divz21 Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 Hey guys... im back together with my ex boyfriend its been a month and everything is sooo different dont really argue and our relationship seems pretty positive.. so all is well.. however I feel since being apart for year.. i have lost some feelings towards him.. im not as attentive to him and sometimes i get aggitated and irritated at the things he does.. and sometimes i just think what did i see in him in the first place??? He has a heart of gold and loves me alot.. reason for break up is because i cheated on him with my best friend.. but at the time i was vunerable and my feelings grew strong for the ex during the year apart. He was continuning to say we would get back together.. and was literally stringing along my feelings..as soon as i told him i didnt want to do anything with him and told him to fob off and never contact me again... he came back to me with loving gestures and so much care.. i took him back.. i was very angry and i felt so mad during that time i forgave him...but my feelings.. i really dont know whats happening..??? any ideas guys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vertigoxo Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 You thought that it would be a fairy tale ending. Well... The reality is, that reconciliations are never easy and requires work and communication between you and your now boyfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted March 14, 2010 Share Posted March 14, 2010 You cheated on him and yet you seem to be blaming him. That isn't cool. If you don't love him it was very unfair to take him back and then be ready to break his heart again. If you do dump him then at least leave him alone and don't ever get back with him again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted March 15, 2010 Share Posted March 15, 2010 Since you cheated on him, what did you forgive him for? If you don't love him the same way that he loves you, you need to let him go, so that he can move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divz21 Posted April 14, 2010 Author Share Posted April 14, 2010 Hey guys I told him the truth in how I felt he got very angry and said he never wanted to talk again I told him the truth but he reacted with cursing and being very horrible towards me... So that's it but I'm okay I'm over it being single is better anyways I'm still so young got my whole life ahead of me.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 I can see why he would react that way - but I hope your life and his is better in the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuuf Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 I'm sorry, but you deserved it! That's no way to treat someone. Cheat on them, take them back, and then BLAME THEM? Really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hopelessromeo Posted April 14, 2010 Share Posted April 14, 2010 You should really let him move on for good and take some time to sort out your issues Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lost my keys Posted April 15, 2010 Share Posted April 15, 2010 You cheated on him and yet you seem to be blaming him. That isn't cool. If you don't love him it was very unfair to take him back and then be ready to break his heart again. If you do dump him then at least leave him alone and don't ever get back with him again. Agreed!! Let him have a chance at being with someone who a) won't cheat on him and b) can give him the love he needs without finding fault in him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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