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How to leave an abusive relationship and why it's so hard

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I am tired!!! I would say sick and tired, but I hate that expression!

My husband just left for med school in the caribbean. I stayed here, I am supposed to be going in October with our 1 yr old! I just found that my husband looked up escorts where he will be! I am furious! (not to mention hurt pretty much crushed!) I have no one I can talk to! I feel so down. I don't know how to address this situation with him considering he is in a different country! WHAT DO I DO? Should I worry? Should I just say, he is a guy and guys look but don't touch. What makes it sting so badly is I was worried about something like this, he told me I had no need to worry and assured me things wouldn't change between us! I am exhausted with all of this! I am tired of being tested all of the time. I used to have faith, but I am thinking it is gone too! Please any insight would be nice! Thanks in advance!!

 

 

"Why is love cruel?"

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How did you find out? Before you panic is there even a remote possibility that it's some kind of misunderstanding? Perhaps he was seeking a service for a friends stag? Did you confront him? It's best to talk to him and see what he has to say before you come here so that you can get more complete advice.

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I would indeed be worried about this. If he was looking up escorts for where he is moving to, he is not just looking for new friends..he is looking to get his itches scratched. By saying nothing will change he is side-stepping the issue...cheating changes everything even if it is with hookers.

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Well, it was a recent search on my comp for escorts and companions where he is. I love this man with all of my heart. He has never lied about anything big, just some small stuff. I just wonder why he would be looking...I am not the best thing in the world, but I love him like no other. (He tells me that) He swore that nothing would change. I am just hoping that I can really believe that. He does have all the freedom in the world he is in a different country. I do not even know how to ask him...I am afraid of coming accross as crazy! I am just wondering how to confront him.

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  • 3 weeks later...

A private investigator.... Are you serious? A private investigator would milk that for all the money he could. Given the circumstances it wouldnt take much. OP you have to nip this one in the bud. Dont let it sit too long. The feeling wont go away unless you have 100% complete trust in him. Ask him about it and if you can trust him and he says nothing is going on/explains the misunderstanding then that is exactly it. If you can have complete trust in him then it is as easy as black and white.

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