lostincognito Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 so ive been dating this guy off and on for a year. he's a bit of a bad boy and im sure thats what attracted me to him. the longest we've dated straight was only a month. since then he'll come back to me tell me everything i wanna hear we'll have "alone time" if you know what im saying and then a few days later he wont even talk to me anymore. no matter how hard i try i cant say no to him. a part of me only thinks that he wants just sex and thats why he comes to me. but i love him and i dont know what to do about it. should i wait of just try and move on? im so confused. somebody help please =[[ Link to comment
High5girl Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Well, I think you answered your own question. he'll come back to me tell me everything i wanna hear we'll have "alone time" if you know what im saying and then a few days later he wont even talk to me anymore. This doesn't sound like a man who wants to be with you. If he's only coming to you for sex...again, you answered your own question. If he has no desire to date you for longer than a month...it doesn't seem like he is that much into you or it sounds like he doesn't want to be committed right now. I think it's best to move on. Cut off contact and tell him no. Link to comment
lostincognito Posted July 26, 2009 Author Share Posted July 26, 2009 thanks. thats very helpful. =] Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Tell him no to sex and see how long he sticks around. Link to comment
lostincognito Posted July 26, 2009 Author Share Posted July 26, 2009 Tell him no to sex and see how long he sticks around. thanks. i'll really try. its probably for the best. Link to comment
High5girl Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 I think once you remove him from your life...you will heal. Tell yourself that you are better than this....and BELIEVE it too! Link to comment
lostincognito Posted July 26, 2009 Author Share Posted July 26, 2009 I think once you remove him from your life...you will heal. Tell yourself that you are better than this....and BELIEVE it too! it will deffinetly be a hard road to take. but i appreciate it. and i WILL try my hardest to succeed at it. Link to comment
zzprometheuszz Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 so ive been dating this guy off and on for a year. he's a bit of a bad boy and im sure thats what attracted me to him. the longest we've dated straight was only a month. since then he'll come back to me tell me everything i wanna hear we'll have "alone time" if you know what im saying and then a few days later he wont even talk to me anymore. no matter how hard i try i cant say no to him. a part of me only thinks that he wants just sex and thats why he comes to me. but i love him and i dont know what to do about it. should i wait of just try and move on? im so confused. somebody help please =[[ I think you can do better than that. he must be really smooth or good looking. You have too much self-respect to stick around with a guy like that Link to comment
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