Ex GF hacked my accounts

[malibumann]

I agree, with the above. It's not whether she will come back to you and whether or not you should forgive her.

 

It is up to her whether or not she is willing to take you back if you ever changed your mind.

 

Yes what I done was worse and I think we both ruined our chances for the future, me more so than her. I never did this on purpose unlike what she done by destroying my accounts. She keeps bashing me calling me a phedophile loser ect to my new Gf and her family and friends putting me down and something has to stop soon.

[sunshine1]

I think youre selfish and rude. While it's not OK to do what she did, I really don't blame her. It pretty much sounds like you deserved it.

[Jd1983]

I understand why she feels the need to bash on you, after all you did cheat on her. However, I don't think this is healthy for either of you. I think it's probably best that you guys stop talking altogether.

 

Let her live her life and you continue living yours.

 

How do you feel about your gf otherwise? Do you think it was worth it?

[Siriana]

What if I made a mistake with jumping into things to soon and somewhere down the line want her back? Should I forgive her hacking?

 

 

Are you really that sleazy?

 

Hon, she'll never take you back.

[malibumann]

I understand why she feels the need to bash on you, after all you did cheat on her. However, I don't think this is healthy for either of you. I think it's probably best that you guys stop talking altogether.

 

Let her live her life and you continue living yours.

 

How do you feel about your gf otherwise? Do you think it was worth it?

 

I am unsure, cause she is young and trying to move in with me already and start a life so soon, She is from a dysfunctional family and I think i am her escape, but now the damage is done and I cant turn back and get my ex back not now anyway, She is missing alot of qualitys my ex had but the hacking is very unforgivable right now.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Yes what I done was worse and I think we both ruined our chances for the future, me more so than her. I never did this on purpose unlike what she done by destroying my accounts. She keeps bashing me calling me a phedophile loser ect to my new Gf and her family and friends putting me down and something has to stop soon.

 

Yes you did.

[malibumann]

Yes you did.

Why do you think so?

[Jd1983]

I am unsure, cause she is young and trying to move in with me already and start a life so soon, She is from a dysfunctional family and I think i am her escape, but now the damage is done and I cant turn back and get my ex back not now anyway, She is missing alot of qualitys my ex had but the hacking is very unforgivable right now.

 

Yeah, if your new gf is already taking about getting serious with you that soon, it sounds like a major red flag.

 

As far as your ex goes, take some time away from each other. You're both in the wrong, so you need to understand that two wrongs don't make a right.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Why do you think so?

 

You cheated on her. You lied to her. You left her for another woman.

 

These things don't just happen. You made the choices you made and made what happened happened. You knew it would hurt her and you did it anyway.

 

You did it on purpose.

[Miss Firecracker]

What if I made a mistake with jumping into things to soon and somewhere down the line want her back? Should I forgive her hacking?

 

If you go back with her, then I think you deserve what you'll get. It won't be a fun life for you.

[Sanesoul]

Yes what I done was worse and I think we both ruined our chances for the future, me more so than her. I never did this on purpose unlike what she done by destroying my accounts. She keeps bashing me calling me a phedophile loser ect to my new Gf and her family and friends putting me down and something has to stop soon.

 

You reap what you sow

[malibumann]

I deserved all the comments and I appreciate you all for your insight. Thank you

[CaptainNapalm]

My ex girlfriend hacked into my facebook and email accounts while we were together. I didn't do anything at the time but now that I look at it from a more outside perspective I realize how ridiculous that was. Because what she did involved your personal credit card information I would report her to the police. You're afraid of hurting her but you're enabling her if you don't do anything about this. If you call the cops on her now you'll give her a slap on the wrist and she won't do it again. If you don't, she won't see consequences of her actions and will continue to hack, if not you, then certainly someone else.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

Maybe I deserve it, I do feel really bad about it and said I was so sorry!

 

No, you did NOT deserve it. What she did was a criminal act. While your actions were very sleazy and it is certainly understandable that she would be very very very upset, she took it too far. The sky is not the limit when someone wrongs you. There has to be some measure of sense and restraint.

[Chris Knows]

Drop kick her.

[vertigoxo]

Are you really that sleazy?

 

Hon, she'll never take you back.

 

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[redherring]

What if I made a mistake with jumping into things to soon and somewhere down the line want her back? Should I forgive her hacking?

 

Forgive her hacking for yourself- not for her.

Maybe you did make a mistake- time will tell. Only you could know the answer to that one. You did move hastily but sometimes we make the choices we need to on impulse.

 

Note: 100th post, whoop.

[bertdru]

Why should you forgive her hacking? She is a psycho! If you want to get back with psycho ex, you can very well do that but in future, you are going to suffer even more.

 

She is a criminal basically.

[malibumann]

Why should you forgive her hacking? She is a psycho! If you want to get back with psycho ex, you can very well do that but in future, you are going to suffer even more.

 

She is a criminal basically.

she never behaved in this manner before she just is hurt not physco thats a harsh word to discribe any woman with a broken heart. I completley understand I screwed up and she wanted to find answers i wouldnt give her so she snooped and got them i guess.

[Rotxsen]

I suggest try to end things good with her before it gets worst.

[babybluz73]

I did the same thing..subconciencely prob to kill the chance of every reconciling cause I am too weak to say no if there was ever a chance. I dont regret doing it, he doesnt know i did it, but he emailed me referring to it so im sure he knows and i dont care either he was in my life so long i had the passwords and he knew it..shame on him for not changing them!