Keraron Posted February 5, 2010 Author Share Posted February 5, 2010 While it will change like personality will change over time, my sexual side has a core that will probably remain mostly unchanged for the rest of my life. And, like personality, I do not have control in what direction it decides to shift/stay in. I can compromise, I might be able to learn to love things or at least tolerate them. But, if I can't...I can't. And if he can't, he can't. It would really suck to be in that situation but I know I couldn't bear to deny myself sexual satisfaction for a lifetime, even if he was perfect in every other way. Could you give me a realistic example of what you mean? What kind of incompatibilities might exist in two people's "bedroom personality"? Why can't they be overcome? And why do you believe that you can't control in what direction it decides to shift/stay in? Isn't discipline a feature you acquire through personal growth, maturity? Don't you think commitment itself a type of discipline? (Free will vs instincts) Link to comment
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