I feel strangely obligated and a bit guilty...

[-Sanguine-]

I can't understand why..

 

so yesterday at the gym, the guy who works there and takes my ID was kind of smiling at me oddly, I could kind of tell he liked me. Then today, when I got my ID back and he smiled and told me he liked my picture. I just said thanks and left..

 

When I left, I felt surprisingly guilty.. I mean, I have a boyfriend. And in no way did I provoke him or flirt back in any way, nor did I want to. so I don't understand why I feel this way. But I also fee obligated to tell my boyfriend? Like what would I say.. "this guy at the gym likes my picture, thought you should know??" lol, That's pretty ridiculous right? Someone please set me straight.

[mattguy]

someone flirted with you, you didnt flirt back . no need to feel guilt!

[Sanesoul]

You're being silly.

 

It was completely innocent and you did nothing wrong.

 

Geez Chica! Just take the compliment

 

I would worry if he started getting more flirty with you. Then you can tell him you have a boyfriend.

[G-Snap]

Even if you smiled back and said something fun to him it isn't a biggie. I don't think your b/f expects that you are 'dead' to members of the opposite sex. This is why guilt is a senseless emotion - there is absolutely no reason for it in this situation.

[-Sanguine-]

Okay! Sometimes I just need a reality check. Thanks!

[jul-els]

No need to tell your bf, it was just a compliment. He'd probably be less concerned about it than you were.