Can oral (to a girl) instantly feel good?

[DatingIsSoHard]

I'll explain later why I'm asking this and why this detail is important.

What I mean is: Can a girl instantly enjoy oral sex or is it always required to stimulate her a bit first with caressing etc?

If she is wet is that evidence enough that she enjoys it?

 

Now the reason why I ask this is that my ex dumped me in 2 phases:

 

- September, 7th : Said she needed time & space (classic) and had sex a last time with me. She said something intriguing that day before we had sex: "Let's see if the sex works better than the talking" (we already had a total communication breakdown the preceding weeks)

We both had little time so I sort of skipped extended foreplay and went straight for her privates with my tongue and she instantly said "Oh feels good"

I wonder if she was simulating or whether it is still possible that she really enjoyed it.

 

- November,20th She dumped me over the telephone. We had not met again since last time, nor did she text me/phone me before. That makes me assume that she must have thought that even sex wasn't better than talking.

It matters to me because although I usually had longer foreplay the other times before I remember that she often used to say "Oh feels good" when I performed oral on her. And I'm starting to doubt if I'm good in bed and she might have left me coz of bad sex.

[flipmo]

For me, kissing is all that is really necessary to want to do that, but if I am not already wet I will not enjoy it. Getting wet = enjoyment. I doubt the breakup has anything to do with sex from what you have just described.

[DatingIsSoHard]

I must say she was usually VERY wet after kissing sessions.

[sexxy_tan]

hmmm, well for me oral works almost instantly...but its is MUCH better when some kissing and touching has been going on first

[Dragunov-21]

I think it's something that's usually better when you're in the mood for it (so touching/kissing beforehand never goes astray), but plenty of girls like it from the get-go...

[thinkywicky]

it depends on the female but most times it works in a matter of minutes.

[OptomisticGirl]

I prefer to be kissing and touched before hand. I might already be there but getting there more never hurt.

[lil kitty]

It really does depends on the girl. for me it doesn't really matter if foreplay before oral or not is fine with me. I work both way

[DatingIsSoHard]

It really does depends on the girl. for me it doesn't really matter if foreplay before oral or not is fine with me. I work both way

 

So judging from most answers I've got so far I should conclude that she probably DID enjoy but that communication had broken down to the point of no return and that's why she finalised the dumping process?

[fLuiD]

Her intentions for wanting to have sex while you two are breaking down is a bit of concern. I sense a little sarcasm in her 'hope sex is better than talking' statement.