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I dont know what the hell my problem is... Im 22 years old and just got out a 3 year long relationship..When i was with my ex i would pop a bonar just looking at her..Well we broke up about a month ago and now, on TWO different occasions, with TWO DIFFERENT girls, I havent been able to get a bonar..These girls are HOT also..Like any guy would have sex with them LOL...I just cant get horny...I want to f*** so bad i havent had sex since me and my girl broke up but i physically cant do it...Im not embarrased of anything I have a good sized * * * * and im in very good physical shape...I just dont know what the hell my problem is I feel like an idiot!!!!!! what am i supposed to do??

 

Ive spent the night at the girls house a few times so its not the take it slow part or whatever. Actually got horny one time from her giving me head but then when we went to have sex i went limp like a gay boy 1:

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We have been "together" with out the title up until the begging of March..I just want to start plowing some new girls so I wont think about her..Ive got all these hot girls from hooters and winghouse ive been hanging out with but I just dont get horny haha

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Yeah i dont know what the hell is up..My EX is BEAUTIFUL...Perfect face and body and the nicest ass i have even had the privilege of bending over

 

I mean these new girls are hot I just feel like I am infatuated with her physical appearance because we were together for soo long and had amazing sex lol

 

 

BUT, I want to start having sex and "live the single life" .. Like if I could get my junk hard I would destroy these girls..I just want to get horny im bout to buy some viagra LOL

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We have been "together" with out the title up until the begging of March..I just want to start plowing some new girls so I wont think about her..Ive got all these hot girls from hooters and winghouse ive been hanging out with but I just dont get horny haha

 

Just start "plowing" some new girls? Ugh.

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Okay, she was hot, but that doesn't really get into you getting over her.

 

You still have feelings for her and you probably view it as a betrayal of what you had together to sleep with someone else just yet. You have to get over what you feel/felt for her before you'll be able to have amazing sex with somebody else.

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I'm thinking maybe you should dump the "limp like a gay boy comment" off. Just a thought.

 

Also ure dealing with feeling like being stuck on your ex is not manly. But that is not the case. Good men like to be with good women. Your mind is still there give it some time. Then you can "plow through some girls"

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Just start "plowing" some new girls? Ugh.

Sorry that wasnt politically correct LOL..Make love again, is that better??

Okay, she was hot, but that doesn't really get into you getting over her.

You still have feelings for her and you probably view it as a betrayal of what you had together to sleep with someone else just yet. You have to get over what you feel/felt for her before you'll be able to have amazing sex with somebody else.

 

Yeah man i feel ya, I just want to hurry up and get this process on the road..I needdddd to have sex im freaking out i will be soo much less stressed out

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Yeah man i feel ya, I just want to hurry up and get this process on the road..I needdddd to have sex im freaking out i will be soo much less stressed out

 

Well, until you can come to terms with that phase of your life being past and new experiences on the horizon being yours, you always have a hand (or two).

 

It's not the same but if you're really freaking out that's the best I can do for you.

 

 

Little more helpful, other than her appearance, what else did you like about your ex?

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I loved everything about her..Known her since i was a sophomore in high school....she was best friends with this girl i dated for a little over a year..she was also my best friends girlfriend...They broke up a few months before my HS girlfriend and i did..My "best friend" ended up having sex with my ex (her best friend)..so we were both kinda in the same boat..we were just there for each other if you know what i mean like mentally because we were going thru the exact same situation...One thing led to another and we ended up dating.

 

3 years together, the first 2 years we were seriously super IN LOVE...Then one of her good friends started dating one of mine and it just went downhill..Like they would always talk about us when we went out and rumors got started and the trust and overall happiness wasnt there anymore...

 

She rented a hotel for Spring Break (Begging on march 2010) and said she invited me..But she DEF DID NOT..ended up hanging out with her ex and some guys while she was there and lied to me about it....So i havent talked to her since..Didnt even tell her I knew or whatever.. She just tried to call like 3 times, never left a message or sent a text or anything...literally just quit talking to each other without a closure or anything...

 

she sent me a text friday night saying "i miss u" ...then tried to call a few mins later... I didnt answer...texted me the following morning saying sorry that was mike ( her friend ) he didnt know we dont talk anymore sorry for the inconvience no need to text back blah blah..still didnt say a word ( pretty sure she sent it though why would her friend mike send that or have her phone? LOL)

 

Of course this morning I wake up and say F it im going to call her..Call and she doesnt answer..

Texted her a few hours later and asked if i could get some cloth hangers (she works at a fashion place) cause im moving out and i need a bunch of them..

 

she replys "i think there like $1 for 24 at walmart"

 

Me "Please tell me that was a joke"

 

NO RESPONSE

 

That got a little off track but just some background info LOL

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It's your body's way of telling you that you aren't ready for sex with someone else yet. I suggest you get over your ex first. If you can't get over your ex without 'plowing' some girls, then I suggest you do some introspection to figure out why you're so needy.

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