Obese men are repulsive to me in dating

[Seraphim]

As I said in another of her thread when she complained about people getting on her for her preferences that maybe she should stop advertising them so wildly and now I see so rudely and maybe she might not have so much strife.

[sunshine1]

That's what I mean. People often think we have to lower our standards and in this case I can't. Yet if it was a guy, they get passes for not dating big girls (and many times the "big girls" really aren't).

 

Nope, we don't think you have to lower your standards. And we would be saying the same thing if this was a guy. For the millionth time, its not about liking or disliking a certain type of guy for dating. You can have any kind of preference you want. You can like only dating tall guys, you can hate dating guys with blue eyes. It doesn't matter to us. Just don't come on here and be rude to the specific group of guys you dont want to date because after all, they are people too and there is no reason to single them out and call them names. Just do what every other person does, and DONT DATE who you are not attracted to.

[luckyman]

lol you guys. Seems like OP is right. We often see in this forum and in real life people being hardly judgmental on women for being fat. Yet when a woman says what she thinks, it's suddenly all wrong.

 

I don't agree with how she stated her preference tho, calling people disgusting is rude...but I think I can understand why she made this thread, I think she is basically complaining about how many people think she should just settle down, even with people that repulse her.

 

It doesn't seem like anyone is forcing her to do anything.

 

She was listing a preference which is perfectly fine, but was cleary rude in doing so.

 

If a man where to have said this about women it would have been equally as wrong, the bringing up of gender, just seems as an excuse.

[murman2]

Hey I consider myself to be an attractive guy, and I would rather date a pleasant woman not pleasing to the eye than one who is shallow and ugly on the inside. Your post makes you sound shallow and ugly on the inside.. grow up!

[Seraphim]

nope, we don't think you have to lower your standards. And we would be saying the same thing if this was a guy. For the millionth time, its not about liking or disliking a certain type of guy for dating. You can have any kind of preference you want. You can like only dating tall guys, you can hate dating guys with blue eyes. It doesn't matter to us. Just don't come on here and be rude to the specific group of guys you dont want to date because after all, they are people too and there is no reason to single them out and call them names. Just do what every other person does, and dont date who you are not attracted to.

 

amen!!!!!.....

[jettison]

I would be repulsed too if they set me up with an obese man on a blind date. Me dating a fat man?? Ewwwwwwwwwwww...... no way....

 

Oh my God! I can't believe you just said that.

 

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I would be categorically embarrassed of myself if I said...

 

"I would be repulsed too if they set me up with an obese woman on a blind date. Me dating a fat woman??

Ewwwwwww... no way..."

 

How are you not equally shamed? Why is empathy so freaking hard for people to understand? It's really not brain science, nor rocket surgery.

[H20]

Hey!!! Just because a man has Fumunda cheese growing under his armpit does NOT make him a bad or undatable person!!!

[Dako]

If you skip the blind date gambit, you can find your own dates by approaching Mr. Wonderful yourself and risking rejection. It might give you some understanding.

[MD Geist]

Like I said these women must be made out of solid gold.

 

These are some very bold statements.

 

Its threads like this contribe to my tainted view towards women.

[greensleeves]

This thread has run its course and is closed.