Lost84 Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 So........my friend was talking to the guy I was dating, told him I was seeing someone else: This was the reply: wooo hooo!!!I do not care!!! if i wanted to be with bell i'd be with her, im happy for her she's a cool chik but not the girl for me, to many psycho friends like you put me off. ... you are a loser get a life! It hurt.......bad. Although on the sunny side I'm thinking if he never cared he would have never answered in the first place. What are your thoughts? Link to comment
Ebrithil Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 Im not sure if I followed this exactly as you ment it, but it sounds like hes just telling people to stop interfearing in your business because they wont get the responce they want. Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 yeah, sounds like he wants others to stay out of his business. was this part of the reason you broke up? Link to comment
DontGetStung Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 Which particular part "hurt bad"? I really don't see anything offensive to you in there, and he said he's happy for you and that you're cool. Why would the subject of who you're dating come up unless your friend was fishing for a reaction? Your friend sounds like she is indeed, a loser who needs to get a life. Link to comment
Lost84 Posted March 31, 2010 Author Share Posted March 31, 2010 We broke up because of the long distance. I guess just hearing that he's happy for me and doesn't care that I moved on. I still have feelings for this guy. Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 but it sounds like he wouldn't tell your friend 'the truth.' or whatever. he clearly doesn't respect her, he basically told her to get out of his business. if someone told me my ex was dating someone new, i would say the diplomatic thing as well "I hope things go well for him, i am happy for xxxxx." i mean, that's just what you say, even if you don't mean it. i guess he could say, 'i love her so much' but then he would sound like kind of a loser. afterall, you've moved on. or at least your friend told him you moved on. Link to comment
Lost84 Posted March 31, 2010 Author Share Posted March 31, 2010 Ah I just want to get over it, but if I knew he still had feelings I would try and fix it! Link to comment
catfeeder Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 Sounds as though you were played by your 'friend'. Allowing others to meddle in your business usually does bring pain. Link to comment
.thumb.jpg.2d93ce2472f26b01a1e185382ba0b64e.jpg)
.thumb.jpg.707652b1f845175b2f35e03ba7f1673e.jpg)
.thumb.jpg.78735a344a3340a866dda54f465baebb.jpg)
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.