MeLoveMe Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 How old were the two of you? Did it last? How long did you two know each other before you got married? Is it a happy marriage? Are you satisfied with your partner? Is he/she with you? Link to comment
thejigsup Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I got married at 31. We knew each other a few months. It was a very unhappy marriage. I was never satisfied with him. I don't know if he was or not, I'd say no. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I was 17 when I got married. I knew him since I was 13. It was not a happy marriage. Was not satisfied with him. Nope, left him when I was 22 and never looked back. Pity though, he gave me beautiful children he just didn't want anything to do with them. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 sounds like my dad. ....... ten Link to comment
shes2smart Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 How old were the two of you? Did it last? I was 38, he was 27 when we got married. As of last month, it's been 7 years. How long did you two know each other before you got married? Less than a year. We chatted online & on the phone for 5-6 weeks, met for a date, he proposed a week after our first date, and we got married less than a year after that. Is it a happy marriage? Yup. Are you satisfied with your partner? Yup. Is he/she with you? Yup. We'd still rather hang out with each other than anyone else. Link to comment
waveseer Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 At 28 I married husband #1, it didn't last but I have a 16 year old son to show for it. At 34 I married husband #2, it lasted 7 more years, 8 total and I have a 10 year old daughter to show for it At 44 I remarried husband #2, it didn't last and all I have are the bills to show for it Link to comment
thistime Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 How old were the two of you? i was 19. he was 23Did it last? no How long did you two know each other before you got married? year and a half Is it a happy marriage? Are you satisfied with your partner? Is he/she with you? that was the first time... second time I was 26, he was 32 we knew each other for about 5 years before marriage it was happy in the beginning...started going downhill in 3rd year no regrets on this one tho. he's not a bad guy, just not a great husband... Link to comment
D_Lish Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 How old were the two of you? Did it last? Me 21, Him 23. No it didnt last...... How long did you two know each other before you got married? Not long.....nearly a year. Is it a happy marriage? Are you satisfied with your partner? Is he/she with you? Not applicable. Link to comment
D_Lish Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I was 38, he was 27 when we got married. As of last month, it's been 7 years. Less than a year. We chatted online & on the phone for 5-6 weeks, met for a date, he proposed a week after our first date, and we got married less than a year after that. Yup. Yup. Yup. We'd still rather hang out with each other than anyone else. COOL Nice to see a 'positive' story. Why cant we be as lucky.... waveseer: At 28 I married husband #1, it didn't last but I have a 16 year old son to show for it. At 34 I married husband #2, it lasted 7 more years, 8 total and I have a 10 year old daughter to show for it At 44 I remarried husband #2, it didn't last and all I have are the bills to show for it ... Crikey, 3 husbands! Zsa Zsa eat your heart out.....lol Same after my 10 year marriage....he went, left plenty of bills behind though No more plans to ever get married again Link to comment
shes2smart Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 COOL Nice to see a 'positive' story. Why cant we be as lucky.... 'Cause I'm one of God's favorites. Seriously, though....prior to getting here I was (in chronological order) - in a relationship and having an eating disorder, then I was single for a couple years, then I was involved with an alcoholic, then single and really bitter for a while, then involved with a cheater. Those are just the highlights...doesn't count anyone I dated for short periods of time. Somewhere in there was also at total of about 10 years in therapy working my ass off to get somewhat sane. Whether any of that had any bearing on being able to be part of a healthy, happy relationship or whether it's all just plain dumb luck, I dunno. Maybe a little of both. One thing I am sure of though -- time and money invested in getting your own $%*# together is never wasted, even if you stay single (by choice or by chance). Link to comment
thistime Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 [quote=shes2smart;3615376 -- time and money invested in getting your own $%*# together is never wasted, I'm gonna put that on a t-shirt or something!! Link to comment
SunniDee Posted August 6, 2009 Share Posted August 6, 2009 How old were the two of you? Did it last? How long did you two know each other before you got married? Is it a happy marriage? Are you satisfied with your partner? Is he/she with you? I was 21, he was 36. It did not last and we got divorced this year after 3 years married. It was not a happy marriage. He was very emotionally and verbally abusive, manipulative, and denied it entirely. Knew each other around a year, married after 3 months together. STUPID. Was not satisfied, I felt like I could do nothing right, even though I was constantly trying to please him. Link to comment
sharsachan Posted August 7, 2009 Share Posted August 7, 2009 How old were the two of you? Did it last? i was 22, he had just turned 25 we're still together though we have had issues; we were seperated for about 4 months but we are back together now. How long did you two know each other before you got married? we knew each other for a year, had dated for 6 months Is it a happy marriage? most of the time Are you satisfied with your partner? the only thing i could ask for more of is sex, we have different drives, but i'm okay with that too. so yes. Is he/she with you? lol, i hope so, i'd have to say he must be or else I don't think we would have gotten back together Link to comment
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