sexxy_tan Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I am a very visual person, and Im extremely proud of my body, so I LOVE to have all the lights on when I have sex. The guy Im kind of with now always turns them on or leaves them, But once I did sleep with a guy (one night stand) who actually turned the lights off on purpose!! Haha I was a little offended, probably unnecessarily but still... Just wondering about everyone elses preferances hehe Link to comment
adommin Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I've never turned the lights off for sex. That just seems weird... Link to comment
guynextdoor Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I like to leave the lights on and be blindfolded. Link to comment
Kaiser_Soze Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I wear night vision... Link to comment
leq Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I wear night vision... Haha, brilliant Link to comment
heatspreader Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I think the lights should be on, I wanna look into a girl's eyes as I make love to her. Link to comment
unknownme Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I think the lights off is sexy, I enjoy his skin and the whole feeling =) Link to comment
vaevictus83 Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I like keeping the lights on so I can see her and my way around. Just feels weird having the lights off Link to comment
Baldey Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I always want the lights on. Though were working on getting over some self image problems with my girl. It took her a while to take her clothes off for me, and actually using some advice from his forum i had to blind every source of light in the room. And i made her watch as i put duct tape over every little crack, my computer, speaker lights, even the fire alarm. She still prefers them off, but weve been making slow progress from monitor light for music, to candle light, to sex in the daytime. Maybe in a few weeks ill try turning the light on on purpose Link to comment
sexxy_tan Posted February 5, 2010 Author Share Posted February 5, 2010 I always want the lights on. Though were working on getting over some self image problems with my girl. It took her a while to take her clothes off for me, and actually using some advice from his forum i had to blind every source of light in the room. And i made her watch as i put duct tape over every little crack, my computer, speaker lights, even the fire alarm. She still prefers them off, but weve been making slow progress from monitor light for music, to candle light, to sex in the daytime. Maybe in a few weeks ill try turning the light on on purpose awwww, thats so sweet & patient of you!! Link to comment
Jpo Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I hate when girls want the lights off. Sex is sex though, so I don't complain too much. Link to comment
KG Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Lights on, don't want to miss a thing!!! Link to comment
Vince99 Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 i think i would like low light, but not all the way off. Link to comment
anonymity56 Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I prefer the lights off - something about the mystery of it and having to feel your way around makes it more sensual for me. Plus I think it allows each person to be more open physically without having to worry about any self-conscious issues. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 tv light or candles on saturday nights Link to comment
Celestialagape54 Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Either way is fine with me! Link to comment
HouseKitten Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 The only time we have sex with the lights off is when he wakes up in the middle of the night and starts feeling me up Otherwise, I've never even thought about it. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Depends on the mood. If I'm in a hot mood the lights on, if I'm in a romantic mood lights off because you have to use your other senses (or dimmed lights or candle lights work too). Link to comment
Car Chick Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Don't be offended. I don't think it's because of you. My bf is very shy about letting me see him. He's getting a little bit more comfortable, but he doesn't want to take his shirt off (although he's getting closer), and when we went in my friend's hot tub together, he wouldn't let me turn the lights on because all he was wearing was his little bathing suit. He's very shy and that's why he doesn't want to let me see him. It's not about you, it's him, as cliche'd as that sounds. Link to comment
Car Chick Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I wear night vision... Haha, I may have to do that with my guy when we get to that point. Link to comment
Doc Blaze Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 on or dimmed..my gf is sexy..love to see her =) Link to comment
Car Chick Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I always want the lights on. Though were working on getting over some self image problems with my girl. It took her a while to take her clothes off for me, and actually using some advice from his forum i had to blind every source of light in the room. And i made her watch as i put duct tape over every little crack, my computer, speaker lights, even the fire alarm. She still prefers them off, but weve been making slow progress from monitor light for music, to candle light, to sex in the daytime. Maybe in a few weeks ill try turning the light on on purpose She might need some proffesional help if her self image is that bad. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 Whatever I'm in the mood for. They both have their merits. Link to comment
unknownme Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I prefer the lights off - something about the mystery of it and having to feel your way around makes it more sensual for me. Plus I think it allows each person to be more open physically without having to worry about any self-conscious issues. I totally agree Link to comment
Mr.Mister Posted February 5, 2010 Share Posted February 5, 2010 I would prefer to have them on so I can see everything, but it normally happened with dimmed lighting, because she was selfconscious. I can't imagine doing it in complete darkness. If she is so selfconscious that she has to have all the lights off, then she is probably not comfortable enough to be having sex in the first place. Dim lighting is more romantic, so that's what I'd go with. Link to comment
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