nghtmrepenguin Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 I work at a college. There is this girl in one of the classes I work in that has been sending some extra glances my way. I have been flirting with her a little as well. I am 25 and she is 18. I always have so much that goes through my head that I seem to doom myself. I think she is cute and have thought that if things keep headed in a positive direction with flirting that I might ask her out. But i started thinking..7 years is a huge difference. Not only age but factoring in maturity level I just dont know if it something I want to get involved with. I also have this nasty habit that I have been unable to kick no matter how hard it try...I care to much what other people will think of me I don't know what it is but what would happen if I wanted to start dating this girl. What would my friends and family think of it..etc,etc. I dont know I guess im just a little lost as what are some things i should keep in mind or do. I have been single for quite some time and have always done the relationship thing. I just want some fun dating options and I think this could be one of them. also a good way to get back in the game. Thoughts??? Link to comment
Johnathan Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 well....you could go by my philosophy...which would be to NOT get into anything serious with her, because you're right...there's a huge difference mentally between someone her age and yours. I'm also mid-late 20's and I'm very against relationships with girls in that age range. It creeps me out. BUT, the 2nd part of my philosophy is that if she's legal, and you just want some NSA fun, and she's down, then by all means knock yourself out. Link to comment
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