Is Sex overrated?

[Foxfire21]

I've been thinking about that lately. Yes I know, Since I'm a Virgin and haven't had sex I shouldn't jump to conclusions. But this question came to me one night while I was having me time with a cucumber. When I started it felt amazing but a few minutes later The sensation left I couldn't really feel anything.

 

It sucks since I've been trying to achieve a vaginal orgasms for a long time but with no luck.

 

So my question is: When I eventually have sex in the future, will be like the event with the cucumber? If so, I don't see the point of sex at all. Some one please explain.

[_Asti_]

A cucumber cannot provide intimacy, passion, physical chemistry, eye contact, sweet whispers, eye contact, etc. There is more to sex than just the actual action of intercourse. To me..the actual intercourse isn't even half of 'sex'...its everything else that comes with it, that makes it amazing. Its having a connection with another person, having emotions and feelings there adds a totally different and new level to things. In my opinion, sex is amazing. Most of the time I have no desire to masturbate because it isn't even comparable and doesn't do anything for me.

 

Now, if you're strictly talking physically..can you achieve an orgasm at all? Many females cannot do it just vaginally. In fact, its very common. Many females also require the stimulation of the clitoris, alongisde the penetration to be able to orgasm. Give that a try.

[DontGetStung]

Depends on whose rating you're looking at.

 

I do not think sex is overrated, in most cases.

[agent1607307371]

Sometimes it is, and sometimes it isn't.

 

I can't lie, at some point in your life, you will be lying there, wishing for that cucumber.

[MD Geist]

I think its over commercialized.

[greywolf]

Sex is very different from masturbation. For a lot of people, it's not just about the orgasm. It's about the intimacy you experience with another person.

 

Having said that, yes, sometimes it can be overrated depending on what you want out of it. If I'm just looking for an orgasm, I can usually give myself a better one than what someone else can give me.

[Organs]

It can vary considerably. When it's good, it's fantastic. When it's bad, it just feels like wasted effort.

[Night Pumpkin]

It's all about the love you feel for another person. It's almost hilarious that you compare a cucumber to a human being.

[OntheWire]

That's a really subjective question. I'd say when it's good, it's not bad. But at least for me, there are much higher feelings of joy in life than can be found in sex.

[iBroken]

Is this thread for real?

 

Do people actually masterbate with Cucumbers? And then compare it to human intimacy?

 

At 18, I imagine you still live at home. Do you put the cucumber back in the fridge for your family to eat? Im not poking fun - Im being serious. I didnt think that veggies were actually used when dildos and vibrators existed.

 

And no, sex is not over rated. Correction - as a gay female, sex with men is overrated....but sex with other women is as hot as can be

[blackdog280]

So you want to cum?

 

Play with your clitoris at the same time. My favorite way to cum is sticking my clitoris under the bath faucet.

 

Not every women can cum with just virginal intercourse, your partner actually plays with the clitoris as well, sex isn't overrated!

[LightbulbSun]

As a virgin, I'm not in a position to really make a solid comment. Although I think society puts too much emphasis on it.

[Organs]

Yeah, as someone on the first page said, it is over-commercialized.

[Cognitive_Canine]

I've always found it amazing. However, I've only messed around with a person I love and trusted. Masturbation does little for me and I don't dabble in it that much.

[Fudgie]

I think the act itself is overrated.

 

The emotions that people attribute to sex and the connection between you and a partner is what makes sex great. Seriously, the actual act of intercourse is totally overrated. By itself, it doesn't do much.

 

My boyfriend and I are unable to have sex for medical reasons but I don't care. There are other ways we can show we love each other and still feel aroused and satisfied. You don't need intercourse for that.

[arcadefire]

I personally think it's the intimacy that sets sex apart from a cucumber. There is a lot of trust involved when you stick with your partner in all levels, emotionally and physically. It's not even necessary to orgasm (sometimes it's not an end goal per se) to enjoy the feelings sex can bring.

[jul-els]

By who's standard? That's widely subjective and pretty near impossible to generalize. If you're going by the standard set in the movies and television and magazines then I would say yes, it is. That stuff's all make believe and bears very little resemblence to reality. Same thing with the religious view, imo. But in the context of the existence of a living breathing human I would say there's no way to over or underrate it. Each individual assigns whatever level of significance to it that coincides with their life and world view.

[jonny15]

Your a virgin and you use a cucumber?

 

How?

[MD Geist]

Your a virgin and you use a cucumber?

 

How?

 

Cucumbers can be used. Remember women have more options when it comes to masturbation toys than men do.

 

We have to settle for buying a fleshlight or one of those rumber gloves wrapped in a towel.

 

To the op.

 

Just keep on masturbating and getting to learn your body. It can only get better with time.

[agent1607307371]

Your a virgin and you use a cucumber?

 

How?

 

You can't have sex with a Cumcumber.

 

It can't consent, it's only a vegetable.

[george237]

A cucumber cannot provide intimacy, passion, physical chemistry, eye contact, sweet whispers, eye contact, etc. There is more to sex than just the actual action of intercourse. To me..the actual intercourse isn't even half of 'sex'...its everything else that comes with it, that makes it amazing. Its having a connection with another person, having emotions and feelings there adds a totally different and new level to things. In my opinion, sex is amazing. Most of the time I have no desire to masturbate because it isn't even comparable and doesn't do anything for me.

 

Now, if you're strictly talking physically..can you achieve an orgasm at all? Many females cannot do it just vaginally. In fact, its very common. Many females also require the stimulation of the clitoris, alongisde the penetration to be able to orgasm. Give that a try.

 

Asti loves her eye contact.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Cucumbers can be used. Remember women have more options when it comes to masturbation toys than men do.

 

We have to settle for buying a fleshlight or one of those rumber gloves wrapped in a towel.

 

To the op.

 

Just keep on masturbating and getting to learn your body. It can only get better with time.

 

You can't have sex with a Cumcumber.

 

It can't consent, it's only a vegetable.

 

 

I think she meant, how the heck does a cucumber not hurt when you are a virgin?

[hexaemeron]

I think she meant, how the heck does a cucumber not hurt when you are a virgin?

 

I'm sure she's relaxed enough not to put the cucumber in any serious discomfort.

[Cognitive_Canine]

I'm sure she's relaxed enough not to put the cucumber in any serious discomfort.

 

Lol. It's all about practice. When I was a virgin, I really didn't want sex to hurt so I worked myself with my fingers. Took me about 2 months to go from 1-3 fingers wide. It hurt as I worked it little by little. Unfortunately, it still hurts when I have sex. But, definitely not as much if I wouldn't have opened myself up a bit.

[Foxfire21]

So i guess the difference is that when you have sex it suppose to be with someone who you really love? So even if you go numb during sex it would still be amazing?