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Dani_California

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I've been dating this girl for almost three years now and I've found that the last 5 months I havent been attracted to her anymore. She has a cute face and shes my best friend. Shes sweet, honest and trustworthy. She does well in school and she knows what her goals are and I feel totally relaxed with her, but as I said before, my attraction to her is gone. I still have a strong sexual drive, she can turn me on when she kisses my turn on spot on my neck, but other than that I dont really initiate sex and I just dont know what to do. Am I just being silly? Can a relationship work without attraction?

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I'd say maybe you are bored? Try new things... if you were attracted to her before and its fading then chances are that you've just been together a while and things are starting to feel a little too comfortable which takes the spark away. Try doing something exciting together in and out of the bedroom and see if that helps.

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I think that when the passion is gone from the relationship, you have to work extra hard on trying to get it back. Why not suggest going on a little vacation together and see if you can get the spark back?

 

If two people are willing to try to make the relationship work, then anything is possible.

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Why not set up a romantic evening together indoors?

 

Dinner, candles, chocolate, nice massage - and take it from there. Turn off the cell phones and just focus on each other. Soothing music helps too.

 

It doesn't necessarily have to cost money - if you do a little planning, it can still be very romantic.

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