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Her "Protector" (Crazy, Deluded, Annoying Girl)

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So I like this girl, and I was going to kiss her (she's actually ok with it), but this girl's protector (the aforementioned crazy girl) would go apecrap if she saw or found out. Keep in mind that the girl I like doesn't even like the crazy girl and thinks she's annoying (she annoys the crap out of literally everyone).

 

Today I almost kissed her after a goodbye hug, but I saw crazy girl and didn't do it (I like my penis and my legs and wish to keep those.) The girl I like tells her to back off, but crazy girl doesn't listen...

 

I really do like this girl and there might be a relationship brewing between us, but everything would be ruined by the girl, so I need help...

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I see two possible solutions to this issue.

1. Get over it. If the "protector" is not a part of yours and this girls business then don't sweat it. She seriously can't do anything. In a situation like this it is best to just ignore the other person and do what you feel you want to do.

 

2. This is my personal favorite. Use the wingman approach, this is something you don't typically learn about until you start hitting the bar scene but it is a very effective and reliable tactic. Have another person, does not have to be a male, engage the "protector" while you are conversing with your lady friend. It is a very simple approach but trust me it works.

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What does this girl have to do with anything? Does she control who this girl talks to and what she does? Why does she have a "protecter"? This makes no sense to me. Also How old are you and these girls?

 

Like in the post, the girl would go nuts if she found out I kissed the other. Like an overprotective father.

 

Why is she letting her crazy friend get in the way of things?

 

I have no idea.

 

I see two possible solutions to this issue.

1. Get over it. If the "protector" is not a part of yours and this girls business then don't sweat it. She seriously can't do anything. In a situation like this it is best to just ignore the other person and do what you feel you want to do.

 

2. This is my personal favorite. Use the wingman approach, this is something you don't typically learn about until you start hitting the bar scene but it is a very effective and reliable tactic. Have another person, does not have to be a male, engage the "protector" while you are conversing with your lady friend. It is a very simple approach but trust me it works.

 

The wingman approach sounds fun, lol

 

Btw, I'm 13.

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I see two possible solutions to this issue.

1. Get over it. If the "protector" is not a part of yours and this girls business then don't sweat it. She seriously can't do anything. In a situation like this it is best to just ignore the other person and do what you feel you want to do.

 

2. This is my personal favorite. Use the wingman approach, this is something you don't typically learn about until you start hitting the bar scene but it is a very effective and reliable tactic. Have another person, does not have to be a male, engage the "protector" while you are conversing with your lady friend. It is a very simple approach but trust me it works.

 

Good thing you brought this up. I am going to be going to an event sometime soon with lots of people / girls, but they are usually talking to other girls. Time to get my bro to be my wingman lol.

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As usual it appears my advice will be used for evil instead of good.

 

I am still trying to wrap my head around why this other girl is around AT ALL. If neither of you are friends with her how does she fit into the picture?

 

What you mean with evil instead of good?

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As usual it appears my advice will be used for evil instead of good.

 

I am still trying to wrap my head around why this other girl is around AT ALL. If neither of you are friends with her how does she fit into the picture?

 

The other girl thinks she's Tatiana's (girl I like) best friend. I supposed Tatiana telling the other girl to piss off would be bad, since the girl is well, crazy.

 

Because they are "tweens."

 

Teens*

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Ah ok... I thought it had to do with me using my bro as my wingman lol About time I learn that it is not all about ME me ME lol Oops sorry for hijacking thread.

 

To the OP, man, relax you have a TON of time to find a nice girl, you are still quite young. If you like this girl though, and things seems really nice between the two of you, I would advise you to enjoy it, just don't do anything that you might regret later ok

 

"p.s. Females make more effective "wingmen"" My Bro's wife it is she's a good friend of mine, time to make good use of it lol.

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This seems more like a situation that Tatiana needs to worry about and deal with more than you. If she is not actually friends with the other girl perhaps a line needs to be drawn. If she is not able to speak up for herself then I would think it would be difficult for her to be in a relationship anyways. This is where you do a cost benefits analysis of the potential relationship. Is it more beneficial to pursue your Betty than to not have her in your life. I know it sounds cold and what not but we all do the same thing when entering a relationship whether we realize it or not.

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Ah ok... I thought it had to do with me using my bro as my wingman lol About time I learn that it is not all about ME me ME lol Oops sorry for hijacking thread.

 

To the OP, man, relax you have a TON of time to find a nice girl, you are still quite young. If you like this girl though, and things seems really nice between the two of you, I would advise you to enjoy it, just don't do anything that you might regret later ok

 

"p.s. Females make more effective "wingmen"" My Bro's wife it is she's a good friend of mine, time to make good use of it lol.

 

I'm not even thinking about sex right now, L. But eh, I've got 4 more years to figure it out (we're going to the same high school), but it'll probably be worse with the crazy girl

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I think he was simply stating that he is thirTEEN. I'm sure he is familiar with the term but it does typically refer to 11 and 12 year olds and I know that once I hit 13 I full considered myself a "teenager".

 

Yeah, that's what I meant.

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Sigh. Keith, just ignore this 'crazy girl'. What's she going to do? Beat you up? Set fire to your house? I don't think so. She only has power over your situation because you're letting her have some, and I'm wondering if maybe her being around is just a convenient excuse for you to keep putting off kissing this girl you like.

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Sigh. Keith, just ignore this 'crazy girl'. What's she going to do? Beat you up? Set fire to your house? I don't think so. She only has power over your situation because you're letting her have some, and I'm wondering if maybe her being around is just a convenient excuse for you to keep putting off kissing this girl you like.

 

I don't want to put it off. Yes, the crazy girl WILL beat me up, she kicks me in the leg when I talk to one of her "friends", so what do you think she'd do if I kissed her "best" friend?

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You're at school, why not tell a teacher about it?

 

I realise you probably won't, because it's not very macho to confess that a girl is giving you cause for alarm.

 

Look, there are two outcomes here.

 

1. You kiss the girl despite this weird girl being around, the girl you like is thrilled and you end up together, and this 'crazy girl' fails to be a real problem because duh, she's only a 13 year old girl.

 

2. You don't kiss this girl you like, hence she ends up with someone else and you end up miserable.

 

Seriously, she's just a girl. Ignore her and she'll get bored and start kicking someone else to get their attention. You really have to rise above this or you're going to get nowhere with the girl you like, purely because you're afraid of this girl's reaction.

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I really do think "crazy girl" likes you. she just has a weird way of showering you with attention! I had a "protector" once, and later I figured out she was only trying to 'protect' (lol) and get close to me because she liked the guy who was chasing me! I don't think it's all that important to kiss yet, anyhow. hold hands, be friends, etc and wait a few years. if she likes you and you like her, then it'll be fine.

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