feeling chemistry, one-sided?

[americanhoney]

Have you ever stood next to someone and felt very attracted to them, and do you think this is possible without them feeling it, too? There is a guy at work like this, who will stand close to me and I pretend like it doesn't drive me crazy.

[redsoles]

Yes. Yes Yes

yes it happens.

He probably does feel the same way. You just don't know it.

Im in that situation, but.. i am certain he feels the same.

he can't resist me, won't stay away!

 

talk to him.

[Wager]

Unless you are in a relationship, or it is forbidden at your work to have liaisons between coworkers, is there a reason not to follow Redsoles' advice? Sometimes, you just have to close your eyes and leap!

 

Best of luck!

[americanhoney]

We do talk frequently, but he has a long-distance gf and I don't think he's interested in me as more than friends.

[Wager]

Ah, in that case, I retract my suggestion, as he is taken. But like usually attracts like - how about telling him you're single, and asking him if he has any interesting, available friends? Maybe they will be similar enough to him to pique your interest?

 

I've seen it work, and I wish you the best, either way.

[Salicia]

Aw, he's off the market. Well, in that case just cherish the friendship that he may want with you.