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Where do I even begin at? Well here it goes.

 

Tuesday March 2, 2010 at 7 pm my mom and I got into an argument due to that she couldn't do my best friend a favor because she had an family emergency.( my best friend) Well when I got home at 7 pm I confronted my mom about it. Well she was drunker than a skunk. I knew then OMG this isn't going to be good at all. She's a very bad alcoholic.

 

Well her and I started arguing really bad that I grabbed for her drink to dump it in the sink and throw it away. Well as I did that she decides to grab for her 9MM. I then ran into the kitchen to finished cooking dinner never knowing that she had grabbed her gun. When I looked up she had her 9MM pointed at me and was yelling at me that she was going to kill me that I was nothing but a trouble maker. That I need to leave and get out of her life for good. That she can't stand me and that she wants me out of her life for good.

 

I then asked her to put the gun down 3 times. She said oh shut up and leave me alone. I then repeated it again for her to put the gun down and she said that I got alcohol all over it when I didn't. The alcohol had split all on the floor and no where near her gun.

 

So the dispatcher on the phone is hearing all of this, and she was trying to get some very important information from me but my mom kept yelling at me and the dipatcher was listening to all of what was going on meanwhile there was a sheriff officer on his way here.

 

Well in the meantime, my mom had yanked out the phone line, causing the dispatcher and I to be disconnected. So the dispatcher had called back and my mom had answer it and was yelling at her and screaming at the dispathcher. I then quickly ran and re-plugged the phone line back up into the wall, I then continued to talk to the dispatcher and then before I knew the officer was here and I was like thank goodness. I then quickly ran outside and told the officer that she was inside.

 

The officer came in with his gun drawn and he asked my mom serveral times where is the gun and that she needed to sit down. She was still yelling and the officer told her that she needed to be quited and now. Well when she finally told him where her gun was, he went and got it, asked me if I knew if it was loaded or not and I told him I don't know. Then he asked her if it was loaded she told the officer that no it wasn't loaded.

 

Meanwhile the 2nd officer had already pulled up, and he was already inside of the house, then the 1st officer takes the gun out and looks at it and lord and behold there was a bullet there in the chamber. I almost fel out. The officer looked at me and then looked at her and said I thought you told me that the gun was unloaded. He then asked me if I was in fear of my life and I told him yes of course.

 

He(the 1st officer) had put my mom under arrest for aggrivated assault. She had spent a little over 12 hours in jail before she got out on bond. $3,000 bond at that. Well now today when I woke up and logged on to facebook, I've seen comments from her friends cussing me out and harrassing me calling me everything but white.

 

Then this evening at exactly 6pm the landlord hands me a written notice that he had typed up and was telling me to be off of his property within 24 hours.

 

I have no family up here and I am stranded up here. Now what do I do.

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Your'e 25. Time to move out.

 

I agree!! Though your Mom shouldn't be pointing a gun at you or anyone else for that matter..She is allowed to refuse favors for your friends and she is allowed to drink (even to the point of being drunk) in her home.

 

From the sound of your post it sounds as though you and your mother don't get along to well. You also mentioned she is an alcoholic and you knew she was drunk. Knowing those two things why would you confront her about her not doing your friend a favor, while she was drunk?

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I agree!! Though your Mom shouldn't be pointing a gun at you or anyone else for that matter..She is allowed to refuse favors for your friends and she is allowed to drink (even to the point of being drunk) in her home.

 

From the sound of your post it sounds as though you and your mother don't get along to well. You also mentioned she is an alcoholic and you knew she was drunk. Knowing those two things why would you confront her about her not doing your friend a favor, while she was drunk?

 

Yeppers. Comes a time (for most of us, it's when we are eighteen) when we must move along.

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Holy cow, how terrifying!! I'm so glad you called the police & she was charged. Drunk or not, it was the right thing.

 

Now what her friends were saying to you on facebook.. was any of it threatening? If it was, I would definitely show the cops. One loaded gun pointed at you is enough! Unfriend them all & block them.

 

Sounds like you need to find a new place to stay. Do you have any money? You could look online for people looking for a roommate to split the rent with. Do you have any friends you can stay with for a week or two while you look for a place to go? If not, again I would tell the cops your predicament & see if they have a shelter or any other recommendations for you to go. Once you do find a new place to stay, I would again ask the cops to escort you to your mothers house to collect your belongings in order to ensure your safety.

 

I'm so glad you are ok!! I can't believe she would threaten her own daughter's life over a glass of alcohol. Insane.

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Do you have any friends or other family members you can stay with temporary? I don't know your living situation but I agree with others, you need to stay away from this woman, as hard as it is your own mother, she could've pulled that trigger and needs serious help.

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