veda999 Posted February 27, 2010 Share Posted February 27, 2010 Bingo! Whether you're a guy or a girl, it's not a game to avoid prioritizing someone in your life while you're still figuring out how you feel about them. I can appreciate that old fashioned dating sounds, well... old fashioned, but grandma had a point. If your life can easily become a vacuum focused on sucking someone else in, then that's a game that anyone with a brain can see through soon enough. If you legitimately fill your life with goals and passions of your own, then your life really isn't easily disrupted to fit someone else in. A new date will need to earn their place in your heart--just as you'll also need to do for them. Yes, this is healthy, and it is not a game. Of course you need time to decide the suitability of the person, but sometimes you know the person would be a good fit, and making room for him/her should come naturally. If you have to squeeze someone in. perhaps they are not right for you anyway. Link to comment
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