Loopii Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Me and some guy lets call him C, we like to let just say,wank on cam for each other, he can Cum,but i cant, is it a problem that he can cum and i cant....I need some advise please tell me if its a problem and how can i fix it Link to comment
jul-els Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Sounds like either you're too nervous or webcams aren't your thing. It's not a problem unless it really bothers you. Be sure to relax and be in the mood when you're on the cam. Maybe drink a beer first or something. Link to comment
Loopii Posted August 24, 2009 Author Share Posted August 24, 2009 but i am in the mood and i cant drink a beer, first i am too young and 2d i hate beer 3nd i rather rum and cola, and i love beingin front of camreas lol, im lets just say a camrea * * * * * , and me and C know each other for a while know so i shouldnt be nerves in front of him Link to comment
Mimori Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 There isn’t a problem with you. Different people are stimulated by different things. You might be more of a physical-in person type. He’s merely able to get off with a camera (The thrill of being watched/Visually stimulated/etc). You could also open a Porn video and watch porn while watching him. –He doesn’t have to know, but it’s another suggestion if you think it may help. Just because you’re comfortable in front of a camera doesn’t mean that’s what will get your rocks off you know? –For example, you may need that extra stimulate do let the explosion occur. Have you tried using lotion/oil/etc? Link to comment
lukeb Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 Why do you feel that it is so important to be able to do this on cam? I find the fact that you think this is so important somewhat disturbing, if I were you I would get rid of your webcam, and avoid some relationship problems later on. Link to comment
Loopii Posted August 25, 2009 Author Share Posted August 25, 2009 Why do you feel that it is so important to be able to do this on cam? I find the fact that you think this is so important somewhat disturbing, if I were you I would get rid of your webcam, and avoid some relationship problems later on. I thought some one would find it disturbing but i feel like its a problem Link to comment
Loopii Posted August 25, 2009 Author Share Posted August 25, 2009 There isn’t a problem with you. Different people are stimulated by different things. You might be more of a physical-in person type. He’s merely able to get off with a camera (The thrill of being watched/Visually stimulated/etc). You could also open a Porn video and watch porn while watching him. –He doesn’t have to know, but it’s another suggestion if you think it may help. Just because you’re comfortable in front of a camera doesn’t mean that’s what will get your rocks off you know? –For example, you may need that extra stimulate do let the explosion occur. Have you tried using lotion/oil/etc? Yes, i used Vas, but it didnt work lol, you may be right, i may be better at the more physical then distance Link to comment
lukeb Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 Yes, i used Vas, but it didnt work lol, you may be right, i may be better at the more physical then distance I would say that that is a good thing. Link to comment
JadeSmith Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 Well..do you have problems getting off any other time? Or is it just on camera? If you don't have a problem reaching orgasm any other time than on camera...I wouldn't say you had a problem. Subconciously you just can't get off when you're on camera. It may not be something you're aware of..but some things turn your mind on, and some don't. Sexual stimulation is a LOT of brain power just as much as it is physical power. Link to comment
Loopii Posted August 26, 2009 Author Share Posted August 26, 2009 well now that i think about most of the times ido, i give up becaues i si there for about 10 to 15, just wanking and nothings going on....im looking at porn btw, so i may have a small problem, the first time me and C did it, we both Cummed, so i domt see why i cant now Link to comment
folie_a_deux Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 the first time i did it was in winter so it was so friggin cold, and the other guy jacked off first but the same thing happened to me.. lol, i bet the other guy felt inadequate Link to comment
Loopii Posted August 26, 2009 Author Share Posted August 26, 2009 lol, your points is, haha lol dw, Jks Link to comment
chcmb43 Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 Maybe you were tired, maybe you had other things on your mind, maybe you arent attracted to "C" as much as you wish you were Link to comment
Loopii Posted August 26, 2009 Author Share Posted August 26, 2009 ok, i think ur right, i was tired but me and C are well very much atractted to each other, me and him are going out, we talk about the boys from our school that we like and all that we dont mind,i cummed before but i was looking at some guy from my school with hus t-shirt off, and i wad thinking how strage that was??, do i have a problem or is it C Link to comment
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