What works best...a BJ first or going down on the girl first?

[BenDZ]

I like going down first. Going down on me is optional. But as long as I get to get my lickings in lol.

[JeckyllNHyde]

Whats everyones preference..doing oral on her first or do the guys like their BJ first??? Ladies what do you think as well?

 

My bf usually prefer oral on me then actual sex.

 

When giving bj's it's usually all about him though.

 

In the beginning we used to do 69 alot, so we'd both get pleasure together.

 

I'd rather get oral first though, since I feel akward after he has already orgasmed, and doesn't seem as into it as before that happens.

[Perfect Dark]

I don't like the 69, too much stuff going on at once. I'm usually good at multi-tasking, though.

[KG]

I like to get her off with oral first, then lovemaking, she goes down on me if she gets too sore. But at least I know she got hers.

[curious11]

I dont last too long giving or getting oral. Because I just want to go straight to the sex.

[katsumi]

i personally like going down on him first because i get really wet from seeing his facial expressions and hearing him moan then i'll let him lap it up

[Distant]

I like starting off square with kissing then we both start at the same time with a 69.

[greywolf]

Once I get my orgasm, I'm pretty much too lazy to keep going. So with my ex, I always went down on her first, then she'd do me.

[Distant]

Once I get my orgasm, I'm pretty much too lazy to keep going. So with my ex, I always went down on her first, then she'd do me.

 

Dont ya just hate it when you orgasm and your pooped and thats it.

[greywolf]

Dont ya just hate it when you orgasm and your pooped and thats it.

 

Yeah. I get cranky sometimes too lol.

[Distant]

Yeah. I get cranky sometimes too lol.

 

LOL.

The last time me and the lady made love I passed out from exhaustion within 10 seconds of spewing. She was still shaking from climax and I was out like a light.

[ramsickle1369]

Wow... I had all kinds of responses lined up, but all I can think is OMG HOW UTTERLY BORING! Don't PLAN anything... Seriously. The best sex is ALWAYS the "surprise" sex. If you both know the routine you will quickly be looking outside the relationship for excitment.

 

And, regarding the guys that don't like to go down, yes, there are plenty. I married one. He thought it was (his words) disgusting. Thanks for the pick me up EX-hubby!!!

 

And BTW, there are men out there who don't like BJ's too... But I think they just never had a GREAT one....

[duchesstigerlily]

Wow, I'm not sure I would be involved with someone who would immediately go outside our relationship if things became "routine". How about trying to spice it up in your own relationship rather than looking outside it...seems odd if you really love the person you're with.

[oldenoughtoknow]

A little oral on her first - women like the feeling of being irresistible and being taken. Then a little oral on him. Then sex and he has his first orgasm. If the woman hasn't cum yet, she should be worked up after all this for oral and multiple orgasms. This gives the guy some recuperation time and he should be ready to go again after watching her writhe around. And then cuddle and rest for a few minutes. Then a little oral on him will probably get things started yet again. You get the idea. I hope everyone had a Happy Valentines Day!

[shygal2008]

WOW richpart..that sounds perfect

[none2good]

When in doubt, 69

 

I hear that. That number will remove any and all doubt.