chelsea13 Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 There was a Swiss guy at uni and I don't know if he was interested.. he was actually quite shy. Well we met at this dinner (for international students) and then he added everyone on facebook. On facebook chat he was asking whether I know any good sushi places, so I suggested this good Japanese place. Then he said that he will go there this wednesday and whether I want to join? So I said yes I do. So we went and have the sushi and well... he was quite boring but I had an ok time. When we had to get the bill he paid by credit card first and I handed him so cash and asked if he had change for it, and he just waved it off. So we walked around and he said thank you he had a very nice time etc, and he said thank you once again on facebook. Later I was never really on facebook so we didn't chat. But I missed the next dinner session (it's weekly) cos I was busy, and he texted me saying that 'it was a pity you didn't come, we had really nice sushi, hope to see you next week.' I told him I was busy but then he never replied. After a while, he posted on my facebook 'tell me when you are free for lunch'. So I said next week and we met up for lunch but this time we paid separately. After that we never really talked so I rarely bumped into him at school and I was never on facebook chat anymore. A couple of months ago I found out that he got a girlfriend. Do you think he was ever interested in me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cpc28655 Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 I don't think this man was all that shy. I think that he was interested at first, but realized later that you weren't the person for him. No big deal. In other words, he gave it a chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blue Streak Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 Obviously he was. The passion and drive just did not seem to work out for the both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Creative Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 You should ask some other Swiss guys how the culture is like there and whether a gathering like this is just the normal thing to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Firecracker Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 I think he was very interested. You thought he was very boring, so I figure he sensed that. He probably met a girl that thought he was wonderful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 I agree - he was interested but you were not and it showed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xyzzzz Posted March 28, 2010 Share Posted March 28, 2010 oh wow i know a swiss guy who was in japan...ur not talking about him right? lol anyway he was obviously interested..but he wound up having a gf who's not u? did u show any interests in him ? maybe that girl is very initiative.cuz my swiss friend told me the girls in japan were all over him.haha...well why u asked something that was months away? it doesnt matter any more Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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