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Talked to a girl via an online site, talked on the phone once. Lost touch, couple of months later became friends on myspace. Talked with her on the phone Tues night. Made a date for Sat night. Told her I will call her in a few days to sort out details. Called her Thurs evening and got no response, sent her a text telling her to call me bak about Saturday.

 

Do you girls play "not picking up the phone" or "not returning a call right away" or "wait until he calls again" game? I just always believe that if a girl doesnt call back in a few hours or texes back, she's not interested. Who is so busy that they cant even text you back within a couple of hours? She sounded really interested in the first phone call...maybe she saw my pictures again and decided I am not her type...maybe she is playing games...maybe shes not interested...

 

what do you guys think? it's been 8 hours.

 

Am I overthinking this? She does go to school and is at ballet recitals alot...

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Hmm... See I'm not a phone person hence I sometimes deliberately miss calls if I'm feeling nervous (silly I know!!)... but I'll usually text a reply ASAP OR work myself up the courage to call back.

 

8 hours is a LONG time, what time of the day did you call and text at?

 

I have taken a few hours before if I'm at work / uni / out with friends or if I truly did leave my phone at home (I'm a scatty person so this is not rare for me).

 

Give her a day and if nothing, move on to the next person. Why did you lose contact last time? Sounds a bit flakey!

 

Ammy

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Hmm... See I'm not a phone person hence I sometimes deliberately miss calls if I'm feeling nervous (silly I know!!)... but I'll usually text a reply ASAP OR work myself up the courage to call back.

 

8 hours is a LONG time, what time of the day did you call and text at?

 

I have taken a few hours before if I'm at work / uni / out with friends or if I truly did leave my phone at home (I'm a scatty person so this is not rare for me).

 

Give her a day and if nothing, move on to the next person. Why did you lose contact last time? Sounds a bit flakey!

 

Ammy

 

Last time, when I talked to her on the phone she was going on a 3 month study abroad summer program to England, she just got back and I noticed that on her myspace so I contacted her. She remembered me and we picked it up.

 

I called her in the evening around 7:30pm.

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Last time, when I talked to her on the phone she was going on a 3 month study abroad summer program to England, she just got back and I noticed that on her myspace so I contacted her. She remembered me and we picked it up.

 

I called her in the evening around 7:30pm.

 

7.30pm and no reply, not even a text = RUDE!

 

I'd say unless she has an AMAZING reason if and when she gets in touch, forget about her and move on to the next potential!

 

Ammy

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So this girl never returned the call. I texter her friday and nothing. Big deal...Ill move on, but I am not going to lie...it upsets me that she is so rude!!! would it be out of line to write her a message telling that its fine, but she should have been respectful enough to let me know instead of letting me wait?

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So this girl never returned the call. I texter her friday and nothing. Big deal...Ill move on, but I am not going to lie...it upsets me that she is so rude!!! would it be out of line to write her a message telling that its fine, but she should have been respectful enough to let me know instead of letting me wait?
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No, I would not contact her a 3rd time. I'm sorry you were treated so shabbily.

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