Rob1000 Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 Went on a nice first date with a very cute girl tonight. No drinking involved but lots of nice chat. No awkward moments or anything. I walked to her car, we had a little kiss, we didn't make any plans as she's away on vacation from friday. I told her to text me to let me know she got home safely, which she promptly did. "Just home. Thanks for dinner and good company! Give me a shout during the week if you like!" Is this a good text? When should I 'give her a shout'!!? Was thinking midweek but tuesday or wednesday!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Mid-week for a Friday or weekend planning? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob1000 Posted March 15, 2010 Author Share Posted March 15, 2010 Mid-week for a Friday or weekend planning? She's going away on friday unfortunately. I dont expect to see her until after her vacation. Should I call Tuesday or Wednesday!? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DylanNotorious Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Yeah that's a very good text. I'd call her wednesday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BriarRose Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 I would call tomorrow just to say hi. I don't like when men go days without calling, it makes me think they are not that interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mazzy1212 Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 very good text. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mazzy1212 Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 oh and id call her tomorrow and see if shes free before she goes away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidehop Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 She's going away on friday unfortunately. I dont expect to see her until after her vacation. Should I call Tuesday or Wednesday!? Ya...sorry I misread your post. But either it's a very positive text Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 I would call tomorrow just to say hi. I don't like when men go days without calling, it makes me think they are not that interested. If you like her, there is nothing wrong with calling tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annie24 Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 i'd call her tomorrow and see if she wants to get together before she leaves on vacation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Traveler27 Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Rob, as a female around your age I can tell you: please don't play these silly games! If you enjoyed her company and she yours (her text sounds lovely), then just get in touch with her whenever you feel like it. Obviously some pacing is necessary, but I wouldn't worry about what particular day or how many number of days need to pass before making a call. In my opinion, the sooner the better. If she genuinely likes you, it doesn't matter if you call "too soon", but I think it may matter if it were too late. Hope it all works out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabo Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Rob, as a female around your age I can tell you: please don't play these silly games! If you enjoyed her company and she yours (her text sounds lovely), then just get in touch with her whenever you feel like it. Obviously some pacing is necessary, but I wouldn't worry about what particular day or how many number of days need to pass before making a call. In my opinion, the sooner the better. If she genuinely likes you, it doesn't matter if you call "too soon", but I think it may matter if were too late. Hope it all works out. I agree - it doesn't sound like it would hurt to give her a call tomorrow and try to set up something before you go. Then again, I don't think you would be a jerk either by not calling her until Tuesday or Wednesday and making plans for when you get back. I think you would be a jerk if you didn't call her at all before she leaves. Just go with your gut - although (backing up on myself a little bit here) if I am torn about whether to wait or not then experience has taught me its usually a good idea to wait. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guynextdoor Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Sounds like you got it in the bag from the text. Give her a ring or a simple text tomorrow. Plan something out before friday if you could. Nice job man! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BriarRose Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Sounds like you got it in the bag from the text. Give her a ring or a simple text tomorrow. Plan something out before friday if you could. Nice job man! I agree, everything looks good.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob1000 Posted March 15, 2010 Author Share Posted March 15, 2010 Thanks guys! Don't worry traveller I'm not into games but I don't want to rush it either and seem needy. I'm gonna call her tomorrow and see if she's free on St. Patricks day (wednesday) for a walk or a bite of lunch. If not then we can leave it until after her vacation because I'm working Thurs & Friday evenings this week unfortunately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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