** ATTENTION Straight Men That Like T-Girls (trannies) - My BF Does Too, I NEED To Understand WHY **

[orchidgirl627]

Hi, I am in a similar situation. i found out about recently. I would like to speak with you

[invidious]

I'm a girl that is engaged to a man that loves transsexuals, this has been my experience.

 

My fiancee and I started dating over 5 years ago... about 7 months into our relationship I was watching TV at his place while he was at work, he had a PVR box or something that he could buy movies on and it would save them to the box, he knew I had no idea how to work the it but I was bored and wanted to watch a movie so I figured it out, once I turned it on I noticed some porn movies on there so I put one on and to my BIG surprise...it was a girl...with a penis... My stomach sank, I felt sick, I got angry and scared, I didn't understand.. was he bi? Was he GAY!?

 

I didn't know how to bring it up so Over the next 2 weeks every time he would go to work, I would put on this porn and watch it out of curiosity... Well, it started to turn me on. I LOVE penis, can't get enough, so even though I'm straight, seeing a penis on a woman's body was pretty hot.

 

A couple days later I mentioned to him what I had found and that I was really confused. OMG he was SOOOOO

embarrassed! As it turns out, he had only just discovered it like 2 weeks before I found it. He told me he didn't know why he liked it, he was still trying to figure that one out, but he assured me that he was definatly NOT gay. For whatever reason the whole conversation was turning us both on and I told him that I had been maturbating to it while he was at work. I picked up the TV remote, put it on, and holy * * * * ! We * * * * ed for hours! It was so hot!

 

After that I kind of avoided it because he still couldn't tell me why he liked them. I though to myself "These transsexuals turn my man on so much, I can't ever compete with that." I became quite sad and started to feel very inadequate as a girl. I knew we needed to have a serious talk and figure things out.

 

This is what we figured out. First off, he is in no way gay or even bisexual, the masculine body disgusts him. If the transsexual doesn't look totally like a girl he is grossed out. He mostly likes to watch them take anal. As for why he gets so turned on.. He loves the feminine body, the beauty, the boobs, the curves. He says because she has a penis, he can see how excited she is and he can also relate more to the pleasure because he has a penis as well. He would only be interested in giving her anal, not receiving it, and he would let her suck him but he has no desire to play with her penis. It also just makes him feel so "naughty", so it's a turn on.

 

After I learned to accept it, and got over the feelings of inadequacy, I opened my mind and things only got better and better.

 

We have a seriously mind blowing sex life, he turns into an animal when we watch transsexual porn together, the fact that I enjoy it, play into it, and talk about it gets him super horny to the max. He does things to me that a gay man would never

even think about lol I let him give me anal all the time too (hated it at first but have come to LOVE it) I dress up in super sexy lingerie and put on a strap on that looks like a real penis and he lets me * * * * him with it. Knowing how much he is turned on and how much I'M making him turned on by participating in his fantasies makes me crazy horny. We also have very passionate, sensual love making nights because he is deeply in love with me for letting him be a wild animal and fulfill his every fantasy. so omg, everything is just so perfect.

 

Take part in your mans fantasies and you will be pleasantly surprised at how much it will do for you. I'm telling you girls.... It's fantastic!

[abstractxdark]

So I'm a masculine guy who works out and looks 100% masculine in appearance (short hair, built). BUT There are so many VARIATIONS of "males" that are into "t-girls" now, it cannot be generalized. I started up on the transsexual porn by accident (it seems most guy stagger upon it by accident coincidentally). At first I was honestly "disgusted" and freaked out because I didn't know that the "girl" in the video actually had a penis until the camera angle switched later on in the video.

 

That was 6 years ago. So fast forward to now; Pretty much exclusively talk to t-girls online - not even attempting to search for a biological "girl"....also moved on to the stage of actually finding feminine guy attractive...yes, I said feminine guys....

 

I come to the point, where in attempt to throw out all "coping mechanisms" - I really believe the majority of Humans are bisexual, as some psychologist have written books upon and state that the "heterosexual" influence has a lot more to do with gender roles in society and actual repression of our sexual instinct, since as many of you Biology majors know (I'm a science nut), a high percentage of animals in the wild (majority) exhibit bisexual orientation.

 

Furthermore, I actually was googling this concept 5 years ago... and some guy posted "Watch out guys! The next step is finding feminine guys attractive...so stop the t-girl porn now!"....It scared me alot at first, sleepless nights scared (hey, we men are so sexually repressed and raised by society to be "stone-cold" , lacking of emotion that these things really mess you up...).

 

I've really come to accept it as this point and throw out all existing labels now. I don't need to be defined as "straight" anymore to be happy. Honestly, I don't even like the label "bisexual" since I do NOT want to classfied into some genre; I feel it is restricting my freewill as a human being (If we have it that is...).

 

So, I just am - ME. And my sexual orientation, although ambiguous and deceptive at times, is just... MY SEXUAL ORIENTATION, what can I say? Definitely a learning process and a acceptance point that came later on, and believe me, it took a while, and this is coming from the kid who wanted to commit suicide initially because I believe I was an abomination....

 

So, again, to summarize; I really believe all men are completely different. If you use google though, you will see there are A LOT of guys into this "t-girl" thing, and maybe it's a way of "ESCAPE" for alot of sexually repressed men to get a "taste" of same sex attraction but unknowingly fool ourselves that we are with a "female". I for one am attracted to femininity, not masculinity AT ALL.

 

I've just come to learn at this age that whatever shape or form the "femininity" comes in doesn't matter to me, because I find it instinctively arousing.

 

So that's about all I can share. I guess some guys are there may be "curious" about the t-girl thing - honestly though, with the advent on internet and sites like craigslist, I really don't see guys just "thinking" about it or pondering about it...it's just too easy for guys to meet up t-girls now and explore the fantasy which if you have a girlfriend obviously that would be considered immoral.... Just a tidbit for the females out there.

 

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[thisblows]

muffinhead, I am in the same boat as you. But perhaps even worse as I caught him posting for a casual encounter with a t-girl when I was out of town. According to him, he realized it was lame and didn't act on it, but how could I ever know that? Another confounding factor: this kink of his first came to light when we were doing drugs. We used to get high and have sex all night and do all kinds of things I wouldn't normally be inclined to do, one of them anal sex. Not because I think it's dirty; the idea excites me plenty, I just find I'm physically unable to most of the time. Of course, doing drugs to accommodate his sexual urges wasn't sustainable and we found ourselves becoming increasingly unstable, even violent. Now we don't do drugs anymore and I thought this stuff was behind us. When I was high, I found myself having all kinds of fantasies that I can't really relate to when I'm sober, him with other women, me being gang raped, all kinds of weird crap. So I chose to believe him when he said that his fantasies were a function of all the drugs we'd been doing. Now we are both clean yet I still find him searching for pre-op transsexual porn. I don't know what to make it of. I ask him, he swears up and down he doesn't like penises or men or want anyone but me. Everything has been good with us for a long time now, so I'm really disheartened to even be thinking about this again. I've gotten some good insight as to the whys from reading these threads. He is rather narcissistic and undoubtedly in love with his penis, therefore he likes the idea of some hybrid of himself and a woman. I see that now. But I now feel like my inability to accommodate his appetite, including that for anal sex, may lead him to do something regrettable, and I can't shake that feeling. We used to have crazy, crazy sex but now that we are clean, I don't have the energy or inclination to do it that way. I don't even know what I am talking about really. I'm just really hurt and disappointed and feeling alone and needed some help from somewhere. People I know are far more straight-laced than me in general and haven't been able to offer much perspective, plus I'm loath to bring it up again, after advertising how well things with him and me were going now. Maybe we could talk in private? Any other girls going through this, please message me too. Thanks.

[thisblows]

Hey, Orchid, I would like to talk to you too, if you're up for it. I, too, have had this issue with my significant other. I love him so much, I don't know what to do. We've been talking about getting married and he just met my father, so as you can imagine, stuff like this is scaring the living sh*t out of me and making me question if we should even be making any plans of any kind together. Maybe I'm overreacting, I don't know. I'm no saint myself and have done my share of misdeeds, so I try to be patient and not judge him but...it's been really hard. I can't say it doesn't gross me out, and I can't say that it makes me doubt it when he tells me I'm beautiful. It makes me pretty much doubt everything he says. Maybe I'm not being fair, I don't know. Even when I ask him about it, I get what I feel are a bunch of lies, in spite of my trying my hardest not to be a bigot. As I said below, he was browsing casual encounters and then finally posted his own ad seeking a t-girl. He's also applied to be in porn and put pictures of his penis on a site for casual sex. After reading this, I attribute it to his love of his own penis, but of course it was very hurtful and shocking to me, that he would want to share his body with strangers. This all happened quite a while ago. Until just now, there hasn't been anything else (that I've found anyway) on this front. But now what? He's looking at "ladyboys" again. I just don't know what to do.

[thisblows]

Oh yeah, he told me that he was raped when he was a child. I don't know if that is true either. His parents seem to have zero clue about this, though he told me they knew all about it. Then he said he didn't want to tell them because he didn't want them to worry, so he told them it never happened. So * * * ? I don't even know what to believe on that topic, but I'm not a fool and I'm actually quite cynical and have been around the block more than a few times. I'm very much a skeptic, but my spider senses tell me he loves me, or at least loves me to the best of his ability. I just don't know how I can live with this quirk of his and I don't know how to make it go away, or if that is even possible. As long as I feel like he won't do something with someone else, I can live with it, but I am not confident about that. I guess I am an insecure person in general, and this sure isn't helping. I'm actually very feminine, very tiny and all that, as many were positing that it's ultra-femininity they are attracted to, re: makeup, clothing and so on, and how many t-girls look better than regular women. If anything, I have toned that stuff down since meeting him because I felt like he didn't like it. He's expressed more than once his dislike of makeup and I can feel his reluctance to kiss me if I have anything on my lips in the way of lipstick or lip gloss, plus I figure he doesn't like having to wait a millennium for me to get ready. I've joked about being a post-op transsexual more than once just to be weird and because it's just not possible (my hands are tiny!), so it's not that I think he doesn't like the look of me or having sex with me. I just feel, after reading these posts, that I'm not naturally able to provide the raw, animal intensity that he seeks, nor the penis, of course. I am pretty sexual, but lately I've had so much going on and been so exhausted from work and everything else, sex gets put on the back burner. We have sex, but it's nothing like how it used to be. If he had never known that from me, I wouldn't trip on it so much, but because he has, I always feel like I'm doing a poor job now. And now I know how well t-girls do it, I can just picture that he would prefer them to me, at least in the bedroom. It breaks my heart.

[toni64]

This tread is super old, but I want to chime in. I am coming to this tread from a different angle. I am a tgirl, or should I say a very convincing cross dresser. I don't live as a woman, and in real life I am not feminine acting so I can't really call myself a true transvestite. My feminine side is an alter ego. I do have gender indentity issues, although I have come to realize it's better for me to just play the role when I can.

 

The first time I dressed as a woman was in my mothers clothes at 14-15 years old. I dabbled in it on and off for years. Only in the last few months have I taken it to the next level. I finally decided to go all out with it. By that I mean try my best to look like a woman, along with having sex as a tgirl with men. Let me tell you I was shocked at how I looked. I am attracted to men, but have sex with men only while dressed. (I do not enjoy Gay porn and find it a turn off. Two men gross me out oddly enough.) I have had many, many, men say I am passable. I have a video posted somewhere and had one guy contacted me on a messenger service who just knew he had watched a woman in the video. I am not going to go into detail about my story here. I just wanted people reading this to know I'm not just a guy in a wig and lipstick. I look decent as a woman and look better than many real women so hey there is a real attractiveness to tgirls besides having a penis. I never let the men I have sex with see me not dressed. They don't want to see me that way either. All are adamate

 

To the woman who ask for advice I can't give you any really. I do feel for her. Many men I know from experience just want the fantasy or to cyber. I get mail everyday from otherwise straight men. Some married, and some with girlfriends. I have had sex with several men over the last few months, and talked to hundreds more. Most of these men don't consider themselves bisexual! They don't want to be with a man, only tgirls! Technically I am bi, and the men who want me must be bisexual also. The bisexual label does not fit well them because they don't want a man in the sense we think of a man.

[Shakeybones]

I haven't read this whole thing, nor am i going too there are some long responses lol.

 

But im a guy and im def attracted to T-women, now the reason for this is really something i can slightly comprehend, And to be honest with you, it started with Ru-paul when i was about 9 or 10 and i thought she was a pretty women, (only to be scorned by my mom and told that was really a guy) So fast forward to being about 17 i came accross some T-women on a porn site. and i found it interesting and exciting, that a girl as pretty as vanity (yea im dropping names lol) could have a functional Penis, and wasnt afraid of using it... I actually just accepted that it was part of my-self recently, i was confused for years as you can see.. i have dated women and have had sex and its awesome... But when it comes to porn viewing there is still that hottness that you can only get from a T-women and there elegance, ive seen some t-women who look better in real life than some Genetic girls....i still have other questions myself as like, would i do something with a tgirl and i can honestly say i would if we were in a very exclusive relationship.

 

Plus just fyi to all the women who are scared and hurt, it's nothing against you genetic girls, and odds are your man is completely straight.... remember the tranny genre viewing is dominated by heterosexuals males, its just that there is something alluring about a women with a penis and looking good....as for labels, i just consider it in the gray area because gay men are not attracted to t-women at all... I repeat a "gay man", really don't want anything to do with t-women

and i know this from talking to various t-women and gay men.

[Thatplace0204]

Hi, I am new to this site but I am in a very similar situation which I have just learned about recently. I am engaged to the love of my life and I just found out his attraction to tgirls, tgirl porn and the tgirl dating websites. I think at this point it hasn't gone very far but he will NOT admit to it, he denies everything and makes excuses, I'm just so scared of what my future holds with him, will I ever be enough for him? Will I ever feel enough for him? I just would like to hear what has happened with other women in this situation...

[jabbathehut]

Hi

 

I am a straight guy who has been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. I recently made the biggest mistake of my life and let a t-girl perform anal sex on me. I really don't know why I did it, I know 100% that I am straight, I do not like men, I am not attracted to t-girls in the slightest. I don't know what to think of this and am looking for some opinions from other people. To make things worse, my girlfriend has now found out about this. I really don't want to lose her, not because i'm confused about who I am or in denial, but because I love her with all my heart and know that I want to spend the rest of my life with her.

 

I know some of you will say I couldn't love her if I could go through with it but the truth is, I really didn't know what I was doing, I wasn't myself! It was like someone or something else took over. I feel so disgusted with what I have done and am now looking to go to counciling/therapy over this but I just need some other peoples opinions on the matter. I don't have any of those urges and, not to offend anyone, find the whole thing sick and disgusting. I don't look at this type of porn and definatly do not find men or t-girls a turn on.

 

If anyone has any opinion on the matter, please let me know.

[elen40]

When a woman is wondering about her man's sexual behavior, it means that her gut tells her something.

Anyway, if a man likes strapons and watces tgirls it means that he is somewhere in the bisexuality spectrum, even if it is 0.5 out of 6.

What really matters is: does it stay as it is or it escalates? Are the sexual urges for tgirs often and intense or here and there?

That depends on the person who has them and many other enviromental factors (relationship, family, exposure to porn).

From the women's aspect, I would advice them to search into themselves and find out what THEY really want in their sexual lives.

Because if you follow only the needs and desires of your bisexual boyfriend you may end up either doing things you don't really like or

avoid sex and being confused and even depressed. The choice is yours.

[Fudgie]

A tgirl is still a man. Sorry if I offended anyone, but that's how I see it.

 

If a man likes tgirls, either actually being with them physically or just seeing them in porn, he is definitely bisexual on some level. No doubt about it. You cannot be a straight man and like tgirls.

 

Now the question is, can you live with that? If you can, stay, if not, then end the relationship.

[FathomFear]

A tgirl is still a man. Sorry if I offended anyone, but that's how I see it.

 

Do you mean man or male? They're very different things. While a transgendered woman may be biologically male, she's definitely not a man.

 

If a man likes tgirls, either actually being with them physically or just seeing them in porn, he is definitely bisexual on some level. No doubt about it. You cannot be a straight man and like tgirls.

 

Now the question is, can you live with that? If you can, stay, if not, then end the relationship.

 

The vast majority of men who seeks out transwomen are straight-identified. They like all the classic feminine traits--modes of dress, mannerisms, etc, but for one reason or another are also attracted to the "extra" element of having different genitals.

 

If you look at the gay/straight spectrum as to what gender you find attractive, then being drawn to transgendered people do not make you bisexual. Only being attracted to different genders would.

[Fudgie]

Do you mean man or male? They're very different things. While a transgendered woman may be biologically male, she's definitely not a man.

 

 

 

The vast majority of men who seeks out transwomen are straight-identified. They like all the classic feminine traits--modes of dress, mannerisms, etc, but for one reason or another are also attracted to the "extra" element of having different genitals.

 

If you look at the gay/straight spectrum as to what gender you find attractive, then being drawn to transgendered people do not make you bisexual. Only being attracted to different genders would.

 

To me, they are the same. Like I said, sorry, this is my perspective on this. I am one those "horrible cis people who believe in the gender binary". I've yet to meet a trans people who will change my mind on this. I am respectful to them and leave them be but I'm not going to consider them anything other than their biological sex in my mind.

 

I had a friend come out recently as trans, someone I had relations with in the past. She is ftm. She will always be a female in my eyes. No matter how she cuts her hair, how she dresses, or what she injects into her body or what she decides to "cut off". She is still a woman and always will be.

 

So you can be a straight man and enjoy penis, as long as it's on a someone who has "feminine traits"? While that may not be considered bisexual, that is definitely not completely straight. If there's a spectrum, then a guy who likes tgirls is not in the same camp as men who don't like tgirls. They fall elsewhere. Whether that's called "bisexuality" or something else, I don't know. But it's not "straight".

[FathomFear]

So you can be a straight man and enjoy penis, as long as it's on a someone who has "feminine traits"? While that may not be considered bisexual, that is definitely not completely straight. If there's a spectrum, then a guy who likes tgirls is not in the same camp as men who don't like tgirls. They fall elsewhere. Whether that's called "bisexuality" or something else, I don't know. But it's not "straight".

 

It really comes down to what you define as fundamentally feminine. For example, no one is going to argue that a guy who really likes women with blonde hair is less straight if he also really likes women with red hair. It's a different trait but we don't think it puts him somewhere different on the spectrum. But people get more apprehensive when they start talking about the same gender with different body parts.

 

Personally I don't tell people how they should or should not identify. I don't think it's my place. I was just pointing out that most guys into transwomen do identify as straight. That's what studies seem to show, anyway.

[Fudgie]

It really comes down to what you define as fundamentally feminine. For example, no one is going to argue that a guy who really likes women with blonde hair is less straight if he also really likes women with red hair. It's a different trait but we don't think it puts him somewhere different on the spectrum. But people get more apprehensive when they start talking about the same gender with different body parts.

 

Personally I don't tell people how they should or should not identify. I don't think it's my place. I was just pointing out that most guys into transwomen do identify as straight. That's what studies seem to show, anyway.

 

Of course, no one is going to argue the hair colour issue. But it's a penis here. I do make a distinction for different genitals, yes. I think most people would. I don't even do it for other "traits", like a guy who likes girls who are less girly. For me, it's not different. Do you like penis or vagina? Do like male/female? Well, that's what matters to me. Guys who like penises are clearly not straight, guys who like biological males are clearly not straight.

 

If I were with a guy who told me he liked tgirls and he insisted he was "100% straight", I'd laugh. But that's sort of beside the point here, the question to OP is: Are you okay with it? I personally wouldn't be. I'd walk away so quickly. If any girl isn't okay with it, she should do the same. She shouldn't have to rationalize to stay with someone whose sexuality makes her uncomfortable.

[Fudgie]

The answer is: I date guys who have a thing for t-girls.

 

Most straight men will not be attracted to him.

 

Many straight guys care about the origins of the women that they are with. They may not like the idea of the person being biologically male and having a penis at some point. Many are repulsed by that. There is definitely a distinction here in terms of orientation, whether you want to call it pansexual or whatever (not familiar with the terminology). There are guys who don't like t-girls and guys who do like t-girls. I do not see it as the same as "one guy liking blondes, while another guy who doesn't like blondes".

[SunshineLex]

I'm in almost the same exact boat having had my bf of a year just tell me that he actually had sex with a tgirl in the past. 5 times to be exact. I'm not going to leave. My only concern now is that I will not be enough for him. We have some crazy out of this world sex and I am down for almost anything. He tossed around the idea of a threesome with myself, a tgirl and him. I don't think it's the thought of the tgirl being involved, but simply having to see him with someone else. I'm trying to be as open minded as I can with this. I want him happy in every aspect. And do not have the strength to have an open relationship. He says it's just part of his wild streak that he's set aside. Something fun he's done in the past but doesn't do anymore. But like I said, now I worry I'm not enough and that, that wild streak will start knocking at the door more and more. So lost right now, any advice would be absolutely appreciated.

[kiko]

I've not read all of the replies on here yet, but I'm glad I found this thread, and I've registered here as a result.

 

This is my "story" and I'd appreciate some honest feedback.

[Emilygee777]

Hey @this blows, your story is a lot like mine. I can actually relate to many of you...

 

I was with a man for 8 years. One day when he was taking a nap I looked through his Internet history and found for 3 days that he had been looking at transexual porn. I got sick to my stomach. He said it was an accident and that he didn't mean to click it, and I actually believed him. I thought to myself, '3 days? Something is not right' but I dismissed it thinking that there was no effing way! Later on I looked at his gmail Internet history... I found out that for years he had been looking at a lot of transexual porn, and towards the end even exploring the backpages and viewing the transexual escorts as much as 100 times a day. It was not only transexuals, but I noticed that one of the main things that he searched for was "amateur crossdressers" and "crossdresser porn". One of his favorites seemed to be crossdressing husbands. So that leads me to believe that he liked a man just dressed as a woman. Also, towards the end of our relationship, he started making a lot of requests for me to touch him near his rear end, somewhere that he used to freak out if I even jokingly touched when we were fooling around. It's weird because he was extremely homophobic, and would never hang out with any of my gay friends with me. There is so much to write about and too much to list...I could go on and on...

 

I did confront him and I told his mother. I was scared at the time that he was going to do something to himself, because he was acting very depressed, and one of the things he searched was "who has the worst life on the planet?". Yeah, weird I know..also he kept asking his mother for his guns back because she had hidden them from him bc he was violent. Luckily I told her so she wouldn't give them back. I thought very long and hard about whether or not I should tell her. At the time I was so confused and in shock...

 

Anyways, he said that it was just hardcore porn and that was pretty much all that he would say. That and "I'm not gay" over and over again. And that he never met up with any of the escorts whose personals he was viewing every day. I doubt that is true though because he was searching for "gay tranny bars" at 2 am some nights and took forever to come home, wouldn't answer the phone...this is making me so upset. I'm still not over the breakup, I found all this out a week after we got in a fight and broke up. Sorry if the story is not pieced together properly, I am upset. He has not really tried to get me back either bc I think that he is embarrassed about everything. So much changed when I discovered this, it's like we are strangers now.

[christine m]

Honey, You need to decide if what you are getting from this relationship is enough for you and feeding your needs. Is the amount of time etc that he spends with this fantasy or interest adversly impacting you relationship. Are you OK with your partner being interested in other things, other genders etc, as long as he is with you alone or would it be OK for him or you for that matter to have sex on the side as some do? I'm not saying that one or the other is OK, or not just things that you need to decide. In the end we can only control ourselves and not the actions of others. If you love this person and know that he loves you, would you be OK with him spending time on occasion with a T-girl? ATLstudent is correct when he mentoins that why he has an interest or gets excited is probably impossible to define. The fact is that he does and are you or can you be OK with that? You need to decide the answers to these questions and then act on what you can live with.

I wish you both all the best,

ChristineM

[jessicasped24]

If you bf like tgirls then is gay plain and simple

[lood brighton]

My girlfriend also doesn't like me being attracted to Tgirls (Transgender Male to Female). I'll explain how and why I'm attracted to them: How? The Internet. Before the Internet, I never even seen Tgirls. Why I am attracted? Because many of them are very pretty just like women and I am attracted to women. Us men have been playing with our penis ever since we were very young. So, to see a pretty "girl" with a penis, ..it's like stroking (my own), which I enjoyed since I was 13. It's fun to stroke my penis. The fact that one is attached to a pretty "girl" with breasts and long hair AND the fact that these Tgirls have the guts to change their appearance to look like a female is courageous and taboo at the same time. The other thing is that it is not viewed as socially "right" in our dysfunctional society, so it's the rebel in us that attracts us to them; just like many women are attracted to guys who are rebels. Now, us guys who like Tgirls, are NOT attracted to gay men WHO LOOK LIKE MEN. We do not want some hairy guy. These Tgirls, at least the ones on the internet, look like full figured, smooth skinned women. The good news is, most Tgirls to not like men in that way. They only have sex with them for the camera to GET PAID! So, I wouldn't worry about your guy hooking up with one of them. It's really just a fantasy anyway.

[kushmountain]

hello all

 

This is first off very embarassing but I nneded to kind of vent or even see if im alone or not.. My fiance and I jus split up because she looked thru internet history and phone history and did some serious fu**in investigating. ANyway she found out for the 3rd time that I called some t girls from backpage.. I should have used another phone but i didnt think she would have caught me again.. when we argue she calls me gay, "you like d**k", "you probably like it up the ass" really hurtful words, I really feel bad that I kinda get these mischievous spurts of searchin for a bodacious big ass, big *** t girl on backpage, call them to set appt, but then chicken out because I cant do it to my fiance'. Now we are broken up as if I really did cheat! not only that, She thinks i cheated with a t girl.. Shes totally disgusted and turned off, tells me I need help and she cant waste anymore time in her life with me..

As far as attraction to T girls.. I only look for porn star looking big breasts big ass trannies.. i get disgusted when i see a crossdresser or a TV.. and I definitely cant watch a guy blow a tgirl, so I know im not gay.. I do like anal tho, tried to hint more anal to my ex but she wasnt too into it.. never has anything gone up my *** and never will but I do admit attraction to FEminine tgirls and their ass but not the friend... thing I want to know is, is it just a phase that ive had for about 4 years or will this always be a secret of mine?

[Susan Jones]

I am in same situation to yours!

I have been in a relationship with my man for seven years when u found emails to what I first thought were women, on investigating more I found that my partner was dating them off websites one was long term as emails were dates from over six months he was actually having full sex with them as it read in one email you can stop over & I can also F....uck you in morning too! Since finding out his seedy secret I cannot stop thinking about all the lies & deceit he wants to be with me & says he would never have left me as there weren't any future with them!!! I now feel un attractive, emotionally & phisically I feel my last seven years have been a waste of time! I would like to hear from like minded people who have moved forward after this! Thankyou for reading.