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Hopeful99

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So I saw someone on and off for 4 months...if I can believe what she said she was not ready for anything ultra serious as she just was divorced 5 months ago. Unfortunately I feel head over heals in love....so I guess I have hope that maybe we can be on the same page someday.

 

Anyway, I was surprised to see she was still a friend on my facebook. I thought for sure she would have deleted me since she was not in the same place as me...and she is very aware of how much I love her.

 

Thoughts?

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Thoughts?

 

People generally don't know or talk to half of their facebook friends. Don't read anything into it.

 

That said, she may contact you sometime when she's in a better place, so just chill for now and let what will happen, happen. Don't fall into the trap of holding your breath, though.

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Maybe she thinks that you can just be friends and when she is ready maybe there is something there. But like the others said don't read much into it. I have a facebook page that I haven't checked in like 3 months, so it could just be she doesn't really care about facebook.

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people take facebook too seriously. it's not real life. i've had people be offended because i didnt add them as a friend but added someone else they knew. my ex still has photos of us and some of the trips we went on. we split up 9 months ago and only spoke once. i unfriended her(i recommend everyone do that) and untagged myself on all but one of the photos and removed any photos of her.

 

i hope my next girlfriend isnt into facebook. i will find weird if i look on her page and can delve into her past. i think a new person their past is best left in the past

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I know, I myself put too much power to facebook... I have been defriended and took that really seriously. I have found out that my then not-ex was dating someone else on facebook. And I became that crazy psycho * * * * * .... I hated myself for that and regret it very much. But what happened happened and it is what it is. Otherwise I can't move on. If I were to go back, it is only to keep in touch with my high school friends because I went to high school in Europe and everyone is from everywhere!

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