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Long story short, my girlfriend had pictures posted on facebook by a guy she has been talking to a lot on facebook and another site from her class.

 

They were from a party she went to over the weekend, and 3 of the pics the guy has his arm around her, and one of those 3 pics his arm is around her and she is reaching up grabbing onto his wrist.

 

We already had a long talk about jealousy and trust, and such. But I really dont know what to think. The one that really bugs me is where she is reaching up grabbing his wrist.

 

I really dont know what to think about this? Should I ignore it? talk to her about it? (keep in mind 3 days before we had a long talk about all this stuff but the pictures werent up then - Also come to find out she is posting to the guy on facebook and another site while we are having this talk

 

So please advise, or at least give opinions that if this was your situation, guy or girl, what would you think? and what would you do?

 

Thank you

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It's really really REALLY hard to say without knowing your girlfriend. For me, I'm a touchy person....if I'm comfortable with someone. Relationship or not..I let people touch me(and touch back) if I feel comfortable with them. Other than that..I have personal space issues. HA. Depending on the girl..she could just get on with him really well....and feel friendly. But, from the sounds of it..she likes him...and is flirting. Trust is one thing..but if you explained how this bothers you and she continues.....perhaps she;s not the one for you. If someone cares for you..they'll respect things that bother you. Ya know?

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If it were me, I know it would bother me. But I try to be as tolerant as possible, so I wouldn't say anything and I would just accept that I could do the same with other girls as well, and if my girlfriend had a problem with it then we could mutually tell each other to not get that close to others.

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bah..............now there is more flirting on facebook :S. At least I think its flirting

 

She said something about a porno and the guy said the new filming location is where she lives. She said she would do it because she neeeded the money but she wanted her own dressing room, and then the guy put pack saying its a deal.

 

I know its harmless but she dosent even flirt with me like that! * * *

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  • 2 weeks later...

bah...more pics of her on facebook at another party constantly around the same guy and touching in quite a few pics.

 

Keep in mind, I didnt go "searching" for these pics. It came up on the news feed.

 

I mean I have no clue if this is anything but it certainly puts me in a very awkward position.

 

Note: This is not the guy she was flirting with from my previous posts.

 

I know she wont say anything about the pics, which means I will have to bring them up (if its important enough to me) but then I look like a facebook stalker.

 

Sometimes it just seems, she dosent want the type of relationship I want, but she says she does.

 

 

Should I just ask about this guy and be up front and just flat out ask?

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