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i am still not completely over this as the swing backs still happen with me. moved into my new place in miami today and heard the new adele song on the radio that reminds me so much of you... it says something about how her x bf has moved on and is with a new gf that she wants happiness for them, but she keeps bringing up "you said to never forget me" or something along those lines.. anyways, it made me bawl, part of me is still waiting for you. searching for you and hoping you will be there even though you arent.

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i am still not completely over this as the swing backs still happen with me. moved into my new place in miami today and heard the new adele song on the radio that reminds me so much of you... it says something about how her x bf has moved on and is with a new gf that she wants happiness for them, but she keeps bringing up "you said to never forget me" or something along those lines.. anyways, it made me bawl, part of me is still waiting for you. searching for you and hoping you will be there even though you arent.

 

I friggin HATE that song!!! Someone like you is the name. UGH just awful! The first time I heard it was a long time ago when her first song came out and I was looking on Youtube for lyrics to Rolling in the Deep (Another song that hits close to my heart, but not as painful as this one...) and anyway I came accross that song with the lyrics instead and just sat there BAWLING my eyes out! I can't listen to it! It's kind of a joke though- I DON'T want to find someone like him....in fact I want the complete OPPOSITE of him!! But yet I still want him That song just punches me in the gut! UGH Hate it so much!

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Count me in with the Adele music! Even though I was already more than familiar with "Rolling in the Deep," my ex mentioned it so then I began to get annoyed with it whenever I heard it on the radio. Then someone mentioned "Someone Like You" on this forum and I gave it a listen and became hooked. It makes me a little more angry than sad. I need to make an effort to stay away from Adele and Christina Perri because they sure wear on you after a lot of listening.

 

Hugs to you guys. Try and avoid the sad break-up songs. Easier said than done though.

 

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Today was a good day. I didn't need you and you weren't on my mind much. Continue to ignore me and pretend that your life keeps you preoccupied and "busy."

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You said you were living my life? I was living your life! Because my life was all about you. And you never once said THANK YOU!

 

Someday I will get better and I'll never think about you again, same as you have forgotten me!

 

I hate you today, I * * * * ing hate you for doing this to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I decided to rearrange some furniture in my room today cuts been a LONG time coming!! I was moving my dresser which has pretty much been In the same spot for years. I look behind it an some old shirts had fallen behind it- one of them was one of the many old sleep shirts of yours you gave me. gave, borrow....the line was always blurry. I would go to your house, underpack an you would always wind up giving me a tee shirt to sleep in. Or I would wear one of our shirts when I went to the gym win you and wind up taking it back with me. I ha like 20 of them after we broke up. Donated them all to goodwill except now this one.....idk what to do with it now And I still have your mudvayne shirt in the closet which I couldn't bare to give to goodwill. The first shirt you gave me

 

Ugh this sucks I started cleaning to get my mind off of you an give myself a fresh place....and it backfired. Gonna just toss the damn shirt out the window and let the stray cat outside use it for a toilet!!!! Maybe thy will make me feel better!

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you know, i can look at me, my actions and know that i am love, i have heart, soul and beauty in my being. i had no pride because i loved you, i spoke with truth...guess im not your bag, not the one, and not loved by you, but i also have dignity, and youre about to see me use it.

 

dont contact me unless you can truly love me, and yourself, because you hiding behind yourself is not a quality i seek in a man

 

i loved you so much....what a fool i am...

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I'm sorry u g things up dosent compreshte how much u have hurt me! This is ur own doing not mind how dare u come back to me cause it didn't work for u I deserve the beat n n u treat me second best...why do u even bother talking to me .. u have lost so many people in your life that u might not even get back .. need to change I'm NT gonna get dragged down with that again...u n ur cousin ...I can't believe both of u ..at least ur cousin has the decency to pick up his crap n Move on... arrgghh u both drive me nuts >

 

I don't know why u want to suddenly come back to my life but ur not gonna be in it for a while.

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Ooooh, today I realized how boring you and the whole drama of our so-called un-relationship has been. What the heck have I been doing for the last six years of my life? It's so much nicer to have friends who like me and can pay me compliments with no strings attached and no veiled insults or bad behavior to put up with. Also I love not having to put with your gaslighting me. LOL

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Dear Ex,

 

I realized something about you that I hadnt before. One, that I'm at fault for being in a relationship with you, even though I clearly saw your bad characteristics and decided to stay with you anyway. Albeit, HOPING that somehow it'd either get better or change. As if.

 

Also, I realized that even though I b*tch about your passivity, I realized that I ALSO have passive qualities. I hope STRONGLY that I'm more aggressive than you. Because passivity in life is very hurtful. It's a good way to get screwed in life.

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I miss you so much today. You have pretty much gone silent on fb and I don't know anything about you anymore. I want to call you so bad, but I know you won't answer. Wish we could just talk and you would come home. You were my best friend and you won't say a word to me know. Its so weird without you. Whatever I did to make you go away I'm sorry.

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dont forget me I beg and you said sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead..

 

regrets and mistakes they are memories. who knew how bittersweet this would taste. adele knows exactly how I feel. doesn't change the fact that i miss you often. the worst part is you have forgotten me, and it doesn't hurt you at all.

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A My Morning Jacket song:

 

Really didn't think I was gonna make it.

Really didn't think I was gonna make it this way.

Put on my robot face. Hide my emotions way far away from me.

 

Oh! You really saw my naked heart.

You really brought out the naked part.

I don't know what you were doing-

I know I just want to thank you for thinking of me.

 

I want to take you. For all that you are.

Although our worlds seem far apart

I want to see you- thru all that you do.

I want to thank you.

 

It was strange and it was soothing, and you could even say amusing-

The way it came to me.

You'd devised a simple plan, that would change the fate of man,

you'd thought of everything

 

Oh! you really saw my naked heart.

You really brought out the naked part.

I don't know what you were doing-

I know I just want to thank you for thinking of me

 

I want to take you. For all that you are.

Although our worlds seem far apart.

I want to see you- thru all that you do

I want to thank you

 

 

Me: I miss you.

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Just when I had you off my head

Your voice comes thrashing wildly through my quiet bed

 

It's ok, you don't have to reply to my question.

I know.. the famous combination of a saturday night and a mobile with the number of your ex in it .

You must have been drunk

I think we're better off without contacting each other.

I'm doing ok now.. I'm not going to let you in my life again.

I don't think you are a jerk.. Far from that. You are one of the most polite and sympathetic people I know.

Just not right now.. just not... right now.

 

So I'd say:

 

Oh, all we need is silence

A good working self defence

No need for conversation

None of their revelation

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you eff it up, well about time you realise what you did. all those time i tried to help cause i was worried about you. all i ever did was love you and you threw me away. I gave everything to you but u never tried ever. i was always second best to u. i will always has been and always will be. You think moving on and going back to her your will set you free wrong again. You just created yourself a hole. you made yourself problems over problems. your not over her nor you are over me. So yeah im glad u realised what u did. it took you long enough to admit that you were wrong. i cant believe you were telling me of how i should feel whether my choices were right or wrong. you were trying to control me and now after 6 months of ignoring you, you come crawling back to me. you are unbelievable you know that. i m almost sure you are in this website and that i have found you, i hinted to you and i hope your smart enough to realise to back off. You and your cousin, whats is your deal? seriously!

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I feel offended that you tried to tell me i missed my window w u for the 4 mos you were "trying" to get menbacj. U never even went 100% !!! and if u did that's pathetic bc u are terrible at getting girls or appreciating them if that was an honest 100%. also, If you "loved" me soooo much 4 mos wouldn't have been that long of a wait for me to recover considering all the effed up stupid moronic things you put me through, but I guess to you those behaviors are ben stamped and approved to be sent off to the next girl you will ruin. Even this summer when I gave u a chance you didn't deserve you never put in the effort and you were already w some skanky college girl. Jdjdndjjd sometimes you make me sick. I hate you because I miss you and there's not an ounce of you that deserves it jack rabbit !

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I love you, I always will. I miss to hug you, to call you my Panda, I dont understand why you left, or how can you not miss me, it has driven me mad. But I ended up accepting my reallity. I would never see you again, you let me know that by the way you treated me, but i want you to know that despite everything if God send you back with me I would love you the same. Because you were and will always be my Panda, my little placcard, my lady micheline my pinocchia, my everything. I love you so much...

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After the affairs, the lies, the manipulation, and the cruel words you spoke to me; I love you. I didn't respond to your calls or texts b/c I believe you are incapable of love. I believe that whatever it is/was you were feeling at that time were nothing more than passing emotions. Its so hard to not consume the breadcrumbs you are feeding me, especially when they taste so damn good; but I know better now. I also know who I am and what I'm worth. That person you treated as disposable and replaceable was your golden ticket. Your opportunity. Your soulmate. You trashed me b/c you are trash. If you ever learn that what you lost was irreplaceable, its b/c I now refuse to give-in to your lies. You will know loss when it sinks in that you lost me. I hope your life is beautiful though. I hope you find love again and I hope that it is grand. I hope that you treat it with caution and respect. True love is rare. Cherish it.

 

I miss you every f**king day. EVERY day.

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I'm here again. I love you. We could have been beautiful together forever. All you had to do was try to communicate what you felt, what you thought, what you needed. I know I shut down and denied communication when we'd had quite a bit to drink, but that didn't mean I didn't want to communicate. It meant I wanted to communicate when we had clear minds. I wish you happiness in whatever it is you do, but I wish it was with me that you're doing it. I love, I miss you, I want you. I can't think of being intimate with anyone but you. If there is a next life, maybe then... maybe then...

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