Men only, are prostitutes a lot more technically skilled than the average woman?

[jackie100]

look at where you are getting all your information from. you are obsessed with proving this to yourself arent you?

 

what do you expect to find on prostitute review boards? someone saying 'i've never slept with a prostitute and i dont ever want to' ???

 

Yea you are right about that... lol Of course the guys on there are going to be all for it... I can't argue with that.

[Lucius]

I noticed this from just reading the ads on CL. So many of them are married man and they say so in their ads.

 

If you look in a bin, you'll find trash. You're looking for confirmation of pre-existing opinions - and you look in places you know you'll find that confirmation. When you read alternate perspectives (such as those on this thread alone) you seem to largely dismiss them. If it's not congruent with your pre-existing position, you don't count it as evidence. That's rather selective research, don't you think?

[EQD]

i'm sure alot of men would resent you telling them what they desire sexually. as you've already had one strongly disagree with you on this thread.

 

what is sexy about a drugged up woman selling orgasms for a living while being a human trashcan for weakminded, desperate, deceitful, womanizers?

[jackie100]

i'm sure alot of men would resent you telling them what they desire sexually. as you've already had one strongly disagree with you on this thread.

 

what is sexy about a drugged up woman selling orgasms for a living while being a human trashcan for weakminded, desperate, deceitful, womanizers?

 

There's a lot of guys paying for it though so to them it must be sexy. Some guys might like the desperation of the drugged out woman. Not ALL hookers are drugged out, there are rich high class ones who charge thousands of dollars for movie stars in Hollywood etc.

[jackie100]

If you look in a bin, you'll find trash. You're looking for confirmation of pre-existing opinions - and you look in places you know you'll find that confirmation. When you read alternate perspectives (such as those on this thread alone) you seem to largely dismiss them. If it's not congruent with your pre-existing position, you don't count it as evidence. That's rather selective research, don't you think?

 

You're right. I'm not going to argue there. You told me that you are not really turned on by hookers and I do believe you. I do think there are other guys out there who are like you but I think they are more rare. That's just my opinion.

[EQD]

*ahem*

 

i am going to back out of this thread now because as i pretty much knew from the start you seem to be insecure, jaded, and dead set on believing these things about men.

 

and that to me is really really sad. when you find out the truth later on down the line (hopefully) then none of us can say we didnt tell you so.

[diabolik]

and if all men looovveeddd prostitution then it wouldnt be illegal in the USA. all the guys who make the laws and all the guys who vote to approve or disapprove them would have seen to that.

so there is your proof.

That is hardly proof. Prostitution is legal in many countries, but in the sexually schizophrenic USA, it is not surprising that it is illegal. This is the country where you have an avowedly anti-homosexual Senator playing footsie in a men's bathroom with the stranger in the next stall.

I think a lot of women are ignorant and unaware and think "Oh my husband would NEVER do such a thing" but the thing is that they just have no clue. Most likely their husbands have done it but will lie until their dying day.

Many married guys I know use prostitutes, and I'm sure every one of their wives would say that their husbands would never do such a thing.

 

There's a prostitution thread on ENA where many women suddenly discover that their husband was using prostitutes, and it came as a complete shock to almost all of them.

Of course I would feel inadequate compared to a prostitute because she's the epitome of what men desire sexually.

I think you are mistaken here. The epitome of what I would desire sexually is an attractive woman who was as into sex as I am. Prostitutes aren't into the sex, they're into the money.

 

And I think you're mistaken about the experience factor; as I said before, I don't think men go to prostitutes for their sexual prowess. The guys I know go for variety (not variety in terms of sexual technique but physically - different women, different look, different body, etc.) and no strings attached sex.

[bulletproof]

It didn't bother me because he did it before he met me and therefore he had the right to do whatever he wanted.

 

Of course I would feel inadequate compared to a prostitute because she's the epitome of what men desire sexually.

 

You just completely contradicted yourself again. It didn't bother you but of course you would feel inadequate?

 

Regarding whether a prostitute is the epitome of what men desire sexually, that is specific to the person. It is not a general rule by any stretch.

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

Side question- diabolik, what do you think of the statistic that only 10% of men have been to a sex worker? Do you feel it's untrue? I am not so sure, but I get the sense you would suspect it's higher.

 

 

To answer the question, I think sex workers are likely to be more skilled than you average woman with little experience. Better? I don't know. She is likely to have done a wider range of things multiple times. Doesn't necessarily make her good, but all things in life take practice. lol

 

If she was not good in bed, I doubt she would be a sex worker.

 

Plenty of regular women can satisfy men just fine, so it's not something I would want to get into the sex industry for... I need to hone my skills, time to be a prostitute!

[Qut81]

I would be more concerned about catching an STD than that.

 

But to answer your question, (even tho Im female), practice makes perfect. They get paid for a reason. lol A friend of mine went to a massage parlor and said it was the best sex hes ever had.

[jackie100]

Side question- diabolik, what do you think of the statistic that only 10% of men have been to a sex worker? Do you feel it's untrue? I am not so sure, but I get the sense you would suspect it's higher.

 

Personally I think it's much higher.

 

You just completely contradicted yourself again. It didn't bother you but of course you would feel inadequate?

 

Regarding whether a prostitute is the epitome of what men desire sexually, that is specific to the person. It is not a general rule by any stretch.

 

No, it doesn't bother me that he did what he did because it was before he met me and therefore he had every right to. I guess I feel insecure "in general" (not just with prostitutes) so perhaps that would be why I feel inadequate. I might feel inadequate against an ex-gf as well (if she was prettier than me).

[happyfrank]

The sex is great with escorts because the skill level is really high and they are very safe compared to stranger you pick up at a bar. I have been with high price escort/pornstar in my past. Having sex with somebody you love and have deeper connection is way better. I'm not proud of what I have done but I did it. I have learned really no difference of watching porn and being with escort. If stranger can get you off mentally or physically it's the same thing.

[jackie100]

The sex is great with escorts because the skill level is really high and they are very safe compared to stranger you pick up at a bar. I have been with high price escort/pornstar in my past. Having sex with somebody you love and have deeper connection is way better. I'm not proud of what I have done but I did it. I have learned really no difference of watching porn and being with escort. If stranger can get you off mentally or physically it's the same thing.

 

How is the skill level different exactly? Can you name the specific thing that the escorts did that regular women did not? I am really curious to know the exact things that they did which normal women didn't or didn't know of to do.

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

The sex is great with escorts because the skill level is really high and they are very safe compared to stranger you pick up at a bar. I have been with high price escort/pornstar in my past. Having sex with somebody you love and have deeper connection is way better. I'm not proud of what I have done but I did it. I have learned really no difference of watching porn and being with escort. If stranger can get you off mentally or physically it's the same thing.

 

I see where you're going and I'm not judging, but you can't get an STD from porn. haha

 

 

Unless it's reeealllly realistic porn? lol jk

[happyfrank]

How is the skill level different exactly? Can you name the specific thing that the escorts did that regular women did not? I am really curious to know the exact things that they did which normal women didn't or didn't know of to do.

 

Blowjob with condom on felt good. What I enjoyed the most was the level of detail when it came to safety.

[jackie100]

Blowjob with condom on felt good. What I enjoyed the most was the level of detail when it came to safety.

 

Oh... when you said "The sex is great with escorts because the skill level is really high" I thought you mean they did some amazing feats such as deepthroat, had some amazing secret skill or other technique that us "regular women" didn't know about (I already read about the perineum and the prostate so I'm thinking about another secret spot other than those, yes I have to research in order to keep up with the prostitutes)... Or perhaps they did something like do the splits during sex or stood on her head... or something else truly amazing (not just normal boring sex).

[Qut81]

If your that worried, why dont you just talk to him about what he likes and dislikes in the bed?

 

Has he been tested recently? You can get herpes and warts with a condom on.

[jackie100]

If your that worried, why dont you just talk to him about what he likes and dislikes in the bed?

 

Has he been tested recently? You can get herpes and warts with a condom on.

 

I'm not with him anymore. Haven't been with him for 2 years now... When he showed me where he picked up the hookers it was 4 years ago...

And he did tell me what he liked and disliked in bed but that doesn't mean that I can ever compare to the prostitutes.

 

I am asking in case I ever get in a relationship with someone new again. In case they have this kind of history. (Which in my "skewed" mind, as people like to call it) is highly possible.

[shygal2008]

Ok, i have a weird question. And maybe its bcuz i saw ''Pretty Woman'' the other night on tv but do men kiss prostitutes..anywhere???? Her mouth, etc.

[jackie100]

Ok, i have a weird question. And maybe its bcuz i saw ''Pretty Woman'' the other night on tv but do men kiss prostitutes..anywhere???? Her mouth, etc.

 

No, most hookers don't allow kissing but SOME do, it's called GFE and stands for "girlfriend experience". Some clients like it when the prostitute pretends to be his gf and french kisses him. And some clients like giving oral to the prostitutes.

 

I swear I know just about everything and anything about prostitutes, I used to read the hooker boards religiously for weeks and months. Ask me anything! lol

[cat_lady]

OP - if you are worried about not being in the same league as someone with great technique, why don't you go your local Barnes & Nobles and read up on bj techniques? Some of the books are even written by former hookers/escorts

[jackie100]

OP - if you are worried about not being in the same league as someone with great technique, why don't you go your local Barnes & Nobles and read up on bj techniques? Some of the books are even written by former hookers/escorts

 

I do already... I know just about every bj technique... I am always on-line so I spent hours reading stuff just for fun. I think I have read a lot of articles written by ex hookers too. I know all about milking the prostate, giving a great rimjob, the perineum, etc I have read EVERYTHING. I just still feel that I can never be as good as a prostitute and that they will always be better than me and that any guy I am with with will always pick a prostitute over me or desire one more than me. Even with the best technique I feel like I can never win over the allure of a hooker.

 

Sometimes guys just prefer the "game" of picking up a prostitute. My ex used to play counterstrike a lot, he loved video games and he said picking up hookers in CA (California) is like a big video game and that he was the game master because he had to dodge police, compete with other johns waiting to pick up the girls etc. It was very exciting. I don't even think "incredible technique or deepthroat" form a normal woman can compare with a real-life video game like that.

[shygal2008]

Ummm there are hooker boards - really????

 

Ok, i have a question. I read that MOST of the clients that the escort/call girls meet for dates with are very shy, inhibited men that won't or can't tell a woman what he wants or needs..so thats why they go to a professionals.

 

Men who are too shy, possibly love-shy, don't have girlfriends or the ability to approach a woman (low self esteem) but yet have needs like all other men..is this true?

 

 

 

Just curious since we are on the subject.

[Qut81]

I guess I dont understand this thread bc I would never be with a man that saw prostitutes. I have enough to worry about.

[jackie100]

Ummm there are hooker boards - really????

 

Ok, i have a question. I read that MOST of the clients that the escort/call girls meet for dates with are very shy, inhibited men that won't or can't tell a woman what he wants or needs..so thats why they go to a professionals.

 

Men who are too shy, possibly love-shy, don't have girlfriends or the ability to approach a woman (low self esteem) but yet have needs like all other men..is this true?

 

 

 

Just curious since we are on the subject.

 

There are NUMEROUS hooker boards, there are many. The biggest two are forum sites, like this one, with a forum for every continent and sub-sections for each country, state and city. For example, if you live in Los Angeles you can go to the Los Angeles section and there will be a forum on streetwalkers... there the guys review which exact street the hookers are at, and they will give reviews. Like they drove to Sunset and saw a BSW (stands for black street walker) and say how much they paid, like $50 for a bj.. then they will give her name and describe her body, boobs, rate her performance... Sometimes they go in detail about the performance, like super detailed, which position, if she rimmed him etc...

 

There are different forums in each city such as for AMPS, which are massage parlors and then there will be a different forum for Los Angeles for the escort girls and then another for the Craigslist girls and then another for the strip clubs (where guys review who gives "high mileage" dances and who puts out in vip)...

 

They are review sites, like link removed except you read reviews about the hookers. Sometimes the hookers get popular cause they get good reviews so they get different guys in the forums asking for her etc...

 

There are SO many forums about this... There is one who specializes in hookers just in Canada.. and another one just for Maylaysia... There's like hundreds of them but there are two that are really big and well known forums.