just bored with their live's. I think that they just like to come out here, hang with a pretty girl that doesn't judge them and have some fun. The sex is secondary. My roomie say's that the men complain about their wive's, kid's and families alot. Most of them feel unappreciated and are more or less looking for an escape. Even if it's just for a few day's.

 

I have met some other escorts through them. The weird thing is that they always seem to be school teachers.

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Her friend who is the dominatrix makes huge money. She is only like 27 and has been doing it for about 5 years. She has a big house that is paid for. She also claims that she doesn't sleep with her clients but I don't believe her either. She does admidt that she used to do porn.

 

Lol, how can you be a dominatrix and not have sex

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Lol, how can you be a dominatrix and not have sex

 

 

Actually most dominatrix's don't have sex with their client's. The guys that are into it just want to be spanked, taunted, and or humiliated. For them that is their sexual release. She has told me that alot of these guy's will just masturbate in the bathroom when it is over.

 

I don't doubt that she has sex with some of them but the fact is most guy's don't really care about the sex. If you don't believe me look it up.

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From what I'm aware of you have to be stunning, have a hot body and also intelligent. Good listener, nod, flirt and understanding or at least have him think you are.

Seems like most men that require this kind of service are 35+ extremely wealthy and men who do not want commitment or a nagging girlfriend/wife. Majority are married and bored of the wife, kids, dog whatever else.

 

Will you earn enough money? Possibly, but you have to be "elite" to earn a good amount, and that doesn't happen over night.

 

You also can't rule out sex, because your client might not want it today or tomorrow but he will want it later.

Rarely will they just pay for "company". You have to have the latest fashion, hair, makeup, and be in tip top shape. They wont pay good cash for just an average person, they have "no benefit" and can't show you to their "friends".

 

Personally, I think you rule out this whole idea and maybe find a suitable respectable job or get a nice degree in something that interests you. You will sleep better at night and wont have a guilty conscience later on.

 

 

good luck.

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Honestly, OP, it sounds like you are thinking escorts to be like traditional Kyoto geisha. It once was a career but most often not that profitable. Most were forced to be geisha as they were born into it or traded to a house by their in-debt family.

 

It seems like a dream career. But, it's just that...a dream.

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