This kinda stupid but please help me figure out a way, give me some advice

[hppynut]

so right now i'm hitting on this black guy from britain. and i myself am a chinese asian FOB.

we met in a political organization. he is gay and i was pretty sure at first he had a crush on me not long ago like 2 weeks ago. i didn't have feelings for him but then it just started to grow on me. now he still likes me as a friend cuz i feel like he is not afraid of me or anything but certainly he is keeping a distance from me when i try to give him hints.

 

now i know that the best way to make a person like myself is just to act myself. but i just screwed up so many times on this. people just like me at first and then when i am ready to tell them that i like them back, they already lose the interest.

 

i don't know what the * * * * is wrong with me. this time i haven't actually confessed my feelings to him and i don't wanna screw the whole thing up when i do. Please help me! should i wait longer before i tell him how i feel? what should i do before i tell him? and what should i tell him?

 

Please give me advise!

 

lost goat

[eggplant47]

You say you've been hitting on him... in what way? Because your actions and his reactions will probably give you a hint as to where to go from here!

[ramcoro]

Maybe he is playing hard to get? Give him some space and let him come to you. At the same time, show that you're interested but act as if nothing has changed.

[Unusual U]

Well, I suggest being straight-forward with him! If you feel that way, then tell him. The confusion will be gone and you'll know how he feels, too. It's worked out for me....