shygal2008 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Whats everyones preference..doing oral on her first or do the guys like their BJ first??? Ladies what do you think as well? Link to comment
WomanWriter Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Get the girl off first since she takes longer to warm up (IMO). It will also allow the man to last longer. At least that worked best in my experience. Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Mix it up. Oral for her, sex, oral for him, more sex, oral for her, oral for him, more sex.... And so on and so on Link to comment
PSYCHOLOGY Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 HE needs to go first! Link to comment
jul-els Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Get the girl off first since she takes longer to warm up (IMO). It will also allow the man to last longer. At least that worked best in my experience. Yep, agree with this. Plus, once your work is done you can just sit back and enjoy! Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 I'm with WomanWriter on this one. I can be patient and I enjoy pleasing a woman first. Link to comment
Taikero Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 I think when the woman receives first it builds the excitement more, plus in the case she doesn't like giving back, it probably increases those chances. There shouldn't be any hard and fast rules though. Different couples work well (or don't) their own way. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 i prefer one or the other on a given evening......too much of a good thing theory Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 We should go first because once men have finished they seem to think we don't matter. eyes Link to comment
Theblueman123 Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 I always hated always having to go down, I would say BJ all the way. Link to comment
Keyman Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 I would say BJ first, but not to completion. Then work on the girl - in my preference until she goes at least once - then intercourse, that way she is still on a high and you can push her even further into a place of pleasure, ending only when the guy finishes. Link to comment
Clabs Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Mix it up. Oral for her, sex, oral for him, more sex, oral for her, oral for him, more sex.... And so on and so on This seems about right! Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Mix it up. Oral for her, sex, oral for him, more sex, oral for her, oral for him, more sex.... And so on and so on that sounds like dancing Link to comment
shygal2008 Posted February 10, 2010 Author Share Posted February 10, 2010 You hate going down on a girl??? Hmmm i don't think i'd ever be in a relationship with someone who didn't enjoy that or at least be ''equal'' about pleasuring one another but i'd be even more excited if he liked it and expressed it to me!!!!!!! Girls am i the only one who feels this way? Link to comment
Clabs Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 that sounds like dancing What's wrong with a dance? Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 When in doubt, 69 Link to comment
Clabs Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 When in doubt, 69 True - that too Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 When in doubt, 69 Lol. Honestly, 69 always seemed like a horrible idea to me. It means that my nose will be in his balls and his hair in my lady parts..... I'd rather go down on a guy first. Link to comment
DrKitten Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Lol. Honestly, 69 always seemed like a horrible idea to me. It means that my nose will be in his balls and his hair in my lady parts..... What's wrong with that? Your mouth and nose are close to his balls during a BJ anyway. Unless you're talking about a height issue. OP: I'm pretty generous, so I usually go for the BJ first. Link to comment
FathomFear Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 The OP's question sort of assumes that the bedroom plays out like a rehearsed, cookie-cutter porn scene. If you get in the habit of doing things in a certain order I suspect that will hasten the speed at which it becomes boring and routine. Probably the best bet to keep it spontaneous. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted February 10, 2010 Share Posted February 10, 2010 Mix it up. Oral for her, sex, oral for him, more sex, oral for her, oral for him, more sex.... And so on and so on if it was on a porn video i would have to fast forward....i need structure Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 What's wrong with that? Your mouth and nose are close to his balls during a BJ anyway. Unless you're talking about a height issue. OP: I'm pretty generous, so I usually go for the BJ first. Yeah, my nose is above his balls and free to breath. In a 69 situation, my face would be pretty much smashed into his privates. That doesn't sound appealing to me. I gave him a blow job upside down once. It was awkward and he said he didn't like it. My tongue wasn't hitting the spots that it normally would. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 I prefer to give him a BJ first - I love to get him all excited knowing that he can't wait to be all over me. Link to comment
babii doll Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 since its the only way i get off i prefer getting oral first, then once i get off its his turn, with sex to follow. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted February 11, 2010 Share Posted February 11, 2010 I usually like to give him the blow job first. Not only does it get him fired up but me as well. Then I can get mine... although I don't mind being selfish and going first sometimes Link to comment
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