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I was seeing this girl not so long ago (we are friends now). Things just fizzled out between us and in no time she was seeing this guy who has his own business, great house and car........but butt ugly! Doesn't even treat her great either.

 

How do i know this...she told me. I think she is just after a guy who can give her financial security..there are lots of women like this. In my opinion he's welcome to her.

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I've barely seen a girl dumping her boyfriend for someone being "better looking" - perhaps only pre-teen and early teen girls would do that...

 

Yeah, you don't see that with girls too often. It seems like guys do that all the time though.

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Yes. Last case we were involved about a year and then she left with the usual need to be alone bull * * * * s etc. The guy actually seems to be quite nice, not better looking, not as smart as me but I suppose he can entertain her more. So I suppose they deserve eachother. I just wish he doesnt break her heart.

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I think so. I haven't actually spoken to her for over a month, but I did see her out with the guy she was with before me (who is an overwight, knuckle dragging idiot who watches midget porn and has "rage issues" so its somewhat insulting) the day after she got back from her 2 week holiday, She went on said holiday a little over 2 weeks after we split, and the night I saw them was in a pub she knew I would be that night. He was also messaging her on Facebook the second she changed her status back to single. And I know she was still in contact with him while we were together (she just said she was remaining on good terms as they had mutual friends). I don't know for certain, but from what I've seen, it looks like she left me for him, or went back to him within days of ending it with me.

 

Yes, I've had this happen to me, and she told me in one of the worst ways possible. A nice little text message with a picture of her and someone else naked.

 

That's horrible.

 

If it happened to me, I'd send a copy to her mother, and anyone else in her family I could get hold of.

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was with a girl for 3 years. left me for someone else, dont really know what the guy is like. Funny thing is she was saying she wanted to marry me back in feb. now shes saying she wants to marry this new guy after 4 months, good luck with that. Didnt see it coming but felt something was off for a couple of weeks before

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Not quite, I'd like to say I left her before it went to that stage. She told me she loved me and the other guy was only a friend, but went out on a date with the guy a few days later, kinda f***** up if you ask me, but you can only imagine karma will do the same to them , i guess the best thing you can do is heal yourself and make yourself a better person, as for the counterpart, im sure they will feel the pain of doing such in the long run

 

we went out for 2-2.5 years on and off..

 

the other guy tried making a move on her pretty much a few days after we broke up.. i guess he was just waiting for it

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Yup, we were together for 8 years she said "she loves me but not in love me" BS. Next thing I know its because she wanted to see a co-worker who used to be her boss.

 

Sh*it happens, but she'll be sniffing back round when that goes pear shaped I have no doubt. Then the ball will be back in my court.

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Yes, and the feeling is awful. Makes one feel like a loser, inadequate, and a whole host of negative thoughts. It makes it a whole heck of a lot harder when you think you were in love. Some people are just overly selfish though and care only for themselves. There's some relief knowing that. For me, anyway.

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I was seeing an older woman for 7 months. I wasnt ready to commit so she left me for a man that was ready for that and also closer to her in age.

 

In my stalker-like depression after it ended I researched the new guy. He is a personal trainer and has about 25 pounds of muscle on me... but I have the better face! haha

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Yep it happened to me. We had been going out for 9 months when she said she had changed over a school break. Come to find out what had changed was that she had run into an ex-boyfriend she still had feelings for and started going out with him while we were still together. I started to notice about a month before she dumped me that she was becoming distant. Oh and she didn't tell me the truth, I had to find out from a mutual friend how she had changed.

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Yes she left me after 3 years for another guy. I wouldn't say he was any better looking, in fact with his criminal record and abuse i would say i was the better person but eh whatever. Anyways i did notice it roughly a month before she dumped me (when she first met him). I had noticed subtle changes in her attitude towards me as well as sending texts and getting very happy over him in my presence. Shortly after dealing with this for a bout a month i get a call saying she is breaking up with me. Sure enough it was a day before they were going to a party and less than two weeks later they were dating.

 

I met up with her a month later and she looked me in the eyes and told me that they weren't dating and then i found out shortly after through facebook that they indeed were and she told me later she was sorry for lying to my face!. Sorry if i went on longer than i was supposed to, but that was my experience.

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Going out 5 1/2 years, she finished it with me with the "love you but not in love" BS.

 

Three months down the line of healing I find out that she started seeing another guy towards the end of our relationship. Weirdly, the other guy is a TV star from the US (my EX and I are UK-based) that she met at a convention in London.

 

I guess she's taken a step up. The guy's kind of famous, probably financially better off than me and hell, he's probably better looking too.

 

Can't lie... I hope he screws her over.

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I dumped a guy because I met a guy who treated me better. Wasn't half as rich or as good looking as my "boyfriend". But he was nicer, made me laugh, and I felt appreciated for once. I didn't end up dating him, but he helped me see that my boyfriend at the time, like everyone else said, did NOT deserve me.

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Not quite, I'd like to say I left her before it went to that stage. She told me she loved me and the other guy was only a friend, but went out on a date with the guy a few days later, kinda f***** up if you ask me, but you can only imagine karma will do the same to them , i guess the best thing you can do is heal yourself and make yourself a better person, as for the counterpart, im sure they will feel the pain of doing such in the long run

 

we went out for 2-2.5 years on and off..

 

the other guy tried making a move on her pretty much a few days after we broke up.. i guess he was just waiting for it

 

exact same story for me, 2.2 years

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Yes, I've had this happen to me, and she told me in one of the worst ways possible. A nice little text message with a picture of her and someone else naked.

 

that sickens me to hear that! what on earth did you do to deserve that?

 

i know of one girl who was cheated on, so she made a porn film of her and a bloke, and took it home told her boyfriend it was a great film she borrowed sat down with him and put it on! according to her, she has never ever seen a man so white in all his life!

 

yes my ex jumped into a relationship and moved him in a few weeks after i left, it didnt surprise me at all, at the time she was diagnosed with bpd. so i guess it was to be expected. she likes to shop for men on the internet, it caused her marriage to break up,anyhow i was the first fella she never shopped for on the net, she found her current man on, wait for it! FACEBOOK!!!!" now aint that a surprise!

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