celestial262 Posted February 25, 2010 Share Posted February 25, 2010 First of all, for those who have read my post earlier about my conversation with my ex, I know I have handle the situation in the wrong way. I was irrational and was being very short with him. His gifts are precious to me and I have never wanted to sell them off. The reason for him to hold back my stuffs is that he doesn't hear anything from me and used my stuffs to fish me up. Anyway, back to breaking NC with my ex. He was online later on after our first conversation. I im-ed him and aplologised for me behaviour earlier. He said it was ok and the he's online now just for me. During this conversation he kept asking the reasons why I haven't been online and what I've been up to. Although he claimed that he was 'worried' not to hear from me, well he didn't even send me an email to ask how I am. He claimed that I should be the one giving him 'news' and stop disappearing on msn. I told him to drop it because I went total NC and it helped me to move on. I guess it kept him off guarded. First of all, he told me that he was suprised I went NC suddenly and what are the reasons why I want to chat with him now. He even knew that we havent spoken for a month (I'm wondering if he counted the days?) He was a lil angry that I've decided to talk to him again in a month and kept pushing how I should not block him on msn etc etc. He was the dumper, and he expected me to contact him first ? NC works for me. When I talked to him, I meantioned how seeking a theraphy made me realised so many things about me. I discussed with him a lil about my feelings ( things I've learned from the relationship) I'm not sure if he was really paying attention but it doesn't matter. I guess it's good I talked it through. So what should I do now ? Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted February 25, 2010 Share Posted February 25, 2010 ROFFL! To the above poster. Go back to NC. If you didn't contact him first, you wouldn't be having the conversation you just did because he wouldn't have contacted you. He dumped you remember. Link to comment
celestial262 Posted February 25, 2010 Author Share Posted February 25, 2010 He dumped you remember. Yes I remember. Don't have to rub that on my face. Link to comment
celestial262 Posted February 25, 2010 Author Share Posted February 25, 2010 Party Hard. I'm close to 30, not into parties. Link to comment
fLuiD Posted February 25, 2010 Share Posted February 25, 2010 Begin No Contact again. If you feel you need to block him on MSN, change your e-mail address, change your cell phone number, etc. to better heal, then you should begin doing it right away. Later on when you have healed and if you want to open up conversation, you can do so but I don't think you are ready for that yet. First step is to heal yourself. Link to comment
celestial262 Posted February 25, 2010 Author Share Posted February 25, 2010 I've told him I changed my number and have deleted his number. His first reaction was..guess you must be really angry that time. I think that he assumed I'm not moving on and is still hooked up with him. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted February 25, 2010 Share Posted February 25, 2010 Begin No Contact again. If you feel you need to block him on MSN, change your e-mail address, change your cell phone number, etc. to better heal, then you should begin doing it right away. Later on when you have healed and if you want to open up conversation, you can do so but I don't think you are ready for that yet. First step is to heal yourself. I agree with this. Also, That was a harsh comment you gave to Dylan, why ask for advice if you may not like the answers, he was not being rude, IMO. Link to comment
iBroken Posted February 25, 2010 Share Posted February 25, 2010 Delete and block him off your MSN....this has been mentioned several times. Go back into NC...... Link to comment
celestial262 Posted February 25, 2010 Author Share Posted February 25, 2010 Delete and block him off your MSN....this has been mentioned several times. Go back into NC...... He's off... for good. Link to comment
celestial262 Posted February 25, 2010 Author Share Posted February 25, 2010 I'll keep a journal. If I have anything else to say to him, I'll write it down instead =). Wish me the best of NC. I'M DETERMINED TO KEEP NC FOR A LONG AS I CAN ! =) Link to comment
iBroken Posted February 25, 2010 Share Posted February 25, 2010 Good luck - You can get through this Link to comment
celestial262 Posted February 25, 2010 Author Share Posted February 25, 2010 Good luck - You can get through this Thanks. Are you still around ? Need someone to talk to =( Link to comment
iBroken Posted February 25, 2010 Share Posted February 25, 2010 Sorry I didnt see this last night I crashed with my laptop on my lap in bed......hope you made it through the night ok. Link to comment
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