Nixee Posted March 1, 2010 Share Posted March 1, 2010 Girls who wants the guy to chase her, do all the work and initiate contact every time are not relationship material, atleast not for me. So no I wouldn't chase a girl even if she was intrested and it could lead to something, because if she really liked me she wouldn't force me to chase her. I think you don't understand or misunderstand the meanings of the words "hope" and "reciprocity" .... why would you assume that means doing ALL the work? If a girl truly is making you do ALL the work, then I would say, no... she isn't interested. In a true chase situation... where the girl is interested.. it is more likely that the guy will simply feel in the lead - like the aggressor. He will probably initiate contact more often, but not all the time. He will probably plan dates, offer to drive, be the first to ask her out and if he is the type.. sometimes give little gifts, etc. Everytime I've been chased/pursued/wooed...just speaking from my experience.. that is how a guy has acted. Even when I've tried to step in and offer to meet halfway, he wished to take the lead. Now...had I never initiated any contact or shown any interest - never offered to do anything back at times (cook dinner, offer a suggestion for an outing, offer money etc)... the chase could end. That is reciprocity. Link to comment
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