Did you ever feel like you had an ACTUAL connection with your ex?

[restingpieces]

I always felt it. If ever I was down (without his knowledge) and he wasn't around, he never failed to call, text or e-mail almost within minutes. There were countless times when we would text each other at the exact same time. And so forth.

 

Did you ever feel a real same wave-length type connection?

 

It's funny because two nights ago, I was asleep and woke up because I felt like an elephant had just sat on my chest. I couldn't fall asleep and went over to my computer because I was wide awake, to see that he had tweeted only moments before regarding his difficulty with sleeping. However, last night was the first night that I thought about him and legitimately became aware of a disconnect; the tie just seemed... gone.

 

Weird, I know. But I have one with my best friend. We definitely have endless coincidences, and have for over a decade, so I know they're real.

[petite]

Yes. I feel even though we had our share of problems emotionally we had a strong connection. but, the connection was with the person I fell in love with, not the person he turned in to or better the person he was during the breaking up.

[doesitmatter30]

Yep. Still do, after 13 years, and 7 apart. It's irritating, really...

[AutumnBorn]

Absolutely. It makes me crazy. He was emotionally disconnected, and I can't get there.

[jimmajam]

Sure. I know we had something special. We had a lot of different interests, but we already understood each other so well as people. I know we had love and some type of connection. This is why it hurts so much and how easily she walked away.

[headwreck]

Absolutely. It makes me crazy. He was emotionally disconnected, and I can't get there.

 

 

 

He can't get to you rather...?

 

OP yes I really did feel that. But I feel i'm losing it with time. I think he wants it to go.