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Hi all, feeling really down and extremely sensitive. My friend sent a few texts today, i was really glad to hear from him. I suggested we have a chat on the phone and we agreed on a time.

 

Unfortunately i didnt get to ring him, but sent a text to explain i had been held up, and was it to late to call. His reply basically said not to bother calling, when i apologised i got a reply of lol!!

 

He hurt me, we couldnt talk earlier because he was busy. Dont understand him!

 

Only seems to want to talk when it suits him.

 

Any thoughts guys?

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Well friends are different than boyfriends. Friends aren't committed to you and they don't have to talk to you all the time. I think his "lol" might have been like a "haha, sounds pretty hectic" type of laugh. Not laughing at you. Boyfriends should make time for their girlfriends, but a guy friend isn't necessarily going to drop what he's doing to chat. It was good for him before, but then he got busy and it was no longer a good time. Cut him some slack. Call up some of your other friends to chat if you're feeling lonely. Just don't expect too much out of your friends, you know?

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Well friends are different than boyfriends. Friends aren't committed to you and they don't have to talk to you all the time. I think his "lol" might have been like a "haha, sounds pretty hectic" type of laugh. Not laughing at you. Boyfriends should make time for their girlfriends, but a guy friend isn't necessarily going to drop what he's doing to chat. It was good for him before, but then he got busy and it was no longer a good time. Cut him some slack. Call up some of your other friends to chat if you're feeling lonely. Just don't expect too much out of your friends, you know?

 

I understand what you are saying, i wasnt feeling lonely, just wanted to catch up with and see how things were going as i have been quite supportive over the last couple of months. If he doesnt want to chat that is fine with me, maybe i shouldnt make myself so available to him and others!

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I understand what you are saying, i wasnt feeling lonely, just wanted to catch up with and see how things were going as i have been quite supportive over the last couple of months. If he doesnt want to chat that is fine with me, maybe i shouldnt make myself so available to him and others!

 

I understand. I think we all feel that way sometimes. I know that I get lonely a lot and just want to talk. Call up your other friends when you feel lonely, or maybe someone in your family. I hang out with my brothers when I'm bored and lonely.

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How much later was it after the agreed time that you sent him a text?

 

And why did you send a text instead of calling him?

 

Hi, i sent him the text literally 5minutes after the agreed time, i didnt call him because i was in my sisters house with a lot of family members, would be very anti social of me to retreat to an empty room to call him. Really got the impression that he was not happy that i didnt call him.

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