fatcat1999 Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 guys, I've two quick questions. 1. do you add your date to facebook? he asked me to so I did, but I don't feel very comfortable, in his facebook, it even says "single, back looking, blabla" 2. he's telling me he's no desire to date other ppl, and I told him I was missing him when he asked me whether I'd a date on a certain day, but he never bring up the exclusive topic.I said I can still date others, he said technically yes but I'm going to break his heart. we've gone out three times but still... I'm not sure whether I should continue date others. thanks Link to comment
flash83 Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 i keep anyone i date away from facebook until we get exclusive but everyone has their own preferences. asking for exclusivity after 3 dates is a bit soon in my opinion .. you can date others if you want there shouldn't be a problem, just don't bring it up to him. Link to comment
Meow18 Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 How long have you been dating him? Do you bring up the exclusive topic? Have you asked him to make it "official"? Link to comment
fatcat1999 Posted September 10, 2009 Author Share Posted September 10, 2009 3 dates no. I'll wait till him bringing it up How long have you been dating him? Do you bring up the exclusive topic? Have you asked him to make it "official"? Link to comment
flash83 Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 he'll bring it up eventually .. saying that he will be heartbroken if he sees you with someone else is a big hint that he'll move forward with it soon. i would say if he doesn't bring up the exclusivity talk after the 7th date i would bring it up myself. Link to comment
mca1975 Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 Too soon to put on facebook, you will be watching his page like a hawk and worrying about every girl that says hello. You are not exclusive after just three dates, he is not likely to change his status to in a relationship so quickly! Link to comment
bebeblondie Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 I wouldn't facebook anyone unless we were in an exclusive relationship. You'll end up overanalyzing everything on their page. Link to comment
fatcat1999 Posted September 10, 2009 Author Share Posted September 10, 2009 I wouldn't facebook anyone unless we were in an exclusive relationship. You'll end up overanalyzing everything on their page. I totally agree. I've already added him... awkward as it is, I guess I've to explain to him and unfriend him for now? Link to comment
orchidrose Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 I totally agree. I've already added him... awkward as it is, I guess I've to explain to him and unfriend him for now? Don't unfriend him. That'll look bizarre. Just keep your cool. There's no reason that you have to check his page every 30 seconds. Link to comment
bebeblondie Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 Don't unfriend him. That'll look bizarre. Just keep your cool. There's no reason that you have to check his page every 30 seconds. Yea don't unfriend him, what's done is done. Just try not to look at his page, or just try avoiding facebook altogether for a bit. Link to comment
fatcat1999 Posted September 10, 2009 Author Share Posted September 10, 2009 thanks a lot guys Link to comment
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