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I never goto strip clubs just because of a stubburn principle of mine that strip clubs are for desperate people and im not about to pay for any physical or sexual activity because i can get it for free from my (ex) girlfriend at the time

It has been 2 months since my ex broke up with me and since then my friends are pushing me to go to a stirp club, they say that it would help me to get over her, especially if i will get a lap dance.

I really dont like the place for the reason that i mentioned and because of all of the old desperate people who go there and sit next to the stage and just drill at the strippers.

As i said it has been 2 months since she broke up with me and since then i did not have any phsyical contact with any girls, mostly because of the "grieving stages".

So what do u think falks, I dont really want to go, but if in a way it would make me to divert my attention away from my ex and in away will help me to move on, im willing to do it...as they say desperate times call desperate measures

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I have been to strip clubs very few times. My ex let me go while we were dating, but of course with an agreement that I would not do anything with any of the strippers. And really, I didn't have much interest in the strippers other than to watch them on stage. We had the same logic that it is alot like watching porn. Its OK to look, but not touch. Some women believe watching porn is cheating, and I would have to disagree. I think part of the reason this worked between my ex and I was because she knew I enjoyed the strip club, but not to a point where I would get out of control and do something damaging to the relationship.

 

As to going after a break up, I would strongly suggest it. I mean, you have nothing to worry about because you don't have anyone complaining about you going and blah blah blah. Going to a strip club while you are single is probably the best time for you to go. Of course dont become some kind of addict and go there on a regular basis. I think of the strip club as more of a place to lounge around with friends and have a few beers.

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there's nothing wrong with that, but it has the potential to make you crave more attention from females than before you went to the strip club, and the feeling of remembering your ex is no longer available i can imagine would be a pretty crap feeling..

 

So why don't you mix going to the strip club and going out on the town and just have a great time and receive female attention not just from strip clubs but from real women everywhere in bars.

 

Enjoy you're freedom

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I have been to strip clubs, watched porn, tried to have sexual thoughts about women I see around, but ultimately nothing turns me on at the moment than the thought of round the clock sex with my ex.

 

Ultimately its another one of those things that takes time.

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Dude none of that is gonna make you forget her...after my breakup i litteraly whored around (safely of course) 6 random hook ups later and i cant say i dont think about her anymore...although it does do wonders for your self esteem. Strip clubs wont help though....try meeting girls that will like YOU not your money

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I have been to strip clubs, watched porn, tried to have sexual thoughts about women I see around, but ultimately nothing turns me on at the moment than the thought of round the clock sex with my ex.

 

Ultimately its another one of those things that takes time.

 

same here, without the strip clubs though. Last time I had sex with him was 10 months ago, how pathetic is that ha? It was surreal for many months. I'd try to please myself and then I'd cry, I'm talking 8 out of 10 times! For 9 months! All I think is him. It's only very recently it's got a bit better. I usually try to think of women because if I think of a male it's him...or I try and think of someone else I've recently snogged or something. This has been one of my biggest challenges..

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I have been to strip clubs multiple since my break-up. Me and all my buddies go and we just have a good time. I mostly like strip clubs because of the environment. Don't get me wrong, I love seeing beautiful women dance with nothing on, but strip clubs to me is a chill zone.

 

Go out and go have fun. Just cause you decide to go doesn't mean your desperate. Your just going to have a good time with your friends.

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