grmela Posted April 12, 2010 Share Posted April 12, 2010 Have you both had AIDS tests? If so, great! Reading your story all I can think is that youve started your relationship already, your'e in knee-deep and yet you have huge doubts...your feelings of jealousy are not going to go as long as you dont accept the reality of this mans life. Perhaps you know deep down that youll be treated no differently from his past women. It seems likely youll have to live with his baggage for quite sometime...either get tough quickly and just enjoy the fact youre going to be a mother and dont distance yourself from your girlfriends. He must be feeling kind of like a failure, perhaps you can try to figure out his issues together and work on building up both your self-esteems as a mutual project. Who knows, you may be perfect for each other! Link to comment
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