will u ever date an asian?

[drewciouS281]

To me just like white or brown or whatever, if im attracted to you physically and mentally it doesnt matter to me. I find many asians very cute! I love little fit petite women and most asian women are small and petite.

[Organs]

Sure, I'd date an Asian. My first girlfriend was Korean. I have no problem with those whose roots are in the east.

[xyzzzz]

I have never been to Australia but I am assuming if you live in a big city, mix couples are common considering the amount of Asian immigrants there.

 

Maybe perhaps its not our cultures that prevent us from being approached but rather our own body language. I am actually polling my male friends if I come off as unavailable or unapproachable and it's amazing how perceptive they are to our body language. For me, I am confident and it shows in my walk and my interactions with other people. I am not shy and I am not uncomfortable approaching people, which leads my male "friends to have the impression that I am already "taken" and the shy ones to not approach because they are...well...too shy.

 

if confident and stuff gives out the vibe that ur taken..what behavior shows ur avaliable?

[OntheWire]

I think Asian women are beautiful... especially one I met the other day that I mentioned in my other thread. The thing that always scared me about Asian girls were their parents. I would be really afraid of meeting the parents.

[Momake]

I'm asian and have dated accross the board. I strayed away from the asian asian women though. Contrary to what you said, xyzzz, I found them neither exotic nor submissive (obviously on the first part) and I found them to be quite needy and... well... needy; in other words, high maintenance. I don't like that so I tended to date the whiter asians, lol.

 

Mixed couples are very common here in Canada (agreeing with poster above). This is especially true in larger cities like Toronto or Montreal. Yes, White male / Asian female is more common.

 

Also, I am seeing more and more mixed children and a few of my friends are mix. I know this one girl who looks asian except for her naturally auburn hair.

[xyzzzz]

i also constantly heard of many mixed couples in america/canada ..but ive never ben there idk if australia is really very different from there

[Nickk]

Where you from? Im from Adelaide and ive never really thought about it before but i do rarely see asian girls with white guys or vice versa! well not unless you see the old fellas with there dial a brides......interesting.

[greywolf]

I'm half, and here in california, people can't really tell that I'm asian (probably because of all the full asians around here), but when I go to places where asians aren't all that common, it's obvious to others that I'm asian. I don't think it's ever stopped anyone from approaching me.

[Rotxsen]

I dated an asian it was the best until she became a * * * * * but after that I have no complaints go for it.

[xyzzzz]

lol interesting in the thread i got all these positive replies..

[Jd1983]

I'm Asian and I'm from the U.S., I realized that a lot of guys from different races are more attracted to Asians because they're considered exotic.

 

However, just try being yourself and I'm sure someone will eventually come along.

[xyzzzz]

lol i hope i can get more answers from australians tho

[MD Geist]

I've had many asians who have wanted to be with me but I never persued them not because of their looks or anything but because of their intentions.

 

I fanced this one girl who was everything I was looking for except she was 19 at the time and I thought she was quite sexy, she was korean mixed with latin, full figured, curvy and that personalitly I wanted wanted in a person but the reason why i didn't want to be with her in the end is she wanted to have a child at a very early age in life for some reason. Early as in 23 early to have a child and to me that was a huge turn off cause I'm not at an age were I can call myself a man quite yet and take care of a woman and a baby.

 

So I just let her go and I think she's pregnant today, i'm not 100% but I believe its possible, she mentioned something about she's 2 months or so and that sounds lot like pregancy talk.

[chelsea13]

Yea well doesn't mean all Asians are like that so what do you mean by THEIR intentions.

 

I know a lot of Asians who are not into this, I myself being one of them

[OntheWire]

Does no one else share my fear of the parents?

[Cognitive_Canine]

While I do not know you, I have known quite a few asians and how they interact with non asians.

 

Typically asian girls do not show interest outwardly in men. Even if they like them, they are quite reserved or will give too subtle of hints. While an asian man may recognize these hints, a person who is not brought up in that culture will be oblivious. Only a few men will approach a woman who doesn't smile at him or give him an inviting look...show some sort of interest. And typically these men aren't that great of guys.

 

A smile, an arm touch, a bubbly personality....can all go a long way.

[guynextdoor]

An asian male will probably not recognize these hint as well. I'm not sure how culture comes into play when dropping hints.. But you are right a smile and bubbly personality will go a long way.

[xyzzzz]

While I do not know you, I have known quite a few asians and how they interact with non asians.

 

Typically asian girls do not show interest outwardly in men. Even if they like them, they are quite reserved or will give too subtle of hints. While an asian man may recognize these hints, a person who is not brought up in that culture will be oblivious. Only a few men will approach a woman who doesn't smile at him or give him an inviting look...show some sort of interest. And typically these men aren't that great of guys.

 

A smile, an arm touch, a bubbly personality....can all go a long way.

 

what is explicit hints then? only smile or touch?we constantly smile but i dunno think that means anything.but yeah i guess we dont touch ppl much..and by we i mean whites too.Everytime they touched me accidently,or like bumped into me,they immediately say sorry(they are my friends not strangers)

[Cognitive_Canine]

what is explicit hints then? only smile or touch?we constantly smile but i dunno think that means anything.but yeah i guess we dont touch ppl much..and by we i mean whites too.Everytime they touched me accidently,or like bumped into me,they immediately say sorry(they are my friends not strangers)

 

Do you flirt with guys you like?

[xyzzzz]

lol i dont really flirt i guess..what is flirt? sweet talk or ?

to the guys i like,im just friendly with them and i laugh a lot when talking to them and im funny myself too..

[Cognitive_Canine]

lol i dont really flirt i guess..what is flirt? sweet talk or ?

to the guys i like,im just friendly with them and i laugh a lot when talking to them and im funny myself too..

 

Well you can try to be a bit more adventurous by showing extra attention to the guy you like. A good thing to do when you are alone is say something like "so, any girls in your life?". It gets him in that mindset without being awkward. Another thing is nicknames. Call a guy " (insert names) cakes" or "(insert name) kazoo" when you first see him that day and he'll light up. It sounds stupid but it's playful and it always works for me.

[k4ppa]

Heck yeah I would, they are cute.

[DatingIsSoHard]

well i always got the impression u guys only interested in whites

 

Personally I'm white and only interested in Indian girls, especially Punjabis.

I never dated a white girl.

It's not just looks although the initial idea was probably that but in the meantime I've learned a lot about their language and culture and feel at ease with them. I'd go to great lengths to get a Punjabi GF again.

[LightbulbSun]

Yes, I find a lot of Asian girls attractive.

[PUAtheist]

Yes, I would definitely date an Asian woman if she is nice. To be honest I find Asian women more attractive than most other women.

It's just those mysterious eyes and the black hair... Beautiful !

 

I'm not from Australia, but I'm sure there are loads of guys down under who would think like me. Just make yourself seem approachable (smile, open body language, etc.)

I find a lot of quite 'traditional' Asian women from countries like China and Korea come accross as quite reserved and happy to be by themselves, until you get to know them quite well. Don't know if you're like that.

Maybe if you try behaving a bit more like a regular easy-going Australian lady you might have an easier time getting approached.