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so my boyfriend has been so patient with me its rediculous! its time for me to give him a blowjob. he goes down on me and i love it and its becoming unfair i feel if i do no give it back. were both in college and mature and have been together 7 months!

 

problem: ive never given head before. im nervous bc i dont want him to cum in my mouth at first. plus, idk what to do exactly!

 

second..i need the best top advice any women can give me on how to shave the really tough spots (lips, in btwn legs) down there. i need the best advice here.

 

thank you all!!!!!!!

 

food for thought ( no pun intended ) : is going down on a girl for example, mainly mental when she orgasims. or is it more?

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so my boyfriend has been so patient with me its rediculous! its time for me to give him a blowjob. he goes down on me and i love it and its becoming unfair i feel if i do no give it back. were both in college and mature and have been together 7 months!

 

problem: ive never given head before. im nervous bc i dont want him to cum in my mouth at first. plus, idk what to do exactly!

 

second..i need the best top advice any women can give me on how to shave the really tough spots (lips, in btwn legs) down there. i need the best advice here.

 

thank you all!!!!!!!

 

food for thought ( no pun intended ) : is going down on a girl for example, mainly mental when she orgasims. or is it more?

 

 

2 words - Brazilian Wax

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My advice for the blowjob is just go with the flow. He will let you know what he likes, and there is no harm in asking before hand. My key advice, that works for me, don't forget to use your tongue. As for cuming in your mouth, let him know you don't want it done. I'm more then sure he will respect that.

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Let him know beforehand that you don't want him to cum in your mouth. Ask him to tell you when he's about to so you can finish him off with your hand or whatever you want to do. As for giving the actual BJ, there's not much to it. Just go at your own pace and explore him with your lips and tongue. The head is the most sensitive, but a repetitive motion up and down the shaft will really get him going to orgasm.

 

For shaving, use a fresh blade. Do it carefully where you can move your legs around to reach the harder spots. Pull your skin tight where you need to, and even use a hand mirror if you need to see better.

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Pretend its your favourite ice lolly.

 

The problem with oral is that if the person giving it isn't happy to be there, it well, sucks.

Tell him you want to know what he likes - that way you can don't go doing lots of stuff that isn't interesting to him (nothing worse than that with oral imo). Go slow,don't try to deepthroat him, use your hands and find that little edge on the underside of the corona - very sensitive, play with his balls. And tell him that you don't want him coming in your mouth - also when he's coming or just finished, if you keep masturbating him you can give him little aftershocks that are nice.

 

(Also, don't drown everything, but use saliva/lube to keep things nice and slippery.)

 

As long as you're ready to give a bj it can be good for you too, so don't go in like you're having to eat your least favourite food.

 

 

As for shaving (if you're not a shaver), get one leg up on the side the bath or the toilet lid and get a mirror so you can see what you're doing. Or (as is easier imo) veet the edges into a boundary you like and then trim it neat.

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2 words - Brazilian Wax

 

exactly!! shaving gets yucky stubble...

 

you can still get a brazilian and leave a bit on top if you don't want to go bald.. but get rid of the stuff underneath. No one wants to have a floss with crusty pubic hair!

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exactly!! shaving gets yucky stubble...

 

you can still get a brazilian and leave a bit on top if you don't want to go bald.. but get rid of the stuff underneath. No one wants to have a floss with crusty pubic hair!

 

ROFLMAO.

Exactly, noone likes a rainforest in their mouth. Although some of us dont mind it cause if it is cold outside, the hair is like a heater.

 

But like everyone else said, Watch out with the razors.

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If you are concerned about him cumming in your mouth tell him.

Simple.

Just tell him to pull out.

 

Although this does seem really hypocritical considering you are pretty much getting all your juices in his mouth every time.

 

Urrrgh as for hair down there removal.

Veet (don't know if you have it where you live) is often used which basically burns the hair off although, some womens skin is sensitive in that area and can leave a rash.

But it is more often than not needed to be frequently used.

 

As for the razor, yes it does end up leaving stubble which can be like sandpaper on someones face. when giving oral.

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She is going to have pre-cum in there anyway.

 

But if he's the kind of guy who shoots...

 

Yep.....the pre-cum is inevitable.

 

I guess it also has to do with knowing if the guy is a strong shooter in general.

 

I don't know about the guy she is seeing, but all I can say is the longer the stimulation the higher the chances of him shooting.

 

I know if a guy backs off from cumming and lets it build up again and again...they are most probably going to shoot hard and with a lot of ammo.

 

So that's another thing to keep in mind.

 

It's funny how women are rather different on this subject compared to the other way around.

 

A guy doesn't really worry if the female is going to shoot and from what I have experienced, when they do....they shoot!

Not just a little water pistol without barely any pressure behind it.

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so my boyfriend has been so patient with me its rediculous! its time for me to give him a blowjob. he goes down on me and i love it and its becoming unfair i feel if i do no give it back. were both in college and mature and have been together 7 months!

 

problem: ive never given head before. im nervous bc i dont want him to cum in my mouth at first. plus, idk what to do exactly!

 

second..i need the best top advice any women can give me on how to shave the really tough spots (lips, in btwn legs) down there. i need the best advice here.

 

thank you all!!!!!!!

 

food for thought ( no pun intended ) : is going down on a girl for example, mainly mental when she orgasims. or is it more?

 

As I understand it, it is very rare for girls to give blowjobs(except in pornos) so I don't feel it's ridicilous that you haven't gave him one yet. If you don't really want to do it, you shouldn't have to. Though it is a bit unfair if he always goes down on you.

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As I understand it, it is very rare for girls to give blowjobs(except in pornos) so I don't feel it's ridicilous that you haven't gave him one yet. If you don't really want to do it, you shouldn't have to. Though it is a bit unfair if he always goes down on you.

 

That's not true. Where are you getting your information from? I don't think you've been in a relationship, so am unclear why you are stating this like it's a fact! I love giving oral sex, I always have done, so do most people who post here.

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Most girls are like that though, they have no problem getting it but they never want to give it back.

 

HUH? Every, every, one I've been with loved recieving, and returning the favor. And the number is above 20.

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Every partner i have been with has been concerned about how good they are at giving head.

They are all different personally.

Just like I am sure I don't give oral exactly the same as the last guy they were with.

But I am not going to have the thoght of being concerned that i may not be as good.

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